Re: Has 4S influenced your career choice?

February 18, 2010

I used to be in a band with a guy who was obsessed with trains. He used to go

to a hobby store that sold them all the time.

He befriended the man who owned the store and when he retired the man let him

take over the store.

Check around and see if someone is " over " their biz, maybe you can take over or

buy them out over time.

I take care of my sick dad and I get $ that way cuz he can never be alone. I

wouldn't be able to stand a regular job right now.

I wish I had the patience to write books and the guarantee that they would sell,

that or write songs for someone else like Lady Gaga or someone that really

cashes in.

I probably would be a good tv writer but I live in Florida so not happening.

If I don't croak before my parents, I don't know what will become of me.

>

> Some people here have mentioned that 4S contributes to their introversion.

That's the case with me, too. I dislike being around a lot of people for

too-long periods of time. And I absolutely detest sitting in a cube farm--a

requirement for my current job. The SOUNDS play a significant part in that.

>

> I'm a technical writer, which is a relatively solitary way to make a living.

No problem there (though I DO have a problem churning files that nobody really

reads anyway, and which all end up in the recycling bin). I'm a nice guy, but am

not good at or interested in workplace politics. Just not good at fakin' it, and

you have to be invested in your work to be good at that stuff in the first

place. I am *constantly* plotting my escape from cubicle hell. It's especially

hellish when you have to share your personal space with some inconsiderate

F***wad who's always gabbing on the phone, slurping coffee, or chewing gum.

That's not me right now, but it has been and very well may be again. I just

cannot, WILL NOT tolerate it. The last time I had to share a cube with a

cud-muncher, I started telecommuting full-time--only possible because my boss

didn't know I was doing it.

>

> The thing is, I know the difference. I *have* had work where I was largely in

control of my own day and personal interactions. It was FANTASTIC! I was a much

happier person. Unfortunately, my wife wasn't OK with it (dare I admit? it

wasn't entirely legal), so ultimately I had to return to file-churning. But I

despair at the prospect of doing this, and hearing *all that,* for the rest of

my working life--at least 25 more years. I just can't tolerate that prospect. If

that's how it's going to be, take me out behind the shed and put me out of my

misery now.

>

> After much thought, I've decided that what I really want to do is open a

garden supplies store. I am very knowlegable about gardening, which happens to

be the most popular hobby in America. I have an entrepeneurial bent. I am a

natural at marketing. Misanthropy aside, I'm actually a very friendly guy and

would provide excellent service. I have a high tolerance for risk, not attached

to the illusory safety of a regular paycheck. I am no stranger to long hours or

hard work. Sure, gum-chewers would come into the store, but they wouldn't be

around me for eight hours of the day. Down side? Starting such a venture would

require a large capital outlay. At 43, I have less time to recover from mistakes

than a younger person would--and more to lose. Still, I am thinking hard about

how to make it happen. First step is to write a business plan.

>

> What about other folks here? How has 4S influenced your interactions with

people? The way you make your living? The way you move through life?

>

> Curious,

>

> Jay

>

February 18, 2010

Oh heck yes has it. I avoid people who hurt my ears like the plague if possible, and just try to work around them if I can't (which can be torture), and if I get a job interview, I have to be upfront and say "I have extremely sensitive hearing -I can even hear dog whistles- and in order to be productive, I need a quiet room where I can work by myself or with one other person, and just listen to music." This can work out really well if you do physical labor that isn't in dangerous places; I worked alone a lot at a stable when I was younger.Anyway, the fact I was honest right off the bat about my ears and my insomnia, and showed samples of some of the jewelry I could make, meant I was hired on the spot for this little craft store. ^n_n^ Y'know how people tell ya "Go with your strengths"? They're absolutely right. I've been at that store since March 2007, and if y'all don't mind a little boasting, I keep that place ORGANIZED. My boss has told me I'm bulletproof; it would take showing up drugged or hungover to get me fired. I know the job market is horrible right now, and maybe your strengths aren't always marketable. But believe me, folks, there ARE understanding bosses out there, and when you find one who really needs your help, you'll have it made. Family members and friends can come to understand the problem, too. = M-F.> To: Soundsensitivity > Date: Thu, 18 Feb 2010 22:10:36 +0000> Subject: Has 4S influenced your career choice?> > Some people here have mentioned that 4S contributes to their introversion. That's the case with me, too. I dislike being around a lot of people for too-long periods of time. And I absolutely detest sitting in a cube farm--a requirement for my current job. The SOUNDS play a significant part in that. > > I'm a technical writer, which is a relatively solitary way to make a living. No problem there (though I DO have a problem churning files that nobody really reads anyway, and which all end up in the recycling bin). I'm a nice guy, but am not good at or interested in workplace politics. Just not good at fakin' it, and you have to be invested in your work to be good at that stuff in the first place. I am *constantly* plotting my escape from cubicle hell. It's especially hellish when you have to share your personal space with some inconsiderate F***wad who's always gabbing on the phone, slurping coffee, or chewing gum. That's not me right now, but it has been and very well may be again. I just cannot, WILL NOT tolerate it. The last time I had to share a cube with a cud-muncher, I started telecommuting full-time--only possible because my boss didn't know I was doing it.> > The thing is, I know the difference. I *have* had work where I was largely in control of my own day and personal interactions. It was FANTASTIC! I was a much happier person. Unfortunately, my wife wasn't OK with it (dare I admit? it wasn't entirely legal), so ultimately I had to return to file-churning. But I despair at the prospect of doing this, and hearing *all that,* for the rest of my working life--at least 25 more years. I just can't tolerate that prospect. If that's how it's going to be, take me out behind the shed and put me out of my misery now. > > After much thought, I've decided that what I really want to do is open a garden supplies store. I am very knowlegable about gardening, which happens to be the most popular hobby in America. I have an entrepeneurial bent. I am a natural at marketing. Misanthropy aside, I'm actually a very friendly guy and would provide excellent service. I have a high tolerance for risk, not attached to the illusory safety of a regular paycheck. I am no stranger to long hours or hard work. Sure, gum-chewers would come into the store, but they wouldn't be around me for eight hours of the day. Down side? Starting such a venture would require a large capital outlay. At 43, I have less time to recover from mistakes than a younger person would--and more to lose. Still, I am thinking hard about how to make it happen. First step is to write a business plan. > > What about other folks here? How has 4S influenced your interactions with people? The way you make your living? The way you move through life? > > Curious, > > Jay Hotmail: Powerful Free email with security by Microsoft. Get it now.

February 18, 2010

I encourage you to follow your dream. Your spirit comes through even on Internet when you talk about gardening.

I like being around people very much. But I abhor loud sounds and chemicals. I work with children. I'm in a position to take gum away, stop pencil tapping, etc. As for the stink and noise from the hallway. I shut my door a lot and my window is always open. That can come across as unfriendly. I be sure and tell people they are welcome in and it is shut because of the noises.

I don't know how people thrive amongst so much noise and toxins. That just drives me crazy. But that is just me. I'd probably be in an insane asylum if I lived like most people (no joke). Centered and balanced I do quite well. That is, when I'm in control of my environment. Don't know what would become of me if that were to change.

My family is and has always been quite hostile to my sensitivities. They get very angry with me (???). Which is why I am very greatful and appreciative of you parents giving love and understanding to your children, I'd always longed for from my own family.

Subject: Has 4S influenced your career choice?To: Soundsensitivity Date: Thursday, February 18, 2010, 2:10 PM

Some people here have mentioned that 4S contributes to their introversion. That's the case with me, too. I dislike being around a lot of people for too-long periods of time. And I absolutely detest sitting in a cube farm--a requirement for my current job. The SOUNDS play a significant part in that. I'm a technical writer, which is a relatively solitary way to make a living. No problem there (though I DO have a problem churning files that nobody really reads anyway, and which all end up in the recycling bin). I'm a nice guy, but am not good at or interested in workplace politics. Just not good at fakin' it, and you have to be invested in your work to be good at that stuff in the first place. I am *constantly* plotting my escape from cubicle hell. It's especially hellish when you have to share your personal space with some inconsiderate F***wad who's always gabbing on the phone, slurping coffee, or chewing gum. That's not me right now, but it

has been and very well may be again. I just cannot, WILL NOT tolerate it. The last time I had to share a cube with a cud-muncher, I started telecommuting full-time--only possible because my boss didn't know I was doing it.The thing is, I know the difference. I *have* had work where I was largely in control of my own day and personal interactions. It was FANTASTIC! I was a much happier person. Unfortunately, my wife wasn't OK with it (dare I admit? it wasn't entirely legal), so ultimately I had to return to file-churning. But I despair at the prospect of doing this, and hearing *all that,* for the rest of my working life--at least 25 more years. I just can't tolerate that prospect. If that's how it's going to be, take me out behind the shed and put me out of my misery now. After much thought, I've decided that what I really want to do is open a garden supplies store. I am very knowlegable about gardening, which happens to be the most

popular hobby in America. I have an entrepeneurial bent. I am a natural at marketing. Misanthropy aside, I'm actually a very friendly guy and would provide excellent service. I have a high tolerance for risk, not attached to the illusory safety of a regular paycheck. I am no stranger to long hours or hard work. Sure, gum-chewers would come into the store, but they wouldn't be around me for eight hours of the day. Down side? Starting such a venture would require a large capital outlay. At 43, I have less time to recover from mistakes than a younger person would--and more to lose. Still, I am thinking hard about how to make it happen. First step is to write a business plan. What about other folks here? How has 4S influenced your interactions with people? The way you make your living? The way you move through life? Curious, Jay

February 18, 2010

I meant to say "grateful" not "greatful".

Sheesh. Long day.

From: actionfigure7 <frescaphile@ gmail.com>Subject: Has 4S influenced your career choice?To: Soundsensitivity@ yahoogroups. comDate: Thursday, February 18, 2010, 2:10 PM

Some people here have mentioned that 4S contributes to their introversion. That's the case with me, too. I dislike being around a lot of people for too-long periods of time. And I absolutely detest sitting in a cube farm--a requirement for my current job. The SOUNDS play a significant part in that. I'm a technical writer, which is a relatively solitary way to make a living. No problem there (though I DO have a problem churning files that nobody really reads anyway, and which all end up in the recycling bin). I'm a nice guy, but am not good at or interested in workplace politics. Just not good at fakin' it, and you have to be invested in your work to be good at that stuff in the first place. I am *constantly* plotting my escape from cubicle hell. It's especially hellish when you have to share your personal space with some inconsiderate F***wad who's always gabbing on the phone, slurping coffee, or chewing gum. That's not me right now, but it

has been and very well may be again. I just cannot, WILL NOT tolerate it. The last time I had to share a cube with a cud-muncher, I started telecommuting full-time--only possible because my boss didn't know I was doing it.The thing is, I know the difference. I *have* had work where I was largely in control of my own day and personal interactions. It was FANTASTIC! I was a much happier person. Unfortunately, my wife wasn't OK with it (dare I admit? it wasn't entirely legal), so ultimately I had to return to file-churning. But I despair at the prospect of doing this, and hearing *all that,* for the rest of my working life--at least 25 more years. I just can't tolerate that prospect. If that's how it's going to be, take me out behind the shed and put me out of my misery now. After much thought, I've decided that what I really want to do is open a garden supplies store. I am very knowlegable about gardening, which happens to be the most

popular hobby in America. I have an entrepeneurial bent. I am a natural at marketing. Misanthropy aside, I'm actually a very friendly guy and would provide excellent service. I have a high tolerance for risk, not attached to the illusory safety of a regular paycheck. I am no stranger to long hours or hard work. Sure, gum-chewers would come into the store, but they wouldn't be around me for eight hours of the day. Down side? Starting such a venture would require a large capital outlay. At 43, I have less time to recover from mistakes than a younger person would--and more to lose. Still, I am thinking hard about how to make it happen. First step is to write a business plan. What about other folks here? How has 4S influenced your interactions with people? The way you make your living? The way you move through life? Curious,

Jay

February 18, 2010

Hi Jay. Funny you should mention that you want to open a garden supply store.

My husband and I both work in greenhouses for a top perennial producer in the

US. He is a grower, and I am over production/shipping. I've been in this

business for almost 18 years now (since age 19). I LOVE IT! It's a great job

for me because I usually am working alone (or around just a few people) and

food/drink is not allowed in the greenhouses. Plus there are lots of fans

around that provide background noise to cover up those gum chewers. I go home

for lunch to avoid that horrid lunchroom. I love being around the live plants

(especially in winter), and in the sunshine or artificial light all day.

Working with plants and dirt is therapeutic to me. If I'm not at work, I'm

still playing in my own garden.

So... if opening a garden supply store is what you truly want, and you can find

a way to manage it.... I say go for it! Best of luck to you!!