Rage in addition to noise? People who act like they are posing for a camera

[Guest guest]

I am sitting here after being unwarrantedly upset about an attitude. AN

ATTITUDE! My husband was standing in a certain way (I call it posing) like he

thinks he is special or sexy or an on-camera model. He is not a model, not even

close, he is 62 years old and it creeps me out! He was turning his plate

around and around clinking it and hitting his fork to the plate and then poking

his fork in the air with little jerky " twirls and pokes " as though he were in a

movie close-up and being the " cool guy " . I sometimes have had these feelings

toward a sister. She rubs her hand through her hair and flings her hair back

with an insincere laugh..... it is the same ATTITUDE of " oh, the camera is on

me, Aren't I divine?----posing. It is the same feeling I get when someone is

cracking their gum...I get crazy upset. AND it can happen when there is no

noise! There just is that uprising of intolerance inside me for seemingly no

reason! I must escape from the insincerity of their misplaced vanity! Why do

I care? Why can't I laugh and ignore it?