can we talk......or can i talk....

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CAN WE TALK.......omg, my worst annoyness is my husband...i have tried everything...but divorce...i feel im being tortured, finally got him to use the headphones to watch tv and not blast me out of living room, but then so quiet in room finally but all I can hear is the most loud annoying sounds I have ever heard...so I end up turning volume up instead of mute to drown him out...(yes I use other rooms and try to stay away, but sometimes you cant)...

I could list them but you all know what i mean but multiply it 100 times...I have been around many noises and his are the loudest ever...I have excellent hearing have always said I can hear a ant crawl up a wall behind me, so excellent hearing has made this 4s more torture,...feels I cant win for losing....and he is hard of hearing, how ironic..and also makes him talk louder ......I'm just venting and not a bad or mean person, but , who is hurting and feels shes going to explode....(reminds me of that tv show...SNAPPED...about women who snap and kill their husbands, lol.....omg so many women do it, they made a show about it...lol)....and also to see if anyone has any more ideas besides noice canceling headphones....

While im ranting...here is sample from the last hour...slurping and sipping his coffee, and you can hear him swallow across the room...someone told me thats called hollow head...lol..to funny it does sound that way to..constant clearing throat, blowing nose, and he has awful back problems so he doesnt make a move he isnt moaning and groaning constantly, and i mean constantly.....im feel tortured then feel guilty for seeming to be insensetive....he ate some water melon for lunch...oh my, the slurping and sucking and yes chewing noises were worst ever...he believes chewing everything certain number of times...lol...this is getting funny now even to me...but how do you chew watermelon so long......he is also a mouth breather...besides all the body noises he produces , burping etc....is this what we have to look forward to in old age...

His favorite recliner is noisest chair in world and he wont replace it, he loves that chair...he lost his partial, so now he doesnt have half his teeth, you should hear him chew now...takes even longer to chew each bite 28 times...lol.... he also while headphones on and I get a little quiet, he grunts a 'oh yeah' , type noise to the tv, everytime he aggrees or surprised by something...it's funny but awful...I want to record him so bad and play back to him, but he probably couldnt hear it or think im crazy or hurt his feelings......

Maybe this good for me, i'm laughing now.....But also starting to feel guilty and insensetive to his old age and ways...I'm pretty sure most he cant help and i'm the one with 4s....so in closing so glad I found this forum and learning so much and feel better I'm not the only one...I really thought I was crazy, and didnt like to be around people and go out....thanks for listening...hope I didnt annoy anyone...lol