Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

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I agree with what you wrote, especially - Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious. - in other words, our perseption is our reality, not everyone elses.

Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. I could not agree more.

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 3:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

just to be clear, My point about the cards was that it is something I have WISHED I could do, daydreamed about, but not something I plan on doing, as I agree with all you have said...the fact is there is no way to make the world comply to our issues no matter how badly we would like them to. Although I did see a post on the fb group about how the rules were changed regarding gum chewing/food in class due to a student with Misophonia being proactive with the Student Disabilities office and working with the Professor, that would have been a dream come true when I was in college. Kaci Anne McCall Professional FACE PAINTING, personalized crafts, and more! Please visit:http://www.MysticalRainbowCreations.com "What a privilege to be here on the planet to contribute your unique donation to humankind. Each face in the rainbow of colors that populate our world is precious and special." ~ Dees

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity > Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 4:30 PM Subject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I agree with what you wrote, especially - Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious. - in other words, our perseption is our reality, not everyone elses.

Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. I could not agree more.

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 3:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

just to be clear, My point about the cards was that it is something I have WISHED I could do, daydreamed about, but not something I plan on doing, as I agree with all you have said...the fact is there is no way to make the world comply to our issues no matter how badly we would like them to. Although I did see a post on the fb group about how the rules were changed regarding gum chewing/food in class due to a student with Misophonia being proactive with the Student Disabilities office and working with the Professor, that would have been a dream come true when I was in college. Kaci Anne McCall Professional FACE PAINTING, personalized crafts, and more! Please visit:http://www.MysticalRainbowCreations.com "What a privilege to be here on the planet to contribute your unique donation to humankind. Each face in the rainbow of colors that populate our world is precious and special." ~ Dees

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity > Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 4:30 PM Subject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I agree with what you wrote, especially - Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious. - in other words, our perseption is our reality, not everyone elses.

Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. I could not agree more.

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 3:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

Oops! I meant "wear"... )

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

Oops! I meant "wear"... )

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But itWould make for an interesting conversation Piece. Sent from my iPhone

The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a "marketing" kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the "lighter side of" )To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But itWould make for an interesting conversation Piece. Sent from my iPhoneOn Dec 4, 2011, at

5:35 AM, Paris wrote: The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way. To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia. Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:) Mike To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they

would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this

point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]



Hi ,

With my latex allergy we have t-shirt that state "no latex". I have hand out cards to give since folks are scared when they see me in my respirator. I hand them a card explaining why I am wearing it, short and sweet, and it helps facilitate communication. SO, it may not be too much of an "out there" suggestion.

prn

Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

[Guest guest]



Hi ,

With my latex allergy we have t-shirt that state "no latex". I have hand out cards to give since folks are scared when they see me in my respirator. I hand them a card explaining why I am wearing it, short and sweet, and it helps facilitate communication. SO, it may not be too much of an "out there" suggestion.

prn

Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

[Guest guest]

I would totally wear one! To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Sunday, December 4, 2011 12:58 PM Subject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff



Hi ,

With my latex allergy we have t-shirt that state "no latex". I have hand out cards to give since folks are scared when they see me in my respirator. I hand them a card explaining why I am wearing it, short and sweet, and it helps facilitate communication. SO, it may not be too much of an "out there" suggestion.

prn

Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

[Guest guest]

I like the tshirt idea but I think it should say:Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.Nearly everything you do will anger me. I'm going to try really hard to not yell or walk away can you please try really hard to be quiet.

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Cannon ;

To:

Soundsensitivity <Soundsensitivity >;

Subject:

Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Sent:

Sun, Dec 4, 2011 9:38:41 PM

I would totally wear one! To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Sunday, December 4, 2011 12:58 PM Subject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff



Hi ,

With my latex allergy we have t-shirt that state " no latex " . I have hand out cards to give since folks are scared when they see me in my respirator. I hand them a card explaining why I am wearing it, short and sweet, and it helps facilitate communication. SO, it may not be too much of an " out there " suggestion.

prn

Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

[Guest guest]

I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard that says: "Misophonia! Look it up."

It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a "marketing" kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the "lighter side of" )To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But itWould make for an interesting conversation Piece. Sent from my iPhoneOn Dec 4, 2011, at

5:35 AM, Paris wrote: The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way. To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia. Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:) Mike To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they

would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this

point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

I like that one!

I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard that says: "Misophonia! Look it up."

It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a "marketing" kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the "lighter side of" )

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But it

Would make for an interesting conversation

Piece.

Sent from my iPhone

The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how W E expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

I like that one!

I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard that says: "Misophonia! Look it up."

It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a "marketing" kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the "lighter side of" )

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But it

Would make for an interesting conversation

Piece.

Sent from my iPhone

The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how W E expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

Fri, 9 Dec 2011, at 12:18, Beth said:

> 

>

>I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about

>misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique

>people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard

>that says: " Misophonia!  Look it up. "

>

And don't forget bumper stickers!!

[Guest guest]

Fri, 9 Dec 2011, at 12:18, Beth said:

> 

>

>I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about

>misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique

>people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard

>that says: " Misophonia!  Look it up. "

>

And don't forget bumper stickers!!

[Guest guest]

Beth, that sounds like a good idea. Some way to get the message out there in hopes of more attention to misophonia and more studying on it.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Fri, December 9, 2011 1:18:30 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard that says: "Misophonia! Look it up."

It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a "marketing" kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the "lighter side of" )

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But it

Would make for an interesting conversation

Piece.

Sent from my iPhone

The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28

PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

Beth, that sounds like a good idea. Some way to get the message out there in hopes of more attention to misophonia and more studying on it.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Fri, December 9, 2011 1:18:30 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard that says: "Misophonia! Look it up."

It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a "marketing" kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the "lighter side of" )

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But it

Would make for an interesting conversation

Piece.

Sent from my iPhone

The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28

PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

Hopefully in time the general public will know what Misophonia is or at least have a general idea.

When that happens it will so easy to just tell someone " please don't snap your gum so loud, I have Misophonia!"

That fact alone would go a long way in making this condition more tolerable.

I feel that we are on the way there, thanks in large part to this site.

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Friday, December 9, 2011 3:30 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Beth, that sounds like a good idea. Some way to get the message out there in hopes of more attention to misophonia and more studying on it.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Fri, December 9, 2011 1:18:30 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard that says: "Misophonia! Look it up."

It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a "marketing" kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the "lighter side of" )

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But it

Would make for an interesting conversation

Piece.

Sent from my iPhone

The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011

12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

Hopefully in time the general public will know what Misophonia is or at least have a general idea.

When that happens it will so easy to just tell someone " please don't snap your gum so loud, I have Misophonia!"

That fact alone would go a long way in making this condition more tolerable.

I feel that we are on the way there, thanks in large part to this site.

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Friday, December 9, 2011 3:30 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Beth, that sounds like a good idea. Some way to get the message out there in hopes of more attention to misophonia and more studying on it.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Fri, December 9, 2011 1:18:30 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard that says: "Misophonia! Look it up."

It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a "marketing" kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the "lighter side of" )

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But it

Would make for an interesting conversation

Piece.

Sent from my iPhone

The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way.

To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.

Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:)

Mike

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011

12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is

a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

…and with so many people carrying smart phones with them, they can quickly google it right then and there. From: Soundsensitivity [mailto:Soundsensitivity ] On Behalf Of ParisSent: Friday, December 09, 2011 3:31 PMTo: Soundsensitivity Subject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff Beth, that sounds like a good idea. Some way to get the message out there in hopes of more attention to misophonia and more studying on it. To: " Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Fri, December 9, 2011 1:18:30 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard that says: " Misophonia! Look it up. " It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a " marketing " kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the " lighter side of " ) To: " Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But itWould make for an interesting conversation Piece. Sent from my iPhone The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way. To: " Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff How about a T-shirt that says... Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:) Mike To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is " wrong " , is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say, " Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow. " but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!! " ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not " wrong,bad " for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other " offender " after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

…and with so many people carrying smart phones with them, they can quickly google it right then and there. From: Soundsensitivity [mailto:Soundsensitivity ] On Behalf Of ParisSent: Friday, December 09, 2011 3:31 PMTo: Soundsensitivity Subject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff Beth, that sounds like a good idea. Some way to get the message out there in hopes of more attention to misophonia and more studying on it. To: " Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Fri, December 9, 2011 1:18:30 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff I have another idea: how about not providing all the information about misophonia at once? A simpler message might be more effective, and pique people's interest. Hand out a card or wear a Tshirt or put up a billboard that says: " Misophonia! Look it up. " It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a " marketing " kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the " lighter side of " ) To: " Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But itWould make for an interesting conversation Piece. Sent from my iPhone The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way. To: " Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff How about a T-shirt that says... Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia.Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:) Mike To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is " wrong " , is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they would.WE imagine we would of course say, " Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow. " but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!! " ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not " wrong,bad " for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other " offender " after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3

[Guest guest]

I totally would have the courage to wear it and talk about it. I need to wear it at work!! The more we talk about this and get it out there the sooner and easier it will be to openly talk about it!! To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Sunday, December 4, 2011 9:34 AM Subject: Re: my

response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff

It would! We should have face on the t-shirt with someone chewing with their mouth open, and food falling all over. I really feel it would be a fun way to open up a conversation about our situation. We would need a "marketing" kind of person who has an out going personality, just ready to make conversation and answer questions, would be ideal! ) Before we know it, it will be hip to have misophonia! Just kidding! I know first hand how hard this is. This conversation is the "lighter side of" )To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sun, December 4, 2011 10:36:37 AMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff I was just kidding about the t-shirts. But itWould make for an interesting conversation Piece. Sent from my iPhoneOn Dec 4, 2011, at

5:35 AM, Paris wrote: The t-shirt idea does seem like a cute idea! I wouldn't have the courage to ware it, but I think it would call attention to the situation in a laid back way. To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Sat, December 3, 2011 10:35:52 PMSubject: Re: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff How about a T-shirt that says...

Hi, my name is _____ and I have Misophonia. Please don't eat, chew gum, snort, breath, tap,twirl you hair,hum,cough or wear flip-flops around me:) Mike To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:28 PMSubject: my response to the idea of handing out cards...and stuff Id have to say that the idea of handing out little cards sounds nice in theory but I don't believe it would be successful. here's why..... giving someone a card that asks them to stop doing something they are doing, and obviously dont think is "wrong", is expecting that when they read the card they will respond how WE expect they

would.WE imagine we would of course say," Oh excuse me , sure I will stop chewing like a gross cow." but that is because WE have a prejudice against that particular behavior. many people dont.Yes ,I understand the thoughts of.. " HOW could they not realize how disgusting that is?!!" ... but they dont.Peoples' truth is based on their beliefs, whether they be conscious or subconscious.and heres the tough part... they may stop some times, but not all times..and when they dont... the feelings of rage and anger will get WORSE for you!Our condition is in our mind, not in our ears. It is a combination of the way we are hardwired, chemically or neurologically AND a conditioned response.WE have control issues. Whether our condition stems from feeling out of control as children or if our feelings of fear/safety/acceptance and lack thereof are the catalyst for our condition it is impossible to say at this

point.What i can say is that the most effective way to handle other people is to begin cultivating the belief that they are not "wrong,bad" for what they do.. just that they are different, and that is OK.Instilling that belief over and over again helps with the initial rush of rage when confronted with a gum chewer or feet shuffler or any other "offender" after that , since there doesn't seem to be a total cure yet, ear plugs are very handy and so is escape.<3