Guest guest Posted November 2, 2011 Report Share Posted November 2, 2011 I added a post not to long ago about the same thing. I have issues with certain, may I say, " sounds " also. Not always, but at times, sounds get to me and I cant get my mind together to enjoy it. It sucks when it invades your intimate life. Im so sorry. > > My trigger sounds become more intense the more time I spend with a > person. I have been living with my boyfriend for five months now and I > am having trouble getting intimate with him. When we first moved in > together this was't an issue because the triggers hadn't set in yet but > now almost everything he does wit his mouth sets off a reaction. Is it > just me or do any of you have trouble being intimate with a partner as a > result of the 4s? > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 2, 2011 Report Share Posted November 2, 2011 I added a post not to long ago about the same thing. I have issues with certain, may I say, " sounds " also. Not always, but at times, sounds get to me and I cant get my mind together to enjoy it. It sucks when it invades your intimate life. Im so sorry. > > My trigger sounds become more intense the more time I spend with a > person. I have been living with my boyfriend for five months now and I > am having trouble getting intimate with him. When we first moved in > together this was't an issue because the triggers hadn't set in yet but > now almost everything he does wit his mouth sets off a reaction. Is it > just me or do any of you have trouble being intimate with a partner as a > result of the 4s? > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 2, 2011 Report Share Posted November 2, 2011 I added a post not to long ago about the same thing. I have issues with certain, may I say, " sounds " also. Not always, but at times, sounds get to me and I cant get my mind together to enjoy it. It sucks when it invades your intimate life. Im so sorry. > > My trigger sounds become more intense the more time I spend with a > person. I have been living with my boyfriend for five months now and I > am having trouble getting intimate with him. When we first moved in > together this was't an issue because the triggers hadn't set in yet but > now almost everything he does wit his mouth sets off a reaction. Is it > just me or do any of you have trouble being intimate with a partner as a > result of the 4s? > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 4, 2011 Report Share Posted November 4, 2011 My boyfriend, of almost 3 years, and i are having relationship troubles...I cant stand the thought of having any " intimate relations " with him, or anyone. I have no sexual attraction to anyone. We he kisses me i just want to punch him.lol. I dont know id its the sounds or what, but i get the same feelings as if someone was chewing gum. I cant even stand to be around him. I dont know if this has anything to do with my 4S, or if i am falling out of love,, or my birthcontrol horomones... idk. I just wish life was not so difficult.. > > > > My trigger sounds become more intense the more time I spend with a > > person. I have been living with my boyfriend for five months now and I > > am having trouble getting intimate with him. When we first moved in > > together this was't an issue because the triggers hadn't set in yet but > > now almost everything he does wit his mouth sets off a reaction. Is it > > just me or do any of you have trouble being intimate with a partner as a > > result of the 4s? > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 5, 2011 Report Share Posted November 5, 2011 That happened with my last boyfriend, and well I got a new one so that didn't last because I couldn't even be in the same room as him or sit next to him. I'm sure that the 4s has everything to do with this difficulty in being intimate. I cant watch this person eat or be any where near him how could I possibly get in the mood? It's scary I really love my boyfriend and I want to be able to have dinner with him wake up happy next to him and not wake up in the middle of a reaction because of noises he makes when he sleeps. I feel like I am doomed to be alone because of all my triggers. There has to be some thing we can do.To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Friday, November 4, 2011 12:57 PMSubject: Re: Intimacy Issues My boyfriend, of almost 3 years, and i are having relationship troubles...I cant stand the thought of having any "intimate relations" with him, or anyone. I have no sexual attraction to anyone. We he kisses me i just want to punch him.lol. I dont know id its the sounds or what, but i get the same feelings as if someone was chewing gum. I cant even stand to be around him. I dont know if this has anything to do with my 4S, or if i am falling out of love,, or my birthcontrol horomones... idk. I just wish life was not so difficult.. > > > > My trigger sounds become more intense the more time I spend with a > > person. I have been living with my boyfriend for five months now and I > > am having trouble getting intimate with him. When we first moved in > > together this was't an issue because the triggers hadn't set in yet but > > now almost everything he does wit his mouth sets off a reaction. Is it > > just me or do any of you have trouble being intimate with a partner as a > > result of the 4s? > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 5, 2011 Report Share Posted November 5, 2011 I know, he keeps saying things have to change...i wish they could but they cant. We are still hanging on by a thread, i am afraid to let him go bc i know once i get out of this relationship i doubt i will ever have another one. i am so busy with school right now i barely have time for him, much less a new relationship that reqires even more time, and then if i am out of one for a while i doubt i would ever want to have another relationship. .I like being alone but fear that i will be alone my whole life, not sure if i like that thought. lol. To: "Soundsensitivity " <Soundsensitivity >Sent: Saturday, November 5, 2011 4:58 PMSubject: Re: Re: Intimacy Issues That happened with my last boyfriend, and well I got a new one so that didn't last because I couldn't even be in the same room as him or sit next to him. I'm sure that the 4s has everything to do with this difficulty in being intimate. I cant watch this person eat or be any where near him how could I possibly get in the mood? It's scary I really love my boyfriend and I want to be able to have dinner with him wake up happy next to him and not wake up in the middle of a reaction because of noises he makes when he sleeps. I feel like I am doomed to be alone because of all my triggers. There has to be some thing we can do.To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Friday, November 4, 2011 12:57 PMSubject: Re: Intimacy Issues My boyfriend, of almost 3 years, and i are having relationship troubles...I cant stand the thought of having any "intimate relations" with him, or anyone. I have no sexual attraction to anyone. We he kisses me i just want to punch him.lol. I dont know id its the sounds or what, but i get the same feelings as if someone was chewing gum. I cant even stand to be around him. I dont know if this has anything to do with my 4S, or if i am falling out of love,, or my birthcontrol horomones... idk. I just wish life was not so difficult.. > > > > My trigger sounds become more intense the more time I spend with a > > person. I have been living with my boyfriend for five months now and I > > am having trouble getting intimate with him. When we first moved in > > together this was't an issue because the triggers hadn't set in yet but > > now almost everything he does wit his mouth sets off a reaction. Is it > > just me or do any of you have trouble being intimate with a partner as a > > result of the 4s? > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2011 Report Share Posted November 7, 2011 These issues have been ddressed on the other site and it is all in digest form so you can read all the comments together in one spot and add your questions and comments to it. Many of us experience a honeymoon period before sounds begin to be upsetting. > > > > > > My trigger sounds become more intense the more time I spend with a > > > person. I have been living with my boyfriend for five months now and I > > > am having trouble getting intimate with him. When we first moved in > > > together this was't an issue because the triggers hadn't set in yet but > > > now almost everything he does wit his mouth sets off a reaction. Is it > > > just me or do any of you have trouble being intimate with a partner as a > > > result of the 4s? > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 9, 2011 Report Share Posted November 9, 2011 I FEEL BAD FOR YOU.HOPEFULLY IF YOU DO NOT STAY TOGETHER SOMEONE WILL BE BETTER SUITED FOR YOU.IT IS VERY DIFFICULT WHEN HEALTH ISSUES COME BETWEEN PEOPLE B/C MOST TIMES IT CANT BE CHANGED.I HAVE BEEN FORTUNATE TO HAVE A FAMILY LIFE FOR OVER 25 YEARS.BUT MY ISSUES WERE NOT THAT BAD BACK THEN.IT WOULD BE VERY DIFFICULT FOR ME NOW TO START AGAIN AS MY CONDITION WOULD SCARE AWAY MOST WOMEN MY AGE OR ANY AGE...DONT GET TO DOWN ON YOURSELF ITS NOT YOUR FAULT.... TRY AND STAY AS POSITIVE AS POSSIBLE,EASY TO SAY AND HARD TO DO. I WISH YOU WELL. KEEP US POSTED ON YOUR STATUS BOB > > > > > > My trigger sounds become more intense the more time I spend with a > > > person. I have been living with my boyfriend for five months now and I > > > am having trouble getting intimate with him. When we first moved in > > > together this was't an issue because the triggers hadn't set in yet but > > > now almost everything he does wit his mouth sets off a reaction. Is it > > > just me or do any of you have trouble being intimate with a partner as a > > > result of the 4s? > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 10, 2011 Report Share Posted November 10, 2011 Intimacy issues become more troubling when we feel like we are "supposed" to feel a certain way or do certain things. Performing is great on stage, but it ends there. I get grossed out watching people suck face and grope each other. I'm sorry. I don't mean to offend anyone, but to me, it all seems so savage. I'd much rather do yoga, take a swim or engage in lively conversation with someone I really care about. My misophonia sometimes borders on misanthropy. When that starts to happen, I seek shelter in solitude and start writing. Ah, that's better! Then I'm ready to go out and face the public again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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