Re: My appologies in writing

[Guest guest]

,

Please stick to facts. Show us these ten million people you claim have been

on the Antibiotic Protocol and failed. They do not exist and you are wrong.

I wrote to you privately and asked you a question. For your information,

, my son is bipolar and I don't consider it to be a shameful state nor

do I consider asking the question privately to be license for you to attack

me publicly.

Your posts over the last couple weeks is what led me to ask privately. And

in answer to your public question--no I am not bipolar.

It is not considered an apology to retract one set of insults and then

substitute another set to fling at me.

I am the second person you have attacked tonight. We just don't do that in

this support group.

Now please drop this. I intended no insult to you.

j

rheumatic Re: My appologies in writing

From: " ROBERT M ROOT " <RU42354@...>

Because I do not agree with you , and because I feel that this is a complex

disease that may need more than an a antibiotic and

a diet for some unknown% of the population, You change the subject

and ask me if Im Bi-polar. Are you?

What does that have to do with arthritis , AP, treatment modalities ,

the way the government has decided to legislate Medicare, and

the ultimate answer for this disease ?

Are you so defensive you have to resort challenging my state of mental

affairs. What do you stop at? Is research threatening to you.

Do you prefer to pull the sheets over your head and ignore

what 99% of the world is doing. And when told you throw a cut like

" are you BI-polar " ? I apologize for my first response ,when I ask you if you

were deaf and dumb, But I won't back off of your insensitive insult, of the

fact that if its not your way its not any way .

God help us all with resistance like this we may never find a cure.

RMR

[Guest guest]

Because I do not agree with you , and because I feel that this is a complex

disease that may need more than an a antibiotic and

a diet for some unknown% of the population, You change the subject

and ask me if Im Bi-polar. Are you?

What does that have to do with arthritis , AP, treatment modalities ,

the way the government has decided to legislate Medicare, and

the ultimate answer for this disease ?

Are you so defensive you have to resort challenging my state of mental

affairs. What do you stop at? Is research threatening to you.

Do you prefer to pull the sheets over your head and ignore

what 99% of the world is doing. And when told you throw a cut like

" are you BI-polar " ? I apologize for my first response ,when I ask you if you

were deaf and dumb, But I won't back off of your insensitive insult, of the

fact that if its not your way its not any way .

God help us all with resistance like this we may never find a cure.

RMR

[Guest guest]

.. We just don't do that in

this support group.

Then I suggest you practice what you write.

You have included yourself in a group that hasn't insulted me

you have. And then you say WE do not do that in this group.

Im not sure who you speak of. But you sure ruined my night lady.

I hope not to give you the opportunity to do it again as this is the second

time you have come out of nowhere to jump on my case.

Public or private your insinuation that I am Bi-polar is offensive coming

from someone who doesn't know me . Im truly sorry to hear about your son but

I wonder if it was nature or nurture.

RMR

[Guest guest]

<<Im truly sorry to hear about your son but

I wonder if it was nature or nurture.

RMR>>

Well, , I am sorry my question hit a nerve. As I have told you

repeatedly it was not meant to. If I had it do over I would certainly word

it differently.

My son suffers terribly from bipolar and you remind me of him. I thought

that if anyone would know state of the art in treatment it would be you.

My son is hospitalized a couple times a year in order to adjust his

medications. He has been unable to hold down a normal job and he has a wife

and two kids. I am profoundly grateful that he has any family life as this

is not possible for most people with bipolar disorder as brittle as my

son's.

Your knee jerk reactions to me have been intended to hurt my feelings. Just

so you know--you have succeeded.

Congratulations.

Just to clear up your " nature or nurture " jab, --my son was raised by

the family that I asked to adopt him. I was raped by his father three

months after my husband was killed in a logging accident when my girls were

3 and 15 months old; I was a nineteen year old widow. I thought to give him

a father and a mother.

I have been reunited with my son since he was 21 years old. His symptoms

emerged when he was 14. He is now 36.

As for tonight's activities. I have asked you, twice, privately, to quit

sending me private

e-mails harassing me. You have continued to send me further private

e-mails. Please stop.

The AP support list is my lifeline.

j

[Guest guest]

please try to treat your fellow sufferers here with a little more

respect. We are all just trying to find our way thru this AP haze. It

isn't easy for us either.

Bev

rheumatic Re: My appologies in writing

>From: " ROBERT M ROOT " <RU42354@...>

>

>Because I do not agree with you , and because I feel that this is a complex

>disease that may need more than an a antibiotic and

>a diet for some unknown% of the population, You change the subject

>and ask me if Im Bi-polar. Are you?

>What does that have to do with arthritis , AP, treatment modalities ,

>the way the government has decided to legislate Medicare, and

>the ultimate answer for this disease ?

>Are you so defensive you have to resort challenging my state of mental

>affairs. What do you stop at? Is research threatening to you.

>Do you prefer to pull the sheets over your head and ignore

>what 99% of the world is doing. And when told you throw a cut like

> " are you BI-polar " ? I apologize for my first response ,when I ask you if

you

>were deaf and dumb, But I won't back off of your insensitive insult, of the

>fact that if its not your way its not any way .

>God help us all with resistance like this we may never find a cure.

>RMR

>

>

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>Come see our new web site!

>

[Guest guest]

Dear :

Please try to consider that we all are trying to find our way, you

included and need to support each other instead of looking for reason to be

angry. I am so sorry that you are in so much pain, and maybe down the road

there is a solution for you. But please try to understand this group is for

SUPPORT. Try to look for the good in a message and not focus on the

negative. That way you won't upset yourself. No one is intentionally

trying to upset you and we are all hurting too.

Bev.

Re: rheumatic Re: My appologies in writing

>if you could read you would know that jumped on me for the

>second time in as many months she like you cannot bare to think she may be

>wrong. I think AP makes you blind

>

>

[Guest guest]

,

I have been reading yours and 's altercation and just HAD to say

that when you said, " Im truly sorry to hear about your son but I wonder

if it was nature or nurture. "

that was cruel. Let's get back to supporting each other, please.

God Bless and keep us all, Debra

ROBERT M ROOT wrote:

>

> From: " ROBERT M ROOT " <RU42354@...>

>

> . We just don't do that in

> this support group.

>

> Then I suggest you practice what you write.

> You have included yourself in a group that hasn't insulted me

> you have. And then you say WE do not do that in this group.

> Im not sure who you speak of. But you sure ruined my night lady.

> I hope not to give you the opportunity to do it again as this is the second

> time you have come out of nowhere to jump on my case.

> Public or private your insinuation that I am Bi-polar is offensive coming

> from someone who doesn't know me . Im truly sorry to hear about your son but

> I wonder if it was nature or nurture.

> RMR

>

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[Guest guest]

<< that when you said, " Im truly sorry to hear about your son but I wonder

if it was nature or nurture. "

that was cruel. Let's get back to supporting each other, please. >>

I totally agree about the statement being " very " cruel. I wonder if you

() have children and if so how you would feel if someone attacked you

about your parenting skills...after all you do not know ...so how could

you make such a statement?

Cindi/Iowa RA 42 yrs AP 27 months