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My thoughts & prayers are with you. I hope your lawyer can find a workable

solution so you can do what's needed to get your child back. The system is

messed up because the people who do abuse their kids make anyone who's accused

look bad & appear guilty until proven innocent. I would hope your daughter will

see the light & tell them she lied. I don't know how old she is but I know my

own daughter told me that she found out at school & on TV that if she felt like

she was being abused in any way all she had to do was call me in this included

arguing & if I said she was acting like a brat that was verbal abuse. This

started when she was about 10 she's now 18 & didn't ever call me in nor did I

ever " ABUSE " her. Yes we have had & still do have arguments! When she was little

I did give her a swat when she was over the top misbehaving that could have

probably gotten me in trouble but it didn't thank goodness. I made it VERY clear

when she was about 16 & said

she was going to turn me in over an argument that she better be 100% sure

because I would not " rescue " her from where ever the state made her live I was

very serious & she knew it. I was sick with this disease & of her threats

honestly I had all I could take (all the while I'm thinking you better be sure

you can get to the phone before I chop off those fingers haha) She still made a

few threats but was quick to apologies once she calmed down & still does. My

idea of abuse is probably different from someone else's view we all have our own

thoughts on this. My step-dad spanked me & my siblings with a belt not one of us

turned into a murderer or anything else we are all law abiding citizens I can

promise if we threatened to turn him in back then the cops would have probably

laughed. I even got swats from the principal in 5th & 6th grade. Do I think he

needed to hit us with a belt NO but I do think a mild swat on the rear can get a

child's attention. I

think kids these days are given way to much power they have no idea how to

handle & they abuse it. My daughter has border line abused me with her words I

never threatened to turn her in, ADULTS usually don't make those kind of threats

unless it's necessary & something they will follow through on most kids can't

even comprehend this concept they speak without thinking of any of the

consequences.

You need to take care of you first otherwise you'll make yourself to sick to do

anything. I hope everything gets worked out you don't need any more stress added

to your life! Please keep us posted.

Take Care,

in ID