Re: THAT F'ING B*TCH!!!!!!!!!!!

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What? What happened. Tell us more when you are ready.

Salli, very worried

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She sounds like she's vengeful. What an ^%$ & hole. She shes a real

sorry excuse for a teacher. She doesnt belong anywhere near children.

She cant take an ounce of criticism. Id want to stick her head in a

toliet bowl, but, we just cant do these things, unfortunately.

Thea

- In parenting_autism@y..., cinnamonspice58@y... wrote:

> Would you believe Cassie's teacher called the county social

> services? They were just out here. I am SO PISSED!! I know I'm

> going to regret this post once (if?) I cool down, but I didn't know

> where else to vent. DAMN!!!

>

> Cinnamon

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> What? What happened. Tell us more when you are ready.

>

> Salli, very worried

Just a little while ago this woman shows up. Says she's from the

county social services. She's had a " report " I asked (even though I

knew) about who it was-- of course she said she couldn't say but said

basically " put 2 and 2 together. " This hideous teacher from he## has

gone beyond too far. I just resent this type of intrusion when I do

all the " right things " . When I told her the teacher told me she had

been improving at school-- this woman looked surprised.

It feels like they don't have to prove you're guilty--YOU have to

prove you're innocent.

But-- innocent of WHAT??!! I don't even think there's a word for

what I'm feeling.

Cinnamon

P.S. Sorry about that subject heading.

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> What? What happened. Tell us more when you are ready.

>

> Salli, very worried

Just a little while ago this woman shows up. Says she's from the

county social services. She's had a " report " I asked (even though I

knew) about who it was-- of course she said she couldn't say but said

basically " put 2 and 2 together. " This hideous teacher from he## has

gone beyond too far. I just resent this type of intrusion when I do

all the " right things " . When I told her the teacher told me she had

been improving at school-- this woman looked surprised.

It feels like they don't have to prove you're guilty--YOU have to

prove you're innocent.

But-- innocent of WHAT??!! I don't even think there's a word for

what I'm feeling.

Cinnamon

P.S. Sorry about that subject heading.

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> She sounds like she's vengeful. What an ^%$ & hole. She shes a real

> sorry excuse for a teacher. She doesnt belong anywhere near

children.

> She cant take an ounce of criticism. Id want to stick her head in a

> toliet bowl, but, we just cant do these things, unfortunately.

>

> Thea

Actually, I was thinking more along the lines of one of those port-

a-potties.....at the park......on the 4th of July........when there's

a really BIG CROWD........<evil grin>

Cinnamon

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> She sounds like she's vengeful. What an ^%$ & hole. She shes a real

> sorry excuse for a teacher. She doesnt belong anywhere near

children.

> She cant take an ounce of criticism. Id want to stick her head in a

> toliet bowl, but, we just cant do these things, unfortunately.

>

> Thea

Actually, I was thinking more along the lines of one of those port-

a-potties.....at the park......on the 4th of July........when there's

a really BIG CROWD........<evil grin>

Cinnamon

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> It feels like they don't have to prove you're guilty--YOU have to

> prove you're innocent.

Yes. I have had CPS visit. You do feel that way.

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> But-- innocent of WHAT??!! I don't even think there's a word for

> what I'm feeling.

There probably is (big language, lots of words) but feeling what your

feeling makes it hard to find it.

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> Cinnamon

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> P.S. Sorry about that subject heading.

Don't worry about it. See what I wrote above! That kind of situation is

exactly what those words were invented for.

Salli

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Yeah,

Even better, you never know whats swimming in those.

Thea

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> > She sounds like she's vengeful. What an ^%$ & hole. She shes a real

> > sorry excuse for a teacher. She doesnt belong anywhere near

> children.

> > She cant take an ounce of criticism. Id want to stick her head in

a

> > toliet bowl, but, we just cant do these things, unfortunately.

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> > Thea

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> Actually, I was thinking more along the lines of one of those

port-

> a-potties.....at the park......on the 4th of July........when

there's

> a really BIG CROWD........<evil grin>

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> Cinnamon

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Yeah,

Even better, you never know whats swimming in those.

Thea

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> > She sounds like she's vengeful. What an ^%$ & hole. She shes a real

> > sorry excuse for a teacher. She doesnt belong anywhere near

> children.

> > She cant take an ounce of criticism. Id want to stick her head in

a

> > toliet bowl, but, we just cant do these things, unfortunately.

> >

> > Thea

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> Actually, I was thinking more along the lines of one of those

port-

> a-potties.....at the park......on the 4th of July........when

there's

> a really BIG CROWD........<evil grin>

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> Cinnamon

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[Guest guest]

Never apologize for appropriate use of profanity. We all do it.

I am so sorry this happened. I can't believe the teacher would do such a

thing. She must be completely ignorant.

Can you tell us what the woman from social services said?

Amy H

Kepler 4 ASD and Bethany 6 NT

" There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of

us, that it behooves all of us not to talk about the rest of us. " ~

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[Guest guest]

Never apologize for appropriate use of profanity. We all do it.

I am so sorry this happened. I can't believe the teacher would do such a

thing. She must be completely ignorant.

Can you tell us what the woman from social services said?

Amy H

Kepler 4 ASD and Bethany 6 NT

" There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of

us, that it behooves all of us not to talk about the rest of us. " ~

Louis son

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What was the 'report' based on, Cinnamon?

CPS came to my house last summer after the police found on my roof, and I

was sleeping. It was 7 am. (bad, bad mommy!)

I felt very much under the gun when he showed up, and like I was on trial. But

he came in, and checked the window to make sure such a thing could never happen

again, and later followed up and helped me get some 'wandering child' safeties

in order... I haven't heard from them since.

I hope such a benign visit is what yours turns out to be.

Jacquie

[Guest guest]

> Never apologize for appropriate use of profanity. We all do it.

>

> I am so sorry this happened. I can't believe the teacher would do

such a

> thing. She must be completely ignorant.

>

> Can you tell us what the woman from social services said?

>

> Amy H

> Kepler 4 ASD and Bethany 6 NT

> " There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the

best of

> us, that it behooves all of us not to talk about the rest of us. "

~

> Louis son

Well, it was pretty much bringing up Cassie's recent problems at

school. Me saying (for about the 12 MILLIONTH time) that it's ONLY

at school.

One of the things that REALLY made me mad was when she asked if I

trust my husband and son. I thought my head was going to explode. I

just gritted my teeth and said " Yes.I do. " Then she said " by law "

she had to see where Cassie sleeps. And that she has to have a face

to face meeting with my husband; so she's supposed to show up again

later today for that. She's already gone to my son's school. He

just called me about that. I bet he had an attitude about it. That

boy is protective of his baby sister.

Cinnamon

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Do you mean that they are suspecting abuse because an autistic child is

experiencing toileting problems???????????

You're right. That f*ing bitch. Forget what I wrote earlier.

So what the hell NEXT?

Jacquie

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Do you mean that they are suspecting abuse because an autistic child is

experiencing toileting problems???????????

You're right. That f*ing bitch. Forget what I wrote earlier.

So what the hell NEXT?

Jacquie

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Cinnamon,

So, they were insinuating that her peeing a lot has to do with sexual

abuse. The teacher is really ignorent, and not taking responsiblity

for the fact that this behavior is going on at school. She is ducking

out at looking at how to resolve the issue. Just because you stood

up to her gives no right to have the school social worker ambush

you/and or call CPS. Its extremely disruptive to your whole family

with no evidence. Sorry that theyre harrassing your son too.

Thea

> > Never apologize for appropriate use of profanity. We all do it.

> >

> > I am so sorry this happened. I can't believe the teacher would

do

> such a

> > thing. She must be completely ignorant.

> >

> > Can you tell us what the woman from social services said?

> >

> > Amy H

> > Kepler 4 ASD and Bethany 6 NT

> > " There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the

> best of

> > us, that it behooves all of us not to talk about the rest of

us. "

> ~

> > Louis son

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> Well, it was pretty much bringing up Cassie's recent problems at

> school. Me saying (for about the 12 MILLIONTH time) that it's ONLY

> at school.

>

> One of the things that REALLY made me mad was when she asked if

I

> trust my husband and son. I thought my head was going to explode.

I

> just gritted my teeth and said " Yes.I do. " Then she said " by law "

> she had to see where Cassie sleeps. And that she has to have a face

> to face meeting with my husband; so she's supposed to show up again

> later today for that. She's already gone to my son's school. He

> just called me about that. I bet he had an attitude about it. That

> boy is protective of his baby sister.

>

> Cinnamon

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>

> What was the 'report' based on, Cinnamon?

>

> CPS came to my house last summer after the police found on my

roof, and I was sleeping. It was 7 am. (bad, bad mommy!)

>

> I felt very much under the gun when he showed up, and like I was on

trial. But he came in, and checked the window to make sure such a

thing could never happen again, and later followed up and helped me

get some 'wandering child' safeties in order... I haven't heard from

them since.

>

> I hope such a benign visit is what yours turns out to be.

>

> Jacquie

She brought up the behavior at school. And wanted to know if she

was wetting at home or wetting the bed. She's not. Then she started

asking me questions about me trusting my husband and son. I do.

Indeed I do. The only thing she said she " had to see " was where

Cassie sleeps. Oh she did ask about when Cassie had last seen the

doctor.(how many times have I heard that?) I feel like just putting

some of this on tape or some printout. Save them the trouble of

asking the same questions repeatedly and save me from repeating

myself so much. " Is she doing this at home? " ... " no " " Is she doing

this at " ... " no " " Is she doing " ... " no " " Is she " ...... " NO!

NO! NO! " I think they are going to drive me completely insane.

Cinnamon

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Yes, because you see, if you have a special-needs child you not only

have to be a super-parent who can change diapers for 5,6,7,8 years,

fight endlessly to get your child any services from squeaky-tight

school districts, devote your life to driving to doctors and

therapists, and spend every second of free-time listening to, " It's a

t-rex, mommy! It's a t-rex, mommy! It's a t-rex, mommy! It's a t-rex,

mommy! It's a t-rex, mommy! " (In our case it's: " Ouch, my foot hurts.

Good job, na. Ow, my ouchie. My foot hurts. Ok, na. Good

job, na. Ouch, my foot! Ouch, my toes hurt! Good job, na. " )

THEN

You have to make sure that you cross every " T " and dot every " I "

because CPS might show up to investigate why your child is behaving

" strangely. " Better make sure that all the dishes are always washed

and the floors are always clean and their beds are always changed and

made and that you didn't leave the rake in the yard and you scrubbed

behind the toilet and you have healthy food in the cupboard. Don't do

or say anything " different " from the status quo, because that means

you abuse or neglect your child. God forbid your child be a

combination of hyperactive and motor-delayed; all of the bruises and

scrapes are enough to just about get you the chair.

Jesus, it's unbelievable. Granted, CPS *should* investigate certain

situations. But when you see in the paper that they gave three kids

back to a woman who promptly took them to the roof of the courthouse

and threw them to their deaths (it's true, and then she jumped

herself) and then read notes from people that they are being harrassed

for something that is a fairly typical trait of autism, it's enough to

make you want to scream.

Brownshirts.

Grrrr,

>

> Do you mean that they are suspecting abuse because an autistic child

is experiencing toileting problems???????????

>

> You're right. That f*ing bitch. Forget what I wrote earlier.

>

> So what the hell NEXT?

>

> Jacquie

[Guest guest]

> Would you believe Cassie's teacher called the county social

> services? They were just out here. I am SO PISSED!! I know I'm

> going to regret this post once (if?) I cool down, but I didn't know

> where else to vent. DAMN!!!

>

> Cinnamon

Why did she call???? What's their problem?

Kerri

[Guest guest]

> Would you believe Cassie's teacher called the county social

> services? They were just out here. I am SO PISSED!! I know I'm

> going to regret this post once (if?) I cool down, but I didn't know

> where else to vent. DAMN!!!

>

> Cinnamon

Why did she call???? What's their problem?

Kerri

[Guest guest]

> Yes, because you see, if you have a special-needs child you not

only

> have to be a super-parent who can change diapers for 5,6,7,8 years,

> fight endlessly to get your child any services from squeaky-tight

> school districts, devote your life to driving to doctors and

> therapists, and spend every second of free-time listening to, " It's

a

> t-rex, mommy! It's a t-rex, mommy! It's a t-rex, mommy! It's a t-

rex,

> mommy! It's a t-rex, mommy! " (In our case it's: " Ouch, my foot

hurts.

> Good job, na. Ow, my ouchie. My foot hurts. Ok, na. Good

> job, na. Ouch, my foot! Ouch, my toes hurt! Good job,

na. " )

>

> THEN

>

> You have to make sure that you cross every " T " and dot every " I "

> because CPS might show up to investigate why your child is behaving

> " strangely. " Better make sure that all the dishes are always washed

> and the floors are always clean and their beds are always changed

and

> made and that you didn't leave the rake in the yard and you

scrubbed

> behind the toilet and you have healthy food in the cupboard. Don't

do

> or say anything " different " from the status quo, because that means

> you abuse or neglect your child. God forbid your child be a

> combination of hyperactive and motor-delayed; all of the bruises

and

> scrapes are enough to just about get you the chair.

>

> Jesus, it's unbelievable. Granted, CPS *should* investigate certain

> situations. But when you see in the paper that they gave three kids

> back to a woman who promptly took them to the roof of the

courthouse

> and threw them to their deaths (it's true, and then she jumped

> herself) and then read notes from people that they are being

harrassed

> for something that is a fairly typical trait of autism, it's enough

to

> make you want to scream.

>

> Brownshirts.

>

> Grrrr,

>

>

Every single word of that is true. I may even print it out.

(Seriously) And I think that's the thing that just " GETS " me. You

are always hearing about these HIDEOUS excuses for a human being who

DO abuse and neglect and subject their children to horrible things--

yet these are the people social services doesn't seem to want

to " bother " . It's positively insane.

Cinnamon

P.S. Cassie's a " repeater " too. Sadly right now she has a fondness

for Sylvester Stallone. So, for MY dining and dancing

pleasure? " Sylvester Stallone. Sylvester Stallone. Rocky Balboa.

Rocky.Mom Mom Mom. Rocky II. Rocky III. Sylvester Stallone. Rocky IV.

Rocky V.Mom Mom Mom Mom .........Sylvester Stallone..... "

EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE LOL

>

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> > Would you believe Cassie's teacher called the county social

> > services? They were just out here. I am SO PISSED!! I know I'm

> > going to regret this post once (if?) I cool down, but I didn't

know

> > where else to vent. DAMN!!!

> >

> > Cinnamon

>

>

> Why did she call???? What's their problem?

>

> Kerri

Truthfully? I think it's 2 things. 1.Not being accountable/

avoiding responsibity. And 2. Old fashioned spite.

Cinnamon

[Guest guest]

> > Would you believe Cassie's teacher called the county social

> > services? They were just out here. I am SO PISSED!! I know I'm

> > going to regret this post once (if?) I cool down, but I didn't

know

> > where else to vent. DAMN!!!

> >

> > Cinnamon

>

>

> Why did she call???? What's their problem?

>

> Kerri

Truthfully? I think it's 2 things. 1.Not being accountable/

avoiding responsibity. And 2. Old fashioned spite.

Cinnamon

[Guest guest]

> > Why did she call???? What's their problem?

> >

> > Kerri

>

>

> Truthfully? I think it's 2 things. 1.Not being accountable/

> avoiding responsibity. And 2. Old fashioned spite.

>

> Cinnamon

Then your subject line was perfectly titled. And you used all my

favorite words.

Kerri

[Guest guest]

> > Why did she call???? What's their problem?

> >

> > Kerri

>

>

> Truthfully? I think it's 2 things. 1.Not being accountable/

> avoiding responsibity. And 2. Old fashioned spite.

>

> Cinnamon

Then your subject line was perfectly titled. And you used all my

favorite words.

Kerri