Guest guest Posted July 15, 2011 Report Share Posted July 15, 2011 (Another great post and I am just reposting some of her pearls of wisdom) He has to be the one to change. He has to see a reason to it. Right now he doesn't see the point to changing his behavior. Another thing to ponder outside of boundaries is consequences. I had a real hard time enforcing this in my marriage and that was MY issue. If U agree not to do this and U do, this is what will happen. This is a HUGE issue for families who have difficulty following through for a variety of reasons. Consequences can be anything YOU are comfortable with if you find this behavior is making YOU uncomfortable or unacceptable for your belief system or life style. The trick is in the follow through on your end and you should talk it over and agree on the consequences. Relationships are complicated. There could be a zillion reasons behind his behavior that even he is not aware of???????? Just a thought. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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