I Come from Not So Long Ago....

[Guest guest]

Dear Friends,

It's late at night here in Detroit, but had to stop by this place of

yours and mine, a small little family indeed.

I come back again to break the silence a little and for those that

don't know me now; I am the son of Ramon , he who passed away

October 6th (this year) of Dementia, and Cesaria who also died

of this disease in 2005. I am their son and always will be...

So I'm hear to say " I'm okay " still dealing with the loneliness and

all. I'm also here MORE to say something for those whose loved ones

are still here in this world; where ever they may be, in your home,

the nursing home, or away because it's hard to deal with their

illness.

I know MUCH about that...

Fear of it can STOP you on your tracks and leave you withuot much

sense and even numb; so afraid.

I know...

But don't. You see, when they are still HERE with us, it's a daily

gift of love they give us from God himself. Don't deny their life as

they never denied ours.

Don't forget them because they forgot how to be. Face them with your

heart and you will be okay as each day you spend with them, it's a

day you will ALWAYS remember.

Build memories as their memories are not the same.

Lastly, I wanted to INVITE all of you to watch the below movie:

It will move you like few movies have...but this one is so very close

to home.

My name is Tony and I wish ALL OF YOU...peace in your heart and

much health now and always.

Please reply to Tonydiaz1963@... if you wish

Feliz Navidad a Todos!

[Guest guest]

Tony,

Hadn't seen anything about that movie. Did watch the clip and thanks.

Glad to see you back and checking in. It is the Holiday time and brings the

lonliness to the fore. Stay in touch and love to hear from you when you have

time.

Hugs,

Donna R

Caregave for Mom (after I brought her from WI to MI) for 3 years and 4th year in

a nh.

She was almost 89 when she died in '02. No dx other than mine.

I Come from Not So Long Ago....

Dear Friends,

It's late at night here in Detroit, but had to stop by this place of

yours and mine, a small little family indeed.

I come back again to break the silence a little and for those that

don't know me now; I am the son of Ramon , he who passed away

October 6th (this year) of Dementia, and Cesaria who also died

of this disease in 2005. I am their son and always will be...

So I'm hear to say " I'm okay " still dealing with the loneliness and

all. I'm also here MORE to say something for those whose loved ones

are still here in this world; where ever they may be, in your home,

the nursing home, or away because it's hard to deal with their

illness.

I know MUCH about that...

Fear of it can STOP you on your tracks and leave you withuot much

sense and even numb; so afraid.

I know...

But don't. You see, when they are still HERE with us, it's a daily

gift of love they give us from God himself. Don't deny their life as

they never denied ours.

Don't forget them because they forgot how to be. Face them with your

heart and you will be okay as each day you spend with them, it's a

day you will ALWAYS remember.

Build memories as their memories are not the same.

Lastly, I wanted to INVITE all of you to watch the below movie:

It will move you like few movies have...but this one is so very close

to home.

My name is Tony and I wish ALL OF YOU...peace in your heart and

much health now and always.

Please reply to Tonydiaz1963@... if you wish

Feliz Navidad a Todos!

[Guest guest]

Feliz Navidad to you, Tony, and all the best in 2008. Thank you for your

good wishews.

" tonydiaz1963 "

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Dear Friends,

It's late at night here in Detroit, but had to stop by this place of

yours and mine, a small little family indeed.

I come back again to break the silence a little and for those that

don't know me now; I am the son of Ramon , he who passed away

October 6th (this year) of Dementia, and Cesaria who also died

of this disease in 2005. I am their son and always will be...

So I'm hear to say " I'm okay " still dealing with the loneliness and

all. I'm also here MORE to say something for those whose loved ones

are still here in this world; where ever they may be, in your home,

the nursing home, or away because it's hard to deal with their

illness.

I know MUCH about that...

Fear of it can STOP you on your tracks and leave you withuot much

sense and even numb; so afraid.

I know...

But don't. You see, when they are still HERE with us, it's a daily

gift of love they give us from God himself. Don't deny their life as

they never denied ours.

Don't forget them because they forgot how to be. Face them with your

heart and you will be okay as each day you spend with them, it's a

day you will ALWAYS remember.

Build memories as their memories are not the same.

Lastly, I wanted to INVITE all of you to watch the below movie:

It will move you like few movies have...but this one is so very close

to home.

My name is Tony and I wish ALL OF YOU...peace in your heart and

much health now and always.

Please reply to Tonydiaz1963@... if you wish

Feliz Navidad a Todos!

[Guest guest]

Thanks for the aring message you sent and the update on you, Tony. Thank

you also for the link to the trailer on that movie. I hadn't heard of it. I

am glad you are doing well and adjusting to the loss of your parents. I

know this time of year, the loss tends to be more intense. We will all be

thinking of you and remembering you in thought and prayer. Leona

I Come from Not So Long Ago....

Dear Friends,

It's late at night here in Detroit, but had to stop by this place of

yours and mine, a small little family indeed.

I come back again to break the silence a little and for those that

don't know me now; I am the son of Ramon , he who passed away

October 6th (this year) of Dementia, and Cesaria who also died

of this disease in 2005. I am their son and always will be...

So I'm hear to say " I'm okay " still dealing with the loneliness and

all. I'm also here MORE to say something for those whose loved ones

are still here in this world; where ever they may be, in your home,

the nursing home, or away because it's hard to deal with their

illness.

I know MUCH about that...

Fear of it can STOP you on your tracks and leave you withuot much

sense and even numb; so afraid.

I know...

But don't. You see, when they are still HERE with us, it's a daily

gift of love they give us from God himself. Don't deny their life as

they never denied ours.

Don't forget them because they forgot how to be. Face them with your

heart and you will be okay as each day you spend with them, it's a

day you will ALWAYS remember.

Build memories as their memories are not the same.

Lastly, I wanted to INVITE all of you to watch the below movie:

It will move you like few movies have...but this one is so very close

to home.

My name is Tony and I wish ALL OF YOU...peace in your heart and

much health now and always.

Please reply to Tonydiaz1963@... if you wish

Feliz Navidad a Todos!

[Guest guest]

FELIZ NAVIDAD TONY. Thank you your post, May God continue to

Bless you. I'm sure those of us who LO are no longer with us are

feeling your pain. My grandma died of a stroke 14 years ago 12/12

it still feels like it was yesterday. I wish she could see my grands......

Thanks again.

Dimpsy Licensed 1:1 Caregiver Sacramento

Re: I Come from Not So Long Ago....

Feliz Navidad to you, Tony, and all the best in 2008. Thank you for your

good wishews.

" tonydiaz1963 "

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12/18/2007 11:43 Long Ago....

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Dear Friends,

It's late at night here in Detroit, but had to stop by this place of

yours and mine, a small little family indeed.

I come back again to break the silence a little and for those that

don't know me now; I am the son of Ramon , he who passed away

October 6th (this year) of Dementia, and Cesaria who also died

of this disease in 2005. I am their son and always will be...

So I'm hear to say " I'm okay " still dealing with the loneliness and

all. I'm also here MORE to say something for those whose loved ones

are still here in this world; where ever they may be, in your home,

the nursing home, or away because it's hard to deal with their

illness.

I know MUCH about that...

Fear of it can STOP you on your tracks and leave you withuot much

sense and even numb; so afraid.

I know...

But don't. You see, when they are still HERE with us, it's a daily

gift of love they give us from God himself. Don't deny their life as

they never denied ours.

Don't forget them because they forgot how to be. Face them with your

heart and you will be okay as each day you spend with them, it's a

day you will ALWAYS remember.

Build memories as their memories are not the same.

Lastly, I wanted to INVITE all of you to watch the below movie:

http://youtube. com/watch? v=ct7eXP- ivAk & feature= related

It will move you like few movies have...but this one is so very close

to home.

My name is Tony and I wish ALL OF YOU...peace in your heart and

much health now and always.

Please reply to Tonydiaz1963@ yahoo.com if you wish

Feliz Navidad a Todos!

[Guest guest]

My mother died on October 6th, 1976.

It may as well have been yesterday.

Christmas has never been the same.

Carol

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[Guest guest]

My mother died February 9, 1983, she was 47, I was 19. My heart still

thinks it was yesterday.

Christmas is coming up and all I do is pray for January 1.

Thinking of you today Carol. Wishing I could give you a hug.

Sandie

-- Re:I Come from Not So Long Ago....

My mother died on October 6th, 1976.

It may as well have been yesterday.

Christmas has never been the same.

Carol

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[Guest guest]

My mom would have been the best grandparent of the 4 and she died

when I was twenty-five and my oldest son was 8 months old.

I remain semi-pissed about the whole thing because just when we

really would have been close with me raising babies, she bailed.

her deal with God was she never wanted to be a burden. she had a

fatal heart attack at 54, and from the time my dad went to the

kitchen to dial an abulance til the time her returned, was all the

burden she was.

go figure!

Carol

>

> My mother died February 9, 1983, she was 47, I was 19. My heart

still

> thinks it was yesterday.

>

> Christmas is coming up and all I do is pray for January 1.

>

> Thinking of you today Carol. Wishing I could give you a hug.

>

> Sandie

>

> -- Re:I Come from Not So Long Ago....

>

> My mother died on October 6th, 1976.

>

> It may as well have been yesterday.

>

> Christmas has never been the same.

>

> Carol

>

>

> ---------------------------------

> Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo!

Search.

>

>

[Guest guest]

Feliz Navidad to you, too. I had seen that trailer

before, but I have never seen the movie advertised.

Has anyone else? It could be a tearjerker.

June

--- tonydiaz1963 wrote:

> Dear Friends,

>

> It's late at night here in Detroit, but had to stop

> by this place of

> yours and mine, a small little family indeed.

>

> I come back again to break the silence a little and

> for those that

> don't know me now; I am the son of Ramon , he

> who passed away

> October 6th (this year) of Dementia, and Cesaria

> who also died

> of this disease in 2005. I am their son and always

> will be...

>

> So I'm hear to say " I'm okay " still dealing with the

> loneliness and

> all. I'm also here MORE to say something for those

> whose loved ones

> are still here in this world; where ever they may

> be, in your home,

> the nursing home, or away because it's hard to deal

> with their

> illness.

>

> I know MUCH about that...

>

> Fear of it can STOP you on your tracks and leave you

> withuot much

> sense and even numb; so afraid.

>

> I know...

>

> But don't. You see, when they are still HERE with

> us, it's a daily

> gift of love they give us from God himself. Don't

> deny their life as

> they never denied ours.

>

> Don't forget them because they forgot how to be.

> Face them with your

> heart and you will be okay as each day you spend

> with them, it's a

> day you will ALWAYS remember.

>

> Build memories as their memories are not the same.

>

> Lastly, I wanted to INVITE all of you to watch the

> below movie:

>

>

>

> It will move you like few movies have...but this one

> is so very close

> to home.

>

> My name is Tony and I wish ALL OF YOU...peace

> in your heart and

> much health now and always.

>

> Please reply to Tonydiaz1963@... if you wish

>

>

> Feliz Navidad a Todos!

>

>

>

>

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