Re: another chaotic week

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Courage when it became apparent to my sister and me that it was unsafe for Mom

to

continue living alone we placed her into retirement living against her wishes.

She was in

the hospital after one of her passing out seizure like spells where she stopped

breathing

and turned blue, then simply started breathing again. I did not have to use POA,

as we

simply had the doctor tell her he would discharge her, but not to her apartment.

He was

the one who told her she needed AL and that was that. Also that way she could

not blame

us for needing to leave her home. She tried a few times but we were able to say

it was the

doctor's decision.

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> Hi Ron,

> Reading your post made me think of something. I'm going ASSume that you have

POA

so I'm just wondering if your brother would have been able to put your mom in a

NH??

Since I didn't have POA I don't know the answer to this question. Can anyone

put a LO into

a NH or must it be the POA only?

> Courage

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> another chaotic week

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>

> Hello everyone,

> Im sorry for the lack of posting.Seems as if every week gets a little

crazier.Last Monday

mom was convinced that I was a bad guy.She had my siblings all against me and

everyone

exept my sister whose here every day and knows better stepped in and said that

it would

be best for me to leave.So that I did, with no where else to go I moved in with

my

girlfriend.My car wouldnt start, I had to leave some of my belongings and left

with nothing

but uncertainty.

> The second day gone I was told that if I bring my girlfiend back there that

my brother

was calling the law.The last 4 or 5 weeks its been just me my girlfriend and

sister caring

for mom.But I stayed away because I knew me nor my girlfriend could bail me out

of jail if

I ripped my brothers head off like I wanted to.The second night at my

girlfriends house

she went to work and my phone started ringing.Each of my siblings exept my

sister called

begging me to come back.Seems everyone had a turn caring for mom in two days and

noone could do it.I said no and told them to go to hell at first but then I

heard that my

brother was going to have to call the nursing home.So I knew I couldnt turn away

at that

point and agreed to come back.Im back now and things with mom are better.But I

will

never ever forget how my siblings treated me this past week.Its a cinch that I

dont take

from mom because if I did I would have something left of value.I once had my own

place,

2 cars a 16 ft bass

> tracker, and lived pretty much a carefree life, now I am here 24 hours a day

and doing

well to bring in enough of my own money to pay my weight.I hate my siblings

outside of

my sis and will never forgive them.The one time they rose to the occasion for my

mom was

the one time she said something bad about me.Then they were swarming like

vultures.I

dont blame my mom because I know this disease and I know if she were completely

well

shed trust me.But none of them bastards have lbd.And there so stupid they dont

even

know that lbd can make you think and say these things.Now it will go back to

just me and

sis and my girlfriend caring for her again Im sure.They all are terrified tocome

around after

seeing her condition and living it for a while.I love my mom but will never feel

anything for

them again.Thank you all for listening Ron

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> RON

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