RE: Carol

[Guest guest]

Hi Carol,

I definitely agree with Imogene. When your husbands family wanted to come to

see Millie and have a meal,Where was it stated who was taking care of the meal?

I missed that part. Did you just assume it was your job to do cooking? If they

did expect you to do it, I would have have done nothing for them. Or just serve

them DOG FOOD! I also think they are takers and don't care about you, only

themselves. You should have BOUNDARIES.With all that you do, they should be

cooking for you!!!!!!!!! They sound like they have a lot of nerve. And it sounds

like they get away with it because you let them. I may sound harsh, but you see

I also have a step family like that. My step brother lives in Northern

California and he asked my husband to prove to him that my mom is still ALIVE.

He has to give her his fathers income rental $ and I'm sure he is hated to do

it. What a nerve to question us. We also over saw his dads care and other stuff

until he died in Feb.07 and there was no

gratitude either. Imogene is so right. There are people who will just take and

take and take.

Carol, I do hope you were able to enjoy your birthday inspite of what is going

on. You are a good person trying to do what is right. Do you think they wanted

to come to Millies for Christmas dinner or maybe just maybe, they wanted to

celebrate your birthday? I'm fetching I guess. I don't want to believe they had

bad motives.

Let me know what happened and what there intent was!!

Lynn S.

CA.

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