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Okay.

Let's see...

Money is important because it is the central symbol in the only

mythology most people in the world believes in today: the economy. In

this role, it makes the world go round.

Money is important to me personally as an indicator of how active the

Divine Mother, Abundance, is in my life. Its ebb and flow tells me when

I need to be giving it more of my attention.

And, money is important because it is a kind of energy. Its lack causes

powerlessness, so ideally, it would be spread around equitably.

Obviously that is less and less so today, which shows how out of

balance things are.

These are just some quick thoughts on the way out the door. My family

believes I have very weird notions about money! And I have Mars in the

third house at 16° Libra, and Venus in the eleventh house at 24° Gemini.

Love,

Eve

On Thursday, September 16, 2004, at 02:01 PM, IonaDove@... wrote:

> Here is a fun game! Take a paper n write down 3 statements about the

> importance of money. U can share them w/us or not but write if u have

> decided wh they

> are! This works for both men/women.

>

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Money is important when it's liquid and can flow like lifeblood through

one's life. Where I'm stuck is often where the flow of money gets impeded.

Money is important when in balance with other currencies in your life like

friendship, creativity, love.

Money is like a blank screen, anything and everything gets projected onto

money. With misunderstandings and conflict, it's better to look for

underlying issue.

Mars in Taurus in the 9th house.

Venus in Taurus in the 9th house.

In the dance,

Frances

> Here is a fun game! Take a paper n write down 3 statements about the

> importance of money. U can share them w/us or not but write if u have decided

> wh they

> are! This works for both men/women.

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> -----Original Message-----

> From: IonaDove@...

> Here is a fun game! Take a paper n write down 3 statements about the

> importance of money. U can share them w/us or not but write

> if u have decided wh they

> are! This works for both men/women.

Money is merely a means to an end.

Money can't buy happiness, but it sure makes the journey there a lot

more comfortable.

The importance of money usually varies in inverse proportions to the

amount you actually have.

Kione

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Ask a dying billionaire. Money is important in that it buys you time.

Money -- think ancient coins, the gods and god kings pressed into

them, emblems and magic seals, coins to sit on the eyes to pay the

ferryman. In all the times I've ever worried about not having it,

things turned around and found a way. I gave up a heap of it to marry

for love. Twice. :) Three times, if you count engagements. But don't

count.

Is that 3?

One last thing, please. If all of us really pay attention to what our

money does, there won't be problems and wars and dreadful people

running things. Every dollar you spend votes for something, empowers

someone. When funds are invested blindly--only looking at the bottom

line, what profit is yielded--it only works to empower those who are

the most willing to run over their grandmother for a profit.

(How many Millionaires in America? A dime a dozen? And they move

their mountains invisibly, with a click of a button. All these

anonymous investors feeding all these invisible schemes. . . If they

feed malice, unbalanced fate, rape the very earth, they wouldn't know

it. Some make it their philosophy not to know or care; it's their

right, their dominion over whole planets. Bright lights, cars like

tanks steaming in the rain, everything encased within emblems of

status! All of the arrogance, the bombastic luxury, the endless gray

buildings made of things that never lived. Everything that touches

the flesh seems synthetic, and sometimes, the flesh is too.

These are shards cut off from all that springs from timelessness, the

timelessness that meets us in dream. Can there be a future if we

don't first imagine it, hope for it? A future beyond us? Who hoped

for this?)

O my negative animus,

Deborah

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Dear Alice

Three statements about the importance of money.

Sounds so easy, but it takes a few minutes to think.Not that I haven't often

over the years thought about " money "

Are we talking about 3 ways money is important to us?

If that is the case, I would say, that in our society money is the difference

between security and insecurity.It brings the only power we have in society. Not

power over others, but power to lead the life one wants for oneself and family.

I for one, felt that that basic human security was necessary for me, especially

with a husband in a dangerous job and 4 children.WE did the best to prepare, if

I had to go it alone.

So financial freedom from fear and insecurity.

..I don't much like the idea of being a " bag " lady someday.The anxiety caused by

insecurity is endless for those without money...or less than they need.

A comfortable way of life, I suppose is each persons wish today in our world.

Not having to worry about those things we think are important for us and our

families, like a comfortable house, education,the arts, self expression in work

rather than the first job available. Health care. Those not absolute basics

which make life enjoyable.

Money can buy just about anything nowadays, including the best health care, the

greatest safety, a job which gives pleasure, and for the unhappy ones, comfort

in their unhappiness, rather than constant worry about bare subsistence.

I can truly say that there is nothing I ever wanted that I couldn't have.There

was never any 'need " that couldn't be satisfied, if money would do it. That

doesn't mean I had all the money for everything, I didn't, but then there was

nothing so important materially either, that I " had " to have. All the extras I

wished for came too.Thank G-d.

I always said, if I won the lottery it would be terrible for my children and for

me. I would give them everything, they wouldn't grow and develop their own

resources, and I would attempt to exert power over them which is actually the

last thing I really want.It would be terrible all around.

Thank goodness I never needed to worry about that.

Now I wouldn't mind a little bit extra to get one of my children out of a

difficult lifestyle....there I go again, trying to enable.

I can say honestly, Ray and I never had a serious problem or argument with

money, because after my experiences as a child I knew what kind of a man I could

never marry, and we did discuss all this before we wed.

We never in the years we both worked had " my money " and " his money. " it was all

in one pot(except for gifts) Sometimes experience is a blessing, however hard it

seemed when I was a child.

I have always wondered why I am so fortunate in this world of want among so many

millions. I came up with the only answer I could find. I don't know "

but I know Whom to thank.

Sorry, Alice, I never could make anything brief!!!

love,

Toni

Neg animus/anima

This is a topic we haven't discussed, as far as I know........ but a neg

animus is a fairly common thing, a whole generation of women suffered fr it!

It

happens wh men make assumptions ab women's [intellectual] abilities and women

COLLUDE w/the idea that they are not as gifted or capable as men. This general

attitude in the far East still prevails n yet India n Israel n the UK have had

women prime ministers, n we have had Madeleine Albright. It has prevailed

where men seem interested only in the outer functions of women n show no

interest

in their inner psyches. No wonder so many women fall in love w/their male

analysts! Finally a man who is interested in their souls!

The feminist movement did a lot to change things, but it was angry n led to

animus-possessed women. Think Lucy in Peanuts!

Jung wrote extensively ab the animus being the inner masculine of women n the

anima, the inner fem of men, stating that ev marr consisted of 4 factors n

when arguments broke out, women theorized n men became moody n sulked!:}

The man w/a lovely anima is unafraid to show his feelings n genuine

appreciation of the feminine n the woman w/a healthy animus is cheerfully

rational wh

she needs to be. My friend Bly put it this way: We need gentle men and

noble women. NOT girlie men and ballbusters!

It seems to me, we've made a good deal of progress in the last 40 years but

many women I see still suffer fr doubt n turn any male criticism ag

themselves,

even expecting rejection.

And I wonder if some of the men in our grp are afraid still to express their

emotions for fear of vulnerability.

If any of this makes sense, it helps to become conscious of this.

This also explains why one has to know if a chart is of a man or a woman.

Mars=animus in women n what type of man she is likely to project on; Venus, in

a

man, but Mars in a man's cht can show how he views his own masculinity, n

Venus will show how comfortable a woman is w/her femininity.

In adolescence, animus/anima projections are rampant n continue to underlie

failed love affairs n broken hearts. Sigh!

Here is a fun game! Take a paper n write down 3 statements about the

importance of money. U can share them w/us or not but write if u have decided

wh they

are! This works for both men/women.

ok?

n please respond. Our fire is down to a few embers! I need help!

love

ao

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