: More thoughts Re: It takes two to tangle ...

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I wondered when we'd crash together like that ! in Canada is a bit

tough to type out anyway. How about I use initials instead of " in Canada " to

identify myself? I too got tangled in figuring out which msgs. were for me!

Peace, MT was in Canada

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> > Helen - you of course hit the nail on the head about childhood abuse. Before

you know it your life is gone & it wasn't even yours. I have to disagree though

about this part of your post (below):

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> > " In order to heal and move on in life, you have to recognize that most

people, whatever part they played and for whatever reason they played it, were

also just trying to keep the dance going. When one finally recognizes this and

stops moving to that tune, the dysfunctional dance is over. "

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> > Nope. Not necessarily. Depends on how much damage was caused by the other

dancers. You can stop the dysfunctional movement, but that doesn't heal broken

feet. We forget often, that there are injuries that simply don't heal; that keep

the dance going long after the feet have stopped moving.

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> > Peace, in Canada

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