Re: please i need to vent:-(..tonya

November 23, 2001

Tonya~ I will pray that you wont have to foreclose on your home and that

there will be a way for you to pay the $100/mo. more. Maybe you could

re-finance or sell the home before it forecloses so it doesn't affect your

credit. We had to do that once. Anyway, God will take care of you and your

marriage, so don't give up hope! So sorry to hear you are going through so

much. God bless, I will pray for you and your family!

Ingrid 30

hb 39

d Jamai (May) 12

s Christian 10

s Dylan 6

sterilized in 1995

TR in January of 2002?

November 24, 2001

Tonya

I will be praying for you. My hubby and I were going thru some

problems as well so you are not alone. I will pray that everything

works well for you and that you will get a home soon.

> ladies here in a few weeks i will be going to no mail.. cause we

will

> be packing up and getting reday to move..i am not very happy at this

> point.. scott just went back to work so things are not getting any

> better..hes been out for 2 months from the shoulder sugery..sigh

> the morage people sent me thsid extention loan thing that it will

move

> my paymenst to end of the loan on the house..well if we agree then

our

> paymenst will go up to almost 100.00 more.. so we agreed this has

> almost destroyed our marrige cause of the money issue now they

want

> to up it.. so we agreed to for close on our home..:-(.. but we have

a

> friend who has houses for rent around our kids school.. so pray to

god

> he has one open that is big enough for us.if not then i hope to god

> that some one can help us ..my mom said cac can help us. so i just

dont

> know .. so any way i just had to vent some..man this just come at a

> worser time.. the forcloser papaer said it would forclose on dec

19th

> ,2001. so i dont know how the #@$ my kids will enjoy christmas

but i

> will make it happen one way or another.. so please everyone pray

for me

> and my family.. i will be online for about 2 more weeks the i will

go to

> no mail till we find a home then i can come back on...hugs to all

tonya

November 24, 2001

Tonya,

Well I must admit I've never been in your situation because I've

never owned my own home, but have been in financial hardship before

as well as having to move around the holidays. I won't pretend to

tell you I know how you feel but, I do understand. On one hand kids

are resiliant and the good thing is they bounce back quickly. No

matter how bad we feel and hurt for them as parents they will bounce

back!

As far as the housing situation, we don't always know why God

allows things to happen to us but there's always a lesson in it. We

may not know right now what that is but we may look back later and

say, Yeah now I know! Maybe some rough road will be ahead for you and

this may be Gods way of making things a little easier for you. Im not

going to tell you that this is what God is saying but just a thought.

Anyways I hope I've helped in some small way and if you need to vent

more Im alaways here! Best of luck!

Aloha,

November 24, 2001

Tonya,

I am sorry to hear that you are going through such a horrible time. I

know exactly how you feel though because, I too had to forclose on my house

after getting a divorce. It was terrible. It was at Christmas time as

well. Just let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

love to ya,

moe

please i need to vent:-(..tonya

> ladies here in a few weeks i will be going to no mail.. cause we will

> be packing up and getting reday to move..i am not very happy at this

> point.. scott just went back to work so things are not getting any

> better..hes been out for 2 months from the shoulder sugery..sigh

> the morage people sent me thsid extention loan thing that it will move

> my paymenst to end of the loan on the house..well if we agree then our

> paymenst will go up to almost 100.00 more.. so we agreed this has

> almost destroyed our marrige cause of the money issue now they want

> to up it.. so we agreed to for close on our home..:-(.. but we have a

> friend who has houses for rent around our kids school.. so pray to god

> he has one open that is big enough for us.if not then i hope to god

> that some one can help us ..my mom said cac can help us. so i just dont

> know .. so any way i just had to vent some..man this just come at a

> worser time.. the forcloser papaer said it would forclose on dec 19th

> ,2001. so i dont know how the #@$ my kids will enjoy christmas but i

> will make it happen one way or another.. so please everyone pray for me

> and my family.. i will be online for about 2 more weeks the i will go to

> no mail till we find a home then i can come back on...hugs to all tonya

>

November 24, 2001

Keep your faith, you have to hit rock bottom to come up for air,,, I could tell

you stories about my life.... But, I never gave up on my faith. You are in my

thoughts and prays.

Jeanne