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Dawn,

What wonderful news. Glad to hear she is doing so well. This disease is

amazing. The ups and downs we go through, never mind our LOs. And she

remembered something to say " I might make it after all. " Good they can let go

and just go on for now.

Sound like you are doing so much better too.

Hugs,

Donna R

Caregave for Mom (after I brought her from WI to MI) for 3 years and 4th year in

a nh.

She was almost 89 when she died in '02. No dx other than mine.

Update

Thank you all so much for your thoughts and prayers, it looks like

the prayers have worked for which we're truly grateful.

I don't have much time at the minute (supposed to be working) but

yesterday Mum had gone from telling her daughter on Saturday that she

wouldn't be getting better, that she would die from this illness to

Sunday lunch time when we visited her she was sitting in the chair,

reaching for her own drink AND DRINKING from it! She was chatting,

not all was making sense but we read between the lines and got there

in the end. She also told me and SIL that she thought she would " make

it " after all...She was wide awake the whole time we were there and

later in the day the other daughter and SIL went and she was strong

enough to want to take a shower - apparently she even stood

throughout!

We think a combination of us having insisted they give the LBD meds

at the correct time, my husband ensuring that at least her evening

meal is eaten and the exelon given with that meal and the anti

biotics they presecribed on Friday has all contributed to what we see

as nothing but a miracle. Honestly on Saturday evening my SIl and I

really thought she would pass that night if not whilst we were

there....She is amazing and has such a strong will and a strong body..

Look...I said I didn't have much time but just had to tell all as

best and condensed as I could.

And once again thank you all for your prayers

Love Dawn x

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We are doing much better now thank you Donna...its just such a relief.

Mum's had infections before but NOTHING like this, we really

thought ...well you know that already.

Whilst visiting with her on Sunday all of the nursing staff and care

workers, who're looking after her, commented on how well she looked

but one in particular told her " you've made my day, you really

have! " Well Mum beamed her beautiful smile at her and said " Well

thank you very much " ...nearly broke my heart! I just had to leave the

room, for the shear relief brought on a crying fit, my SIL couldn't

believe it...I get down like everyone but don't normally sob like

that especially when I'm happy....maybe it was the stress of the

whole situation exploding out of me? Who knows?

Yesterday and she's still improving so now we're going to get the OT

on board, get her mobilised and hopefully back home for a while

longer.

God bless you all for being here

Dawn x

>

> Dawn,

>

> What wonderful news. Glad to hear she is doing so well. This

disease is amazing. The ups and downs we go through, never mind our

LOs. And she remembered something to say " I might make it after

all. " Good they can let go and just go on for now.

>

> Sound like you are doing so much better too.

>

> Hugs,

>

> Donna R

>

> Caregave for Mom (after I brought her from WI to MI) for 3 years

and 4th year in a nh.

> She was almost 89 when she died in '02. No dx other than mine.

>

>

> Update

>

> Thank you all so much for your thoughts and prayers, it looks like

> the prayers have worked for which we're truly grateful.

>

> I don't have much time at the minute (supposed to be working) but

> yesterday Mum had gone from telling her daughter on Saturday that

she

> wouldn't be getting better, that she would die from this illness to

> Sunday lunch time when we visited her she was sitting in the chair,

> reaching for her own drink AND DRINKING from it! She was chatting,

> not all was making sense but we read between the lines and got

there

> in the end. She also told me and SIL that she thought she

would " make

> it " after all...She was wide awake the whole time we were there and

> later in the day the other daughter and SIL went and she was strong

> enough to want to take a shower - apparently she even stood

> throughout!

>

> We think a combination of us having insisted they give the LBD meds

> at the correct time, my husband ensuring that at least her evening

> meal is eaten and the exelon given with that meal and the anti

> biotics they presecribed on Friday has all contributed to what we

see

> as nothing but a miracle. Honestly on Saturday evening my SIl and I

> really thought she would pass that night if not whilst we were

> there....She is amazing and has such a strong will and a strong

body..

>

> Look...I said I didn't have much time but just had to tell all as

> best and condensed as I could.

>

> And once again thank you all for your prayers

>

> Love Dawn x

>

>

>

>

>

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i'm sorry i am just now catching up on posts...i'm am so happy and so sad for

yu, dawn. i'm on hr 28 w/ 3hrs sleep because my ma's rebound to 'sanity' is back

to lewyville. i just put her back to bed for the rest of the night (i hope) and

i will hopefully soon follow. she was up 'playing' on the 'puter which i spent

half a day de-bugging and no the subscription to the service ran out. i am

having injections friday in my spine (5of them) and then in 10 days i'm having

my rt hip de-bursussed (is that a word?) and injected w/cortisone so i can keep

waiting on her so she doesn't fall and hurt herself. yes, i have cna's help her

bathe 3x a week and a hospice volunteer 4hrs a week. earlier in my posts, (i

think 1st or 2nd) i described my mother and her situation. i am alone basically

other than the tuesday my sis has pencilled for her and my dementia hubby who

does the main housekeeping. my endocrinologist has ordered a lot of things

(scopes, blood work, ct-s ) and i am

afraid in my impassioned fit to keep her home rather than the only place she

can now affford (i pay $500/mo of my $700 and am selling my house to pay her

loan the rest of the way off she took to help me buy it although my payment is

only $250)it looks like she will end up there anyway and i will have failed in

my attempt to save her from greedy relatives ( a few tens of thousands of $$ too

late) and may have fretted myself into even worse shape than I was to start

with. i am sad because like you, dawn, my spirits rose every time there was an

upswing in her condition. at the neurologist (she only diegned to visit once

because he was the 1 who said she had LBD and couldn't drive any more) she said

she wished ' we would accpet she is dying', and let her die in peace is the

inference i took. she isn't awake now, less than 30 mins after i chased her

back to bed, but it will take me a couple of hrs to get back to sleep. i accept

she is dying but the neuro wants to see her

back and has referred her to uro to get a grip on the UTI's she keeps having.

hospice may drop her for breach of contract and i would understand if they did.

her oral exam was better than the 1 only time he saw her and is giving a new EEG

later after UTI's clear. she may last another 2 or 3 yrs i am guessing, but i'm

not sure about me. i read caregiving can take 4-8 yrs off a lifespan (how can

they guestimate that ?) and i have enough wrong w/ me at 51 yrs old that i may

only have 4-8 yrs period and i don't know what shape hubby may be by then. i am

in a quandry and get upset alot easier that i used to. i'm sorry to rant like

this but i am sick, tired and so despondant over her relapse back to lewyville

and the one who looks like my ma but that is where the resemblance ends, i don't

know how long i can live on the lewy yo-yo, now i understand why LO's are in

other than homes-safety for ALL(i fall too when exhausted)an sanity for all-- i

get short w/ her at 2 a.m. and

hurt her feelings and feel like sqqt. again, i'm sorry, i'm glad for you dawn,

but it's a bittersweet glad that feels sad. i wish i could be as eloquent as

tony and some of the others but i'm too sick,tired and heartbroken. i keep you

all in my heart and prayers,--NANCYB CAREGIVER TO MA,BETTY-DX LBD '03AND

HUBBY,SAM-DX DEMENTIA DUE TO HEAD TRAUMA '04--REALLY- LAUGH WHENEVER YOU CAN

laugh whenever you can

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Hi all,How are you all doing?I am again on a different antibiotics due to Sinus infection, ear infection and a chest infection seems like a never ending cycle I am tired after not sleeping at all last night, Been told to try and sleep sitting up going to be fun!Anyone got any advice on how to best cope with painful chest and what position is best From Miss Donna-marie rachel Griffiths UK south Wales yn Gymraeg ac yn falch

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Sitting up in a recliner is about as good as it gets Donna. It takes alot of pressure off your chest. When Ive had bronchitis, I use (I can tolerate the mentholyptus smell) Vicks vaporrub like its my best friend at night. Hot showers/baths work too. I also take Tylenol or Ibuprofen around the clock if my chest really hurts. Using a heating pad on your back when you are sitting in your chair might help too. Drink hot liquids too...lots of them!

Feel better soon!

Ann

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Hi all,

How are you all doing?

I am again on a different antibiotics due to Sinus infection, ear infection and a chest infection seems like a never ending cycle I am tired after not sleeping at all last night,

Been told to try and sleep sitting up going to be fun!

Anyone got any advice on how to best cope with painful chest and what position is best

From Miss Donna-marie rachel Griffiths UK south Wales yn Gymraeg ac yn falch

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