Guest guest Posted July 5, 2006 Report Share Posted July 5, 2006 Oh Stevie, I am so sorry. I am hugging you in Cyber space, and I so want you to feel it. You need your rest so badly. I was running for three day with my Don in the hospital, so I know how hard it is to go without proper or any sleep. Hugs and prayers for you. Love so very much, {{{{{{{{{{{{{Stevie,}}}}}}}}}}} Imogene In a message dated 7/5/2006 11:03:13 PM Central Daylight Time, yigabiss@... writes: Hello all, Just got this message from Stevie. Difficult times at her house. Please, keep Mr.B and Stevie tucked close in your hearts. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I just got online and was going to check my stacked up mail when your email came in...I have a few minutes to update. I have been at Mr. B's side since Monday, without sleep, because he is in the " actively dying " stage. It has been rough..it seems he doesn't " know " what to do...and he wants me to go with him. It is so sad but I am talking him through it....I hope. I have a tablet next to his bed and writing down what he says for later....when I am coherant. I was going to write something on the board but too tired and must get back to Mr. B. PLEASE PLEASE pray for Mr. B to " find his way " ....he has not eaten since Monday and has been in a semi coma with his eyes open...they never close. the hospice nurse said he is mottling and is at that stage but has no idea how long it will take. Please send prayers our way and let the board know what is going on. this is so hard with no one to talk to....hospice has been okay and will send someone out tomorrow....love, stevie p.s..if anyone has an idea on how to handle this..i wiill be glad to knwo.....god this is sad! * * * -------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 My heart goes out to Stevie and Mr. B. I am so glad that I was able to meet Stevie and Mr. B. at the time when I did. My thoughts and prayers are with them. It must be a very difficult time for Stevie. I pray for Mr. B to go in peace and comfort. Thank you for keeping us informed on Stevie and Mr. B.........Jan --- Cowie wrote: > Hello all, > Just got this message from Stevie. > Difficult times at her house. > Please, keep Mr.B and Stevie tucked close in your > hearts. > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ > > I just got online and was going to check my stacked > up mail when your > email came in...I have a few minutes to update. I > have been at Mr. B's > side since Monday, without sleep, because he is in > the " actively dying " > stage. It has been rough..it seems he doesn't " know " > what to do...and > he wants me to go with him. It is so sad but I am > talking him through > it....I hope. I have a tablet next to his bed and > writing down what he > says for later....when I am coherant. I was going to > write something > on the board but too tired and must get back to Mr. > B. PLEASE PLEASE > pray for Mr. B to " find his way " ....he has not eaten > since Monday and > has been in a semi coma with his eyes open...they > never close. the > hospice nurse said he is mottling and is at that > stage but has no idea > how long it will take. Please send prayers our way > and let the board > know what is going on. this is so hard with no one > to talk > to....hospice has been okay and will send someone > out tomorrow....love, > stevie p.s..if anyone has an idea on how to handle > this..i wiill be > glad to knwo.....god this is sad! > > * * * > > > > > > > -------- > Want to be your own boss? Learn how on Yahoo! Small > Business. > > ________________________________________________________________________ > Check out AOL.com today. Breaking news, video > search, pictures, email > and IM. All on demand. Always Free. > > > > > --------------------------------- > Do you Yahoo!? > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > Mail Beta. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 I feel so much pain for Stevie now. went so gently, so softly but I experienced everything Stevie is going through now in my imaginings so many times before he died. I can only imagine how much grief and exhaustion and pity and fear she is experiencing. And how confused and frightened Mr. B must feel. This terrible disease does not give you the faculties to understand, but leaves just enough to know. I hope they can hold onto each other until he can finally say goodbye. In deepest sympathy, Dixie Dixie McIlwraith West Vancouver, BC V7W 2P5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 My deepest Condolences go to Stevie and her family. Thank you for letting us know. Imogene In a message dated 7/6/2006 9:17:10 PM Central Daylight Time, yigabiss@... writes: Hello all, Our friend Mr.B 'calmly took his last breath this morning at 2:05'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 In reference to the term " mottling, " can you explain what that is? I have not heard of it. Thanks very much. --- ppark4915@... wrote: > Hi, , > > Thank you for sharing Stevie's update with us. My > heart just aches for what > they are going through. > > Stevie, in case you have time to read any messages, > you are doing all you > can do. I know you are just exhausted, but hang in > there. When it is over, > you will be glad that you were there for Mr. B. He > needs you more than ever > now. When my Dad began mottling, it was not long > before he passed. I know > everyone is different though. I am praying for you > and Mr. B. He WILL find his > way in his own time. > > Sending you strength and lots of love, > > Piper > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 7, 2006 Report Share Posted July 7, 2006 Stevie Mr. B willl be missed by everyone. He was quite a " gentleman. " Stevie, your love for Mr. B was evident in everything you did and said. You have my deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Gerry Deverell Daughter and caregiver for Dick Deverell, who died at age 88 on September 11, 2005 after more than a 4 yr. battle with LBD. Re: Stevie and Mr.B So sorry to hear this, please pass it on. We all know he is in a better place and free of this terrible disease. What a long goodbye! --- Cowie wrote: > Hello all, > Our friend Mr.B 'calmly took his last breath this > morning at 2:05'. > > > > --------------------------------- > Do you Yahoo!? > Next-gen email? Have it all with the all-new > Yahoo! Mail Beta. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 7, 2006 Report Share Posted July 7, 2006 Oh, , I am so sorry to hear of Mr. B's passing. I know Stevie is exhausted, but please tell her how how much we love her. She and Mr. B are in my prayers. Love and hugs, Piper Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 7, 2006 Report Share Posted July 7, 2006 And it is usually in spots and places, especially around the toes. Imogene In a message dated 7/7/2006 12:30:14 AM Central Daylight Time, twomido@... writes: June, Mottling is what happens to the skin sometimes when people are dying. It turns the arms, legs, hands or feet bluish or purplish. This never happen to my Mom so it doesn't always happen. Donna R Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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