why?

[Guest guest]

I am just wondering why it is that people who dont have a special needs

child just don't get it. My in laws dont understand or see the whole

picture with Maddy. I have had no choice but to ask for a loan from

them because things are so bad for us(as they are for others) and they

refused to help,and they are well off and able to IF they chose to. My

husband goes to school and works part time. He isnt a very involved

parent with either of the girls.He graduates in May and will be working

full time until he finds something in his field.So I am sure his

parents only hear his side of things and I dont feel comfortable

talking to them anymore as they tell hubby everything I say. I know for

a fact they dont know he only comes to the hospital for like 2 hrs at

the most daily,isnt there for any of her surgeries,etc. So I need to

fill them in on this stuff as well as I can't leave the girls here with

him as they get ignored or he falls asleep somestimes for hours. I Have

to to be here for her (and my other daughter).Hubbys and in laws

solution get a job and have my hubby (who is clueless and is of little

help to me) or my parents watch Maddy even if she is in the hospital. I

understand employers want someone who is reliable,which I can be. I

dont even mention my kids in interviews I just want someone to give me

a chance. My parents have helped me out alot with finances and helped

me with the girls when I need it. I just feel like I am alone in all

this and trying to get a job and keep Maddy healthy. I feel like I am

at my breaking point. I live in Fresno,CA and the jobless rate is

aroung 16% according to hubby so doesnt he realize I am the one taking

care of Maddy and Kallie and just deal. Ugh. Thats all. Its a long and

confusing rant...lol. Thanks for listening.

ps. still waiting for doc office to call.