Re: Documenting thoughts / Tami.

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> Adithya

Dear Tami:

It gives me great pleasure to read

this post of yours and to respond

to and examine the facts behind many

allegations that you make in it.

About a month ago,

I read you say that you only read

's posts. In that light, I find

it somewhat SHOCKING that mine, 's,

Rose's or Vivian's messages can still

inconvenience you!

Do you want to " control " everybody on

this forum no matter whether you read

them or not?

With that out of the way,

now, please allow me to examine

the facts behind your allegations.

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> I am afraid that you are responsible that many people

> Left this group

I have checked the member count.

Based on member count, it doesn't

seem that " many " members have left

this group.

In fact, number of members look same

or greater than the time I had joined

this forum.

On what basis,

did you make that allegation?

> It is too much to handle to get

> 10 posts off topic a day from you.

I have been quite 'active' recently

and I have counted my messages. I have

posted 20 messages in last 13 days.

That is an average of about 1.6 messages

a day and not 10 posts a day as you allege.

On what basis,

did you make that allegation?

And, I don't think all my posts are 'off topic'.

IMV.. Many of them though, not limited to 4

questions alone... are related to the philosophy

behind work and BK's teachings.

I am also a member of the " Doing-The-Work " work

group for about 3 months now. That group I

consider solely focussed on " doing the work " and 4 questions and as a

result I haven't posted much

on that forum.

This group on the other hand, I find little

broader and more inclusive and thus, my

posting haven't been 'strictly' limited to

4 questions alone. Yet, you might have

noticed that I have never posted anything

totally " off topic " like 'dating', 'real

estate advice', 'politics', 'sex therapy'...

In fact, you are the one who has posted many

posts that I thought were MAINLY related to

your 'dating' alone!

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> Write a diary and leave this group

Thanks for your suggestion, Tami!

My advice to you would be to try to

learn to speak honestly, truthfully and

factually and quit playing games.

I didn't like what you wrote about Steve.

[him having affair with you and hiding

it from his wife. I thought it was 'private'

matter between you and him and you " should

have " respected its 'privacy'!]

I didn't like what you wrote about me.

I didn't like what you wrote about LTW.

And, I don't like you asking me, ,

Rose, Vivian or anybody else on this forum

to change their behavior in any way. You are

NOT a moderator and is doing a good enough

job without your repeated 'assistance'.

And, I don't consider you a " good " model of

" good " behavior for anybody to " follow " .

With warm greetings,

ac.

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