RE: My life is in the garbage TOO

[Guest guest]

According to my definition about making progress,

I make no progress at all.

I am not loving what is.

I believe my thoughts:

I hate myself.

I do The Work everyday but it hasn't worked for me.

I don't have a man in my life.

I hate the world.

I hate Christmas.

The computer and food is my only friend I can trust.

A

Amber wrote:

Dear Tami,

You asked: " Any thoughts about making progress in life? "

For me it means believing my thoughts less and loving what is more.

Love,

Amber

Tami wrote:

I just did the work on:

" I am scared because I am going backwards "

I feel that I make no progress

And for a second I felt better

From the TA:

I am scared because my thinking is going backwards

Than I saw that in reality things a always ok

No bad and good

And than my thinking label my life

In a way that makes me so depressed

Any thoughts about making progress in life?

T

-- My life is in the garbage

I broke up with my boyfriend cause he didn't want commitment.

I feel that my psychiatrist doesn't help me either

And I hate my work.

The button line is: I am depressed

And it is an outcome of thoughts,I guess

I have so many of them I feel overwhelmed

Sometimes I want to die

And I feel scared

I have no friends

I will do the work today and let you know what happened

T

[Guest guest]

Thank you for sharing sweetie

I can relate

This is how I see things too

I am willing to open my perspective

Come to skype, T

-- My life is in the garbage

I broke up with my boyfriend cause he didn't want commitment.

I feel that my psychiatrist doesn't help me either

And I hate my work.

The button line is: I am depressed

And it is an outcome of thoughts,I guess

I have so many of them I feel overwhelmed

Sometimes I want to die

And I feel scared

I have no friends

I will do the work today and let you know what happened

T

[Guest guest]

Amber -

Thank you for introducing yourself to me. It's really nice to meet you and I

can see that we have lots in common. I can find those things in myself too.

You might like to read this entry on my blog

http://letsdothework.blogs.com/letsdothework/2006/12/the_truth_about.html

Be sure to read the comments too. There is some really honest sharing from

some amazing people and I think you'd fit right in. :-)

Love,

~Mona

http://www.questionthemind.com <http://www.questionthemind.com/>

[Guest guest]

Dear Amber and Tami,

coming back to this list after x-mas, I'm sorry to read how you

feel/felt. I know all these feelings and thoughts very well.

So here's some comforting music for all of us:

http://www.david-qualey.com/Resources/14%20Rainbow-web99.mp3

http://www.david-qualey.com/Resources/04%20Dona%20Nobilis-web99.mp3

Love Rose

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> According to my definition about making progress,

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[Guest guest]

Mona

I really apritiate your wisdom and clarity

I have the thought that you are here

Mainly to promote your web site or new book

I think that you should stop writing the link to your site

But I am not the moderator around here

I don't call the shots

, what do you think?

-- RE: My life is in the garbage TOO

Amber -

Thank you for introducing yourself to me. It's really nice to meet you and I

can see that we have lots in common. I can find those things in myself too.

You might like to read this entry on my blog

http://letsdothework.blogs.com/letsdothework/2006/12/the_truth_about.html

Be sure to read the comments too. There is some really honest sharing from

some amazing people and I think you'd fit right in. :-)

Love,

~Mona

http://www.questionthemind.com <http://www.questionthemind.com/>

[Guest guest]

And so what if she is? I don't call the shots either

and if Mona has something useful to offer, in addition

to her clarity and wisdom, let her. What I do with

her offer is my business, the only business I really

have any say in.

Arnel

--- Tami wrote:

> Mona

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> I really apritiate your wisdom and clarity

> I have the thought that you are here

> Mainly to promote your web site or new book

> I think that you should stop writing the link to

> your site

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> But I am not the moderator around here

> I don't call the shots

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> garbage TOO

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> Amber -

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> Thank you for introducing yourself to me. It's

> really nice to meet you and I

> can see that we have lots in common. I can find

> those things in myself too.

> You might like to read this entry on my blog

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http://letsdothework.blogs.com/letsdothework/2006/12/the_truth_about.html

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> Be sure to read the comments too. There is some

> really honest sharing from

> some amazing people and I think you'd fit right in.

> :-)

>

> Love,

>

> ~Mona

> http://www.questionthemind.com

> <http://www.questionthemind.com/>

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[Guest guest]

I was just expressing my opinion

And I hear that you don't agree with me

I want to hear what think about that

Cause I found it inappropriate to use this site

To promote her business

She takes a lot of money from people to ask them the 4 question

While they can get this service for free at 's site

Lovethework, please step in

And agree with my opinion

Thanx, T

-- RE: My life is in the

> garbage TOO

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> Amber -

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> Thank you for introducing yourself to me. It's

> really nice to meet you and I

> can see that we have lots in common. I can find

> those things in myself too.

> You might like to read this entry on my blog

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http://letsdothework.blogs.com/letsdothework/2006/12/the_truth_about.html

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> Be sure to read the comments too. There is some

> really honest sharing from

> some amazing people and I think you'd fit right in.

> :-)

>

> Love,

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> ~Mona

> http://www.questionthemind.com

> <http://www.questionthemind.com/>

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[Guest guest]

Hi Tami -

It's been a long time since we last chatted, eh? Thank you for sharing those

thoughts with me. I can understand why you would think I came with

intentions of promoting my book. Had that been true for me, I would have

done that already. It seems instead, that it was your job to mention the

book. ;-)

A thought that occured to me:

Tami should not think that I'm taking money from people.

1. I don't know for sure that she shouldn't think that.

2. No, I can't absolutely know that that would be best for her path or for

mine.

3. Very in her business. Defending against thoughts that she shares. Trying

to take that experience of believing that thought away from her. Wondering

why she even thinks it. Wanting to explain the way I see it that's

different. Confused.

4. Reading what she wrote: " She takes a lot of money from people... " and

respecting that that is the thought that showed up in her, and that she

shared it here. No need to argue with it. It's a thought and Tami was the

messenger. Seeing that there is nothing wrong with that thought appearing.

Respecting that if she believes the thought, that is her path. I would not

try to take that away from her. I know the value of believing a thought and

what an important part of my path believing my stories has been also.

TA> She should think that I take money from people.

1. Yes, this is totally her business. And it seems that it's reality that

she thinks this.

2. When she thinks that it brings me back to appreciating that others are

entitled to their thoughts about me and anything else in the world.

3. In a sense, it's true because when they give me money I take it or

receive it.

TA> I should not think that she takes money from people.

1. Yes, when I hear about her event in January it's an opportunity for me to

see how she's not taking money from people.

2. I don't think she's taking money from people, so this is true in that

sense also.

TA> I should not think that I take money from people.

1. Good advice. I know that when I am present, I am grateful for the

exchange that I have with people I work with. There is a giving and

receiving on both sides that feels sweet.

2. That is painful for me to believe that I'm taking money from people. So

that's a reason not to think this.

Thank you for being here, Tami.

Love,

~Mona

http://www.questionthemind.com

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From: Loving-what-is [mailto:Loving-what-is ]

On Behalf Of Tami

Sent: Wednesday, December 27, 2006 6:35 AM

To: Loving-what-is

Subject: RE: My life is in the garbage TOO

Mona

I really apritiate your wisdom and clarity

I have the thought that you are here

Mainly to promote your web site or new book

I think that you should stop writing the link to your site

But I am not the moderator around here

I don't call the shots

, what do you think?

..

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[Guest guest]

> Hi Tami -

Hi sweetie, welcome back

And please drop the URL address, it annoys me

> It's been a long time since we last chatted, he? Thank you for sharing

those

> thoughts with me. I can understand why you would think I came with

> intentions of promoting my book. Had that been true for me, I would have

> done that already. It seems instead, that it was your job to mention the

> book. ;-)

By the way

Congratulation for your new book

How are the selling so far ;-)

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> A thought that occurred to me:

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> Tami should not think that I'm taking money from people.

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> 1. I don't know for sure that she shouldn't think that.

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> 2. No, I can't absolutely know that that would be best for her path or for

> mine.

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> 3. Very in her business. Defending against thoughts that she shares.

Trying

> to take that experience of believing that thought away from her. Wondering

> why she even thinks it.

Lets see why

Maybe because I have seen in your site that you charge money?

Or maybe it is just my mind

Trying to be right?

And selling a " WHOSE BUSINESS Large Mug " for 15.99$ ???

What where you thinking?

But than, maybe if I had this mug

I would have stay in my business?

What do you think?

This mug effects people's thoughts? Or just your financial life?

Actually I wish you all the best

I love to provoke people

And I am sure, many time I am the voice of many people

Happy new year, T

[Guest guest]

" She takes a lot of money from people to ask them the

4 questions while they can get this service for free

at 's site... "

Is that true? And if it is, the problem with that

is...? Whether people choose to allow Mona to take a

lot of money from them or whether they choose to do

the work for free on 's site is their own

business.

It seems to me you're creating a problem here when

one didn't previously exist. And please don't bother

to tell me to TURN IT AROUND, I've already done that.

Arnel

--- Tami wrote:

> I was just expressing my opinion

> And I hear that you don't agree with me

>

> I want to hear what think about that

> Cause I found it inappropriate to use this site

> To promote her business

>

> She takes a lot of money from people to ask them the

> 4 question

> While they can get this service for free at 's

> site

>

> Lovethework, please step in

> And agree with my opinion

>

> Thanx, T

>

> -- RE: My life is in the

> > garbage TOO

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> > Amber -

> >

> > Thank you for introducing yourself to me. It's

> > really nice to meet you and I

> > can see that we have lots in common. I can find

> > those things in myself too.

> > You might like to read this entry on my blog

> >

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http://letsdothework.blogs.com/letsdothework/2006/12/the_truth_about.html

> >

> > Be sure to read the comments too. There is some

> > really honest sharing from

> > some amazing people and I think you'd fit right

> in.

> > :-)

> >

> > Love,

> >

> > ~Mona

> > http://www.questionthemind.com

> > <http://www.questionthemind.com/>

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[Guest guest]

Gee, now why was it I added Tami to my spam list? Can't seem to remember but I

like my emails more these days.

Vivian

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> > garbage TOO

> >

> > Amber -

> >

> > Thank you for introducing yourself to me. It's

> > really nice to meet you and I

> > can see that we have lots in common. I can find

> > those things in myself too.

> > You might like to read this entry on my blog

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http://letsdothework.blogs.com/letsdothework/2006/12/the_truth_about.html

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> > Be sure to read the comments too. There is some

> > really honest sharing from

> > some amazing people and I think you'd fit right

> in.

> > :-)

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> > Love,

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> > ~Mona

> > http://www.questionthemind.com

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[Guest guest]

Vivian

You are an example for what happens to people

Who don't do the work on people who annoys them (-there best teachers):

They have to protect themselves

(from there own stressful thoughts) by shutting these people out

Vivian, when your boss annoys you

What do you do?

Quiet your job as well? (-put him in spam list)

I can relate to that cause many times I prefer shutting people out of my

life

Cause I cannot stand my thinking about that

We all do that

But

If I where you

I wouldn't brag about that,

After all we are all here to question our stressful thoughts

And not attach to them

Thank you, T

-- Re: My life is in the garbage TOO

Gee, now why was it I added Tami to my spam list? Can't seem to remember but

I like my emails more these days.

Vivian

RE: My life is in the

> > garbage TOO

> >

> > Amber -

> >

> > Thank you for introducing yourself to me. It's

> > really nice to meet you and I

> > can see that we have lots in common. I can find

> > those things in myself too.

> > You might like to read this entry on my blog

> >

> >

>

http://letsdothework.blogs.com/letsdothework/2006/12/the_truth_about.html

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> > Be sure to read the comments too. There is some

> > really honest sharing from

> > some amazing people and I think you'd fit right

> in.

> > :-)

> >

> > Love,

> >

> > ~Mona

> > http://www.questionthemind.com

> > <http://www.questionthemind.com/>

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[Guest guest]

> Mona

> I think that you should stop writing the link to your site

Tami,

I agree with you.

@

http://www.questionthelinkposters.com

and

http://www.somedayiwillhaveacoolsitetoo.com

[Guest guest]

Hi Tami -

You wrote:

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Hi sweetie, welcome back

And please drop the URL address, it annoys me

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The signature of my name and website address happens automatically when I

send replies to emails. I removed it in this one. I can't promise that I

will remember to remove it everytime I reply to an LWI email. I can be

forgetful. I send a lot of emails and and it saves me time to have it happen

automatically. I'm very used to it being there.

I get that you find the website being there annoying. So please continue to

try to spare yourself from that pain (if you consider being annoyed painful)

by reminding me if it's important to you.

If we can't find clarity about the stressful thoughts we're having about

something in front of us (like a website URL), sometimes the kindest thing

we can do for ourselves is to try to get that person to stop doing what we

don't like. Sometimes that's the best we've got going. I can appreciate that

and have tried to do that too.

Love,

~Mona_,_._,___