Guest guest Posted December 12, 2006 Report Share Posted December 12, 2006 -- good question amber.. what would i have if e did not complain.. peace.. more job security less stress.. is that true no. if i had that then what woudl i have.. my own critical thoughts about myself.. which i have already. i realize she is mirroring my own self criticism.. I do think the others are better caregivers. And i really dont feel warm about this client.. or any of them really.. shes just reflecting back to me what i put out.. i know i am very critical of her in my head.. I have done the work. Giovanni suggested i do the work on what i kept saying over and over.. which was.. I just need to accept her the way she is.. and get over it.. TA i need to accept my self and get over it. and i know i am saying a story about her in my head which is not complementary and she is not as bad as i make her out to be.. and im not as bad as she thinks i ma either. we have that in common.. i suppose we are mirrors. maybe i just need a new job. but then it would show up in some other form.. I suppose.. when will you be here... desparate, roslyn t- In Loving-what-is , " " wrote: > > > > > What do you think you would have if he was more available? > > And if you had that, then what would you have? > > Amber, I like this question, especially the beginning. > > What would you have if.... > > I'm finding more and more that when I investigate, I find out I > already have, in some sense, that which I thought I'd get if... > > And when I ask, what don't I have... > > nothing comes to mind. > > Ah, peace. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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