Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Share Posted November 19, 2006 Tami.. you are just mean sometimes.. i know turn it around What happened to STeve Daily did you ever find out?.. I wonder if people leave because of my off topic emails.. .. AC 's emails are interesting -i have to admit sometimes i feel they get too long. but thats ok. you dont have to read them. How is your Dad? love, roslyn - -- In Loving-what-is , Tami wrote: > > Adithya > > I am afraid that you are responsible that many people > Left this group > It is too much to handle to get 10 posts off topic a day from you. > > Write a diary and leave this group > > T > > -- Documenting thoughts. > > In my experience, > thoughts repeat in order to make memory > and in order to keep memory fresh and intact. > Thoughts that don't repeat; soon, disappear > from our memory. > > And, thoughts repeat only as long as we have > a " need " to keep them 'in memory' - possibly, > to resolve them later! Example of these 'repeating' > [and by 'unresolved'] thoughts would include - > 'having to' file taxes, 'having to' finish paperwork, > 'having to' meet boss... > > and, they might also include thoughts of > 'what someone did to me', because, I don't > think I have yet DONE " enough " to pay him/her > back [take my revenge]! That's why, when > a murderer gets sentenced to death and execute - > victim's families often say it brings 'closure' > to the memory of the dead i.e. that particular > thought of 'what someone did' is 'resolved' > [and thus " released " ] now! > > Repeating thoughts might also include, 'what I did' to > myself or someone else and the reason of their > repeat might be because we think we haven't yet > " punished " ourselves for having done that, haven't > 'paid back' enough to the victims for having caused > some damage or because we think we haven't yet > fully learned its lessons. > > Either way, thoughts repeat only because they > are not yet completely " resolved " . > > Thought " I have to file my taxes " or " I have to > pay my electricity bill " keeps repeating itself > until we taken a real decision by either paying it, > or by deciding not to pay it or by setting a fixed > time and place to pay it. Once we do that, this thought > is " resolved " and thus stops repeating itself. It is > my experience that a Very Similar thing happens with > other thoughts too! > > > * * * * * > > Therefore, I think it is good to sit with pen and > paper [or computer] and give our full > attention to listen, understand, > examine and document any thought that > keeps repeating itself frequently. > > It not only works with tax and paperwork > kind of thoughts but, in my experience, it > works in " resolving " ANY thought that keeps > repeating itself! > > A repeating thought saps our energy and time > it keeps occupying Valuable Mental SPACE > [Peace Of Mind, Open Awareness]. Resolving > such a thought OPENS this SPACE Up once > Again! > > > A thought repeats itself only as long as we > believe that you need to 'remember' it, > we need to 'keep it in memory' because > we find its 'lessons' useful for some > reason or there is something that 'we > want to do' that we still haven't done. > It is simply a remainder that keeps > reminding us to do 'what we want to do' > with it and then allow it to go away. > > Repeating thought is simply our way to > keep it in memory and to keep it fresh. > Once we fully examine it, take time to > understand it and document it - we end > the need of repeating it because we > have documented it and thus we can refer > to it anytime we want plus by examining > it in full details and by taking a > 'decision' we resolve and release it! > > Unless we have 'resolved' a thought, > it is my experience that a thought DOES > and " should " [for our own sake] keep repeating > itself! > > > --------------------------------- > Sponsored Link > > Mortgage rates near 39yr lows. $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/mo - Calculate > new house payment > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 20, 2006 Report Share Posted November 20, 2006 > Tami.. you are just mean sometimes.. I know... and I enjoy it so much! > i know turn it around > What happened to STeve Daily did you ever find out?.. I wonder if > people leave because of my off topic emails.. .. > AC 's emails are interesting -i have to admit > sometimes i feel they get too long. but thats ok. > > you dont have to read them. > > How is your Dad? he is alive my grandfather passed away today! my mom went to new york so I have my home all to myself T > love, roslyn > > - > > > > -- In Loving-what-is , Tami <tamar_fa@> wrote: > > > > Adithya > > > > I am afraid that you are responsible that many people > > Left this group > > It is too much to handle to get 10 posts off topic a day from you. > > > > Write a diary and leave this group > > > > T > > > > -- Documenting thoughts. > > > > In my experience, > > thoughts repeat in order to make memory > > and in order to keep memory fresh and intact. > > Thoughts that don't repeat; soon, disappear > > from our memory. > > > > And, thoughts repeat only as long as we have > > a " need " to keep them 'in memory' - possibly, > > to resolve them later! Example of these 'repeating' > > [and by 'unresolved'] thoughts would include - > > 'having to' file taxes, 'having to' finish paperwork, > > 'having to' meet boss... > > > > and, they might also include thoughts of > > 'what someone did to me', because, I don't > > think I have yet DONE " enough " to pay him/her > > back [take my revenge]! That's why, when > > a murderer gets sentenced to death and execute - > > victim's families often say it brings 'closure' > > to the memory of the dead i.e. that particular > > thought of 'what someone did' is 'resolved' > > [and thus " released " ] now! > > > > Repeating thoughts might also include, 'what I did' to > > myself or someone else and the reason of their > > repeat might be because we think we haven't yet > > " punished " ourselves for having done that, haven't > > 'paid back' enough to the victims for having caused > > some damage or because we think we haven't yet > > fully learned its lessons. > > > > Either way, thoughts repeat only because they > > are not yet completely " resolved " . > > > > Thought " I have to file my taxes " or " I have to > > pay my electricity bill " keeps repeating itself > > until we taken a real decision by either paying it, > > or by deciding not to pay it or by setting a fixed > > time and place to pay it. Once we do that, this thought > > is " resolved " and thus stops repeating itself. It is > > my experience that a Very Similar thing happens with > > other thoughts too! > > > > > > * * * * * > > > > Therefore, I think it is good to sit with pen and > > paper [or computer] and give our full > > attention to listen, understand, > > examine and document any thought that > > keeps repeating itself frequently. > > > > It not only works with tax and paperwork > > kind of thoughts but, in my experience, it > > works in " resolving " ANY thought that keeps > > repeating itself! > > > > A repeating thought saps our energy and time > > it keeps occupying Valuable Mental SPACE > > [Peace Of Mind, Open Awareness]. Resolving > > such a thought OPENS this SPACE Up once > > Again! > > > > > > A thought repeats itself only as long as we > > believe that you need to 'remember' it, > > we need to 'keep it in memory' because > > we find its 'lessons' useful for some > > reason or there is something that 'we > > want to do' that we still haven't done. > > It is simply a remainder that keeps > > reminding us to do 'what we want to do' > > with it and then allow it to go away. > > > > Repeating thought is simply our way to > > keep it in memory and to keep it fresh. > > Once we fully examine it, take time to > > understand it and document it - we end > > the need of repeating it because we > > have documented it and thus we can refer > > to it anytime we want plus by examining > > it in full details and by taking a > > 'decision' we resolve and release it! > > > > Unless we have 'resolved' a thought, > > it is my experience that a thought DOES > > and " should " [for our own sake] keep repeating > > itself! > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Sponsored Link > > > > Mortgage rates near 39yr lows. $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/mo - > Calculate > > new house payment > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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