Guest guest Posted June 5, 2006 Report Share Posted June 5, 2006 here's my work. feedback is always appreciated. this is totally embarrassing for me, so please be gentle. 1. Who angers, confuses, saddens, or disappoints you, and why? What is it about them that you don't like? i'm saddened, confused and worried by R because she's acting very 'distant' in our relationship right now. i don't like how she acts nervous and strange over the phone, especially after i tell her how important she is to me and ho w much she is loved. so, Renata shouldn't act distant and strange. is that true? the truth is: she does. at least sometimes. how do i react when i believe this thought? my mind immediately starts spinning stories as to what it means (she is losing interest, wanting to end it). i get very restless and anxious. i feel a sinking, almost sick feeling in my stomach. is there a peaceful reason to believe this thought? absolutely not, though i have no choice in the moment. is there a good reason to drop it? yes, and i can't. who would i be w/out this belief? less fucking neurotic. more relaxed. that feeling of high-tension worry would at least be less, and that would be nice. TA's Renata should act distant and strange. okay, but i still don't like it. Renata shouldn't act warm and caring and loving. not until she does. i shouldn't act distant and strange. i know i do this sometimes to other people, and i see i can't really help it. and i'm sorry, 'people'. i shouldn't freak out about this. well, i know! i think the issue here is abandonment. i can be/have been/will be abandoned because... i'm always looking for the worst, waiting for it. make friends w/ the worst that can happen, right? well, i need to go to bed now. if you read this, thanks. jeremy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2006 Report Share Posted June 5, 2006 Hi , For the Turn around I would say you act very distant and strange (neurotic thinking, depression) when you percieve her to be distant and strange. You CAN NOT know that her not being energetic in luvy talk tonight has any thing to do with not being into you as a love interest. Could she have other things on her mind she doesn't care to share? Could be just as True. I know this happens a lot to me, " Why are you being so cold? " I'm not just not very emotional at that moment. The Good News? You are free to love her as much as you want regardless, it's no skin off her nose. Mark > > here's my work. feedback is always appreciated. this is totally > embarrassing for me, so please be gentle. > > > 1. Who angers, confuses, saddens, or disappoints you, > and why? What is it about them that you don't like? > > > i'm saddened, confused and worried by R because she's acting very 'distant' > in our relationship right now. i don't like how she acts nervous and strange > over the phone, especially after i tell her how important she is to me and ho > w much she is loved. > > so, Renata shouldn't act distant and strange. is that true? > the truth is: she does. at least sometimes. > > how do i react when i believe this thought? > my mind immediately starts spinning stories as to what it means (she is > losing interest, wanting to end it). i get very restless and anxious. i feel a > sinking, almost sick feeling in my stomach. > > is there a peaceful reason to believe this thought? > absolutely not, though i have no choice in the moment. > > is there a good reason to drop it? > yes, and i can't. > > who would i be w/out this belief? > less fucking neurotic. more relaxed. that feeling of high- tension worry > would at least be less, and that would be nice. > > TA's > > Renata should act distant and strange. okay, but i still don't like it. > Renata shouldn't act warm and caring and loving. not until she does. > i shouldn't act distant and strange. i know i do this sometimes to other > people, and i see i can't really help it. and i'm sorry, 'people'. > i shouldn't freak out about this. well, i know! > > i think the issue here is abandonment. i can be/have been/will be abandoned > because... > i'm always looking for the worst, waiting for it. make friends w/ the worst > that can happen, right? > > well, i need to go to bed now. if you read this, thanks. > > jeremy > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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