Guest guest Posted June 6, 2006 Report Share Posted June 6, 2006 dear roslyn, who's business am i in? i'm not sure, because my feelings are my business right? letting go of the need for LAA is seemingly impossible. when i get it, i am happy. when it seems to be taken away from me, i am unhappy. simple enough, but the solution is a bit trickier for me (and most of us, i would bet). maybe i will call the hotline, we'll see. thanks! love, J In a message dated 6/6/2006 8:21:46 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, mrcitrus6@... writes: whose business are you in? Id call the hotline ..they are excellent. - AS you may know I have the same issue.. and have had the same issue in the past in other relationships. And I did the work on the hotline about how i think clients dont like me. and the facilitator.ho Celia I hope its ok to give her name .. said everything happens for us not to us.. Therefore, clients who seem they dont like me... are doing a service.. because it is an issue i need to look at and do the work on. WEll it wasnt maybe exactly in those words Anyway when R is cold to you she is doing a service. I'm back working and want to quit already I might try to cut down on my hours. STill have a lot of stories.. BEst wishes love, roslyn -- In _Loving-what-Loving-what-<WBLov_ (mailto:Loving-what-is ) , Tami <tamar_fa@..t> wrote: > > Dear J > > All I have to say is: > How Renata is such a lucky women > To be loved by you. > > You are so lovable, and as I told you in the past > I think you too could work things out, > After all she does love you, Dahh! > > I am always here for you > You can find me: on your lap > > Your lap lady, T > > > > -- [Lovin > > hi everyone. if you know me, you know i only do the work when i'm pretty > distraught. if you know what makes me distraught, you know i'm about to > write > about Renata. and i notice that i'm explaining myself here, because i can't > stand to be upset about the same things over and over. it makes me > feel...pathetic. feel...pathetic.<WBR>..or something. oh well, now i goes > nothing. > > > 1. Who angers, confuses, saddens, or disappoints you, > and why? What is it about them that you don't like? > > i'm saddened, confused and worried by R because she's acting very 'distant' > in our relationship right now. i don't like how she acts nervous and strange > > over the phone, especially after i tell her how important she is to me and > how much she is loved. > > > 2. How do you want them to change? What do you want > them to do? > i want R to return the feeling to me. i want her to tell me how hard it is > for us to be apart. i want her to be warmer, more accessible. i want to > feel like i'm important to her, i'm on her mind and she misses me. > 3. > What is it that they should or shouldn't do, be, think, > or feel? What advice could you offer? > i don't know what she 'should' or 'shouldn't' do. i just know that i want > to feel like she loves and misses me. this is important to me. > 4. Do you need anything from them? What do they > need to do in order for you to be happy? > i need R to take the time to let me know she loves me and misses me. i need > to feel that connection with her in order to be happy. > 5. What do you think of them? Make a list. > Renata is so many things, so many opposites. she is very loving, and then > she is completely aloof. she is sexy and powerful. she is unaccountable for > her actions sometimes. she is her own person, completely. > 6. What is it that you don't want to experience with > that person again? > i don't ever want to have the experience of fear and grief that comes when i > > perceive that she is 'losing interest' again. > okay, i need to at least get through number 1 before going to bed... > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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