Guest guest Posted December 10, 2006 Report Share Posted December 10, 2006 Dear Tami, What do you think you would have if he was more available? And if you had that, then what would you have? Do these stressful thoughts actually make him more available than he is? Why is it a good thing in your life right now because he is not spending as much time as you want to spend with him? Love, Amber Tami wrote: 1. Who angers, irritates, saddens, or frustrates you, and why? I am mad at my boyfriend because he is not available enough to meet me 2. How do you want them to change? What do you want them to do? I want to make himself ore available to me 3. What is it that they should or shouldn't do, be, think, or feel? should initiate with me more meetings 4. What do they need to do in order for you to be happy? I need to come and visit me more often, maybe every day 5. What do you think of them? Make a list. is an amazing guy but he is self centred 6. What is it that you don't want to experience with this person again? I don't want him to go to Tel Aviv in the evenings instead of being with me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 10, 2006 Report Share Posted December 10, 2006 Amber, you are back!!!! Where have you been???????????? Did I say anything in the past that made you not want to talk to me anymore? Back to What do I think I would have if he was more available? Well... More happiness cause when we are together I am so happy He is so amazing, I get to adore him all the time And tell him why I love him and how I am grateful that he is in my life The thought that I want him to be more available doesn't make him available to me Dahhh He doesn't try to please me, He is a very strong man, yet very caring too He is so sexy, pure, optimistic, wise, beautiful So I want to be with him as much as I can I did the work on him in the hotline I still want to see him more :-( T -- Re: 2 Dear Tami, What do you think you would have if he was more available? And if you had that, then what would you have? Do these stressful thoughts actually make him more available than he is? Why is it a good thing in your life right now because he is not spending as much time as you want to spend with him? Love, Amber Tami wrote: 1. Who angers, irritates, saddens, or frustrates you, and why? I am mad at my boyfriend because he is not available enough to meet me 2. How do you want them to change? What do you want them to do? I want to make himself ore available to me 3. What is it that they should or shouldn't do, be, think, or feel? should initiate with me more meetings 4. What do they need to do in order for you to be happy? I need to come and visit me more often, maybe every day 5. What do you think of them? Make a list. is an amazing guy but he is self centred 6. What is it that you don't want to experience with this person again? I don't want him to go to Tel Aviv in the evenings instead of being with me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2006 Report Share Posted December 12, 2006 > What do you think you would have if he was more available? > And if you had that, then what would you have? Amber, I like this question, especially the beginning. What would you have if.... I'm finding more and more that when I investigate, I find out I already have, in some sense, that which I thought I'd get if... And when I ask, what don't I have... nothing comes to mind. Ah, peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2006 Report Share Posted December 12, 2006 dear tami, whose business are you in.. ? do you really need anything.?-- how is it better that david does what he does? I hope you do the work on teh hotline or with someone else.. and go through all the questions. When hes not around are you loving yourself? something i dont do much.. so i think of that one. love, roslyn - In Loving-what-is , Tami wrote: > > 1. Who angers, irritates, saddens, or frustrates you, and why? > > I am mad at my boyfriend because he is not available enough to meet me > > 2. How do you want them to change? What do you want them to do? > > I want to make himself ore available to me > > > 3. What is it that they should or shouldn't do, be, think, or feel? > > should initiate with me more meetings > > > 4. What do they need to do in order for you to be happy? > > I need to come and visit me more often, maybe every day > > 5. What do you think of them? Make a list. > > is an amazing guy but he is self centred > > 6. What is it that you don't want to experience with this person again? > > I don't want him to go to Tel Aviv in the evenings instead of being with me > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2006 Report Share Posted December 12, 2006 tami.. you did not answer ambers question.. why is it a good thing he is not spending more time with you..? love,rh--- In Loving-what-is , Tami wrote: > > Amber, you are back!!!! > > Where have you been???????????? > > Did I say anything in the past that made you not want to talk to me anymore? > > > > Back to > > What do I think I would have if he was more available? > > Well... More happiness cause when we are together I am so happy > He is so amazing, I get to adore him all the time > And tell him why I love him and how I am grateful that he is in my life > > The thought that I want him to be more available doesn't make him available > to me > Dahhh > > He doesn't try to please me, > He is a very strong man, yet very caring too > > He is so sexy, pure, optimistic, wise, beautiful > So I want to be with him as much as I can > > I did the work on him in the hotline > I still want to see him more :-( > > T > > > > > > > -- Re: 2 > > Dear Tami, > > What do you think you would have if he was more available? > And if you had that, then what would you have? > > Do these stressful thoughts actually make him more available than he is? > > Why is it a good thing in your life right now because he is not spending as > much time as you want to spend with him? > > Love, > Amber > > Tami wrote: > 1. Who angers, irritates, saddens, or frustrates you, and why? > > I am mad at my boyfriend because he is not available enough to meet me > > 2. How do you want them to change? What do you want them to do? > > I want to make himself ore available to me > > 3. What is it that they should or shouldn't do, be, think, or feel? > > should initiate with me more meetings > > 4. What do they need to do in order for you to be happy? > > I need to come and visit me more often, maybe every day > > 5. What do you think of them? Make a list. > > is an amazing guy but he is self centred > > 6. What is it that you don't want to experience with this person again? > > I don't want him to go to Tel Aviv in the evenings instead of being with me > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2006 Report Share Posted December 12, 2006 It is good cause I have more time to focus on my goals And I get to miss him T -- Re: 2 > > Dear Tami, > > What do you think you would have if he was more available? > And if you had that, then what would you have? > > Do these stressful thoughts actually make him more available than he is? > > Why is it a good thing in your life right now because he is not spending as > much time as you want to spend with him? > > Love, > Amber > > Tami wrote: > 1. Who angers, irritates, saddens, or frustrates you, and why? > > I am mad at my boyfriend because he is not available enough to meet me > > 2. How do you want them to change? What do you want them to do? > > I want to make himself ore available to me > > 3. What is it that they should or shouldn't do, be, think, or feel? > > should initiate with me more meetings > > 4. What do they need to do in order for you to be happy? > > I need to come and visit me more often, maybe every day > > 5. What do you think of them? Make a list. > > is an amazing guy but he is self centred > > 6. What is it that you don't want to experience with this person again? > > I don't want him to go to Tel Aviv in the evenings instead of being with me > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2006 Report Share Posted December 12, 2006 When he is not around I do things that I care about I am not bored But it is always a pleasure to be with him He is the first man that I am phisicly attracted to his look He could be a model (he is a dancer) So I cannot take my hands off him T -- Re: 2 dear tami, whose business are you in.. ? do you really need anything.?-- how is it better that david does what he does? I hope you do the work on teh hotline or with someone else.. and go through all the questions. When hes not around are you loving yourself? something i dont do much.. so i think of that one. love, roslyn - In Loving-what-is , Tami wrote: > > 1. Who angers, irritates, saddens, or frustrates you, and why? > > I am mad at my boyfriend because he is not available enough to meet me > > 2. How do you want them to change? What do you want them to do? > > I want to make himself ore available to me > > > 3. What is it that they should or shouldn't do, be, think, or feel? > > should initiate with me more meetings > > > 4. What do they need to do in order for you to be happy? > > I need to come and visit me more often, maybe every day > > 5. What do you think of them? Make a list. > > is an amazing guy but he is self centred > > 6. What is it that you don't want to experience with this person again? > > I don't want him to go to Tel Aviv in the evenings instead of being with me > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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