Re: OT; What should a seven year old girl wear..

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>

>Sophie wanted Bethany to come to this dance with her but Lou said that he

>did not know Bethany or her mother as if he was very very careful about who

>his daughter knew.

>

>Aren't you glad, Bethany didn't go?

>

>I thought it was pretty funny since sometimes I don't find Lou fit company

>for his own children.

I did find this completely humorous, as if we were horrible people or

something! Even if he doesn't trust your judgment, he should trust

Sophie's! Ha. Oh well, Bethany still wasn't feeling all that great

anyways. She would have loved it, Lou or not.

Amy

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Thank you!

Kerri

Re: OT; What should a seven year old girl wear..

Lou is an idiot.

Kerri

while i read and agreed with EVERY other answer, I think Kerri sums it up

best!!!

, 40, Columbus, OH

Bipolar, Borderline Personality Disorder, and????

Mom to:

, 15, probably Bipolar

Annie, 12, so far so good!

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My daughter would never dress like that either. She's strictly GAP, you

know? How dull.

Sissi

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Boone (translated)

Re: OT; What should a seven year old girl wear..

> > That sounds like something I would wear. In fact, it sounds like what I

> wore

> > on my birthday Friday night. Actually I had faux leopard fur at the neck

> and

> > wrists and everything else was black. But then, I am a gossip columnist

> for

> > the local scandal sheet.

> > (No -- You're not being unfair.)

>

> I admire and respect you, Sissi. But, no, I do not think I want my seven

> year old to dress like you in your Brittany guise. Not sure I'd want my

> seventeen year old to dress like that!

>

> Salli

>

>

>

>

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> Oh, and I'll mention the fishnet stockings and stiletto heels to Lou;

can't

> think how he overlooked them.

>

> Salli

ROFLMAO!!!

Chunky heels are still " in " unfortunately. Do they even make fishnets

anymore? I mean, outside of Fredrick's?

Sissi

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Boone (translated)

[Guest guest]

> ROFLMAO!!!

> Chunky heels are still " in " unfortunately. Do they even make fishnets

> anymore? I mean, outside of Fredrick's?

Frederick's is undoubtedly where Lou does his shopping for Sophie anyway.

Salli

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Salli,

I dont think it would have been critical, for one thing, he should

have respected what she wanted to wear. The other thing is, it didnt

sound like an appropriate outfit for a little girl. The kitten one

with the jumper like a cute outfit, and much more suitable. He really

seems to have very huge limitations when it comes to kids. It doesnt

sound unfair at all.

Thea

> Lou and I used to go dancing together, country dancing. Not square

dancing though sometimes they would do some square dances but English

country dancing. We were quite good at it; we were on a

demonstration team of dancers and Lou was on the board of the local

country dance society. I don't go to the dances any more though I

loved them, because he goes as he is still on the board. I wouldn't

be comfortable.

>

> Now the country dances are a very family minded affair. People

bring children and babies and they play and dance too when they are

old enough. Lou never wanted to bring our kids though which I

thought was sad but he did not enjoy public outings with children.

>

> Lately he has started bringing Sophie to the country dances which

is fine with me as she probably has a very good time. Last night he

took her to one. She was dressed in a pink shirt with kittens on it

and a denim jumper, pink socks, and her black Barbie ankle boots.

Lou came in and he said he had some clothes for her to wear to the

dance; he said under his breath, " She could really use some clothes. "

>

> This is what he had brought: a black shiny skirt with a slit, a

leopard print top, and black tights. He said she would be cooler in

those (both the kitten shirt and the leopard print shirt were

turtlenecks; the leopard print, if anything, was thicker as it was

from an expensive store).

>

> He asked Sophie if she wanted to change, but she did not. She

likes to look pretty and leopard prints and black didn't strike her

as pretty. But Lou insisted and Sophie changed into his outfit and

they went to the dance together.

>

> I just thought the outfit was a mite sophisticated for seven. I

rather like little girls to look like little girls. And Sophie

herself preferred the pink kitten shirt...

>

> I know I am critical as anything of Lou so perhaps I am being

unfair.

>

> Salli

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

> > Chunky heels are still " in " unfortunately. Do they even make fishnets

> > anymore? I mean, outside of Fredrick's?

>

>

> Frederick's is undoubtedly where Lou does his shopping for Sophie anyway.

>

You just made me spit hot tea on my computer screen.

Sissi

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Boone (translated)

[Guest guest]

> I think it probably is. I have been asking questions off and on of Miss

> Sophie, never more than one at a time so as to keep her suspicions low,

and

> she says for instance that he always wears pajamas.

Salli.

That is my impression also. Lou is an asswipe. Lou is a jackass. But Lou

doesn't quite sound like a pervert or pedophile. Not that pedophiles should

sound a certain way, of course. I just don't think Lou would stoop that

low. I think he might beat the kids up behind your back one day, I think he

could actually burn down the house if you don't split it with him, but

molest Sophie.... I don't know. I just don't think so. But what do I know?

But then again, he had no problem justifying his actions to you, so in his

warped mind, I suppose anything is possible if it makes sense to HIM, and

him only.....

My vote still lies with the probability that Lou just has NO SENSE of

appropriate attire for his daughter, and while his intentions were probably

just to have her look " nice " - - his AS self went overboard yet again, and

made what should have been a decent gesture into what looks like pimp

behavior. You have mentioned Enrique's lack of taste in clothes before. I

daresay I know where he got it from! He might have seen a lady he thought

who looked nice, and decided that he would like to see his daughter dressed

as nicely - - -except that she is SEVEN. HELLO~~~~~~~~~ LOU - - anyone

home?

Grace

[Guest guest]

> Oh, and I'll mention the fishnet stockings and stiletto heels to Lou;

can't

> think how he overlooked them.

Please do, Salli.

And don't forget the lighting blue eyeshadow and fake eyelashes, while

you're at it. Oh, and if he has time, if he could buy a pushup bra to tuck

up those boobs she hasn't developed yet, that would be nice too. Oh, and

how could I forget - - - she must dye her hair into a wild and crazy red,

feather it and poof it out to eternity. If he's feeling awfully generous, a

garter belt might be nice too.

And just for kicks, I'll throw in the famous book: " THE BEST GUIDE TO

PIMPING - FOR DUMMIES " .

Silly, silly man.

Grace

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> My daughter would never dress like that either. She's strictly GAP, you

> know? How dull.

> Sissi

LOL, you sound like my mother, Sissi.

I'll have you know - - GAP is classic.

A white t-shirt and a ragged pair of blue jeans. OH YES.

Classic.

I will give you dull though, but don't you know - DULL IS HOT?

Look at Gwyneth!

Grace

[Guest guest]

> > This is what he had brought: a black shiny skirt with a slit, a leopard

> > print top, and black tights. He said she would be cooler in those (both

> > the kitten shirt and the leopard print shirt were turtlenecks; the

leopard

> > print, if anything, was thicker as it was from an expensive store).

That sounds like something I would wear. In fact, it sounds like what I wore

on my birthday Friday night. Actually I had faux leopard fur at the neck and

wrists and everything else was black. But then, I am a gossip columnist for

the local scandal sheet.

(No -- You're not being unfair.)

Sissi

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Boone (translated)

[Guest guest]

> But Lou

> > doesn't quite sound like a pervert or pedophile.

I don't know him, but I agree.

Sissi

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" If it doesn't spin, it's obviously broken. "

Boone (translated)

[Guest guest]

But Lou

> doesn't quite sound like a pervert or pedophile.

I don't think so either. I think Lou prefers grown up ladies.

so in his

> warped mind, I suppose anything is possible if it makes sense to HIM, and

> him only.....

This is true, but he was always very sneery of teachers who got involved

with their students which is NOT as bad as your own daughter. Of course, he

always sneered at people who got divorced too and now he no longer has a

problem with that.

> My vote still lies with the probability that Lou just has NO SENSE of

> appropriate attire for his daughter, and while his intentions were

probably

> just to have her look " nice " - - his AS self went overboard yet again,

and

> made what should have been a decent gesture into what looks like pimp

> behavior. You have mentioned Enrique's lack of taste in clothes before.

I

> daresay I know where he got it from! He might have seen a lady he thought

> who looked nice, and decided that he would like to see his daughter

dressed

> as nicely - - -except that she is SEVEN. HELLO~~~~~~~~~ LOU - - anyone

> home?

>

Nope. All the lights are on but nobody's home.

Salli

[Guest guest]

> Dull is OK, but don't you like to dress up sometimes? Ugh! Look who I'm

> asking -- Grace the Las Vegas jet setter.

>

> Sissi

Sissi, one thing that I am being forced to realize is that dressing up is

not nearly as much fun as it used to be, pre-pregnancy. I just don't look

the same, no matter what I do, what I wear, or how I stand. Dull, loose,

and very " gappy " is actually what works best now. Either that, or black.

Nothing lineny or remotely fancy works on me anymore.

I am indeed becoming my pastlife - - the nassssty harfoot LOL!!

Grace