Re: Advice about the business question

[Guest guest]

Hi NH -

Answering that question can be more elusive when you're working with *is*

statements. If it's should/want/need statements, often that's easier to

connect with whose business you're in - especially when you look to see if

there's anything you can do about the situation.

To open yourself up to an honest answer with this one, try working backwards

from a belief about something else that you're not so emotionally involved

with right now.

The format of your current belief is: ______________ is ____________. So

look at these others beliefs that fit that format and notice whose business

you're in with them.

- My mom is demented.

- My friend is a loser.

- My body is fat.

- The sky is blue.

- The news is stupid.

Whose business are you in with each of those thoughts?

Now look at yours again:

- My physical limitation is a handicap.

Whose business are you in when you believe that thought?

~Mona

http://www.questionthemind.com <http://www.questionthemind.com/>

_____

From: Loving-what-is [mailto:Loving-what-is ]

On Behalf Of now.hawk

Sent: Sunday, December 24, 2006 10:07 AM

To: Loving-what-is

Subject: Advice about the " business " question

Hello,

I would appreciate your help about this issue:

I'm doing the 4 questions on: " my physical limitation is a handicap " .

It question 3: how do you react... there is the sub question:

" who's business are you in? " .

And it is quite hard for me to respond honestly, clearly without just

trying to be " a good student " .

How can I get more insight about who's business is it?

Thank you.

NH.

[Guest guest]

i havent read all the posts but it seems to me if you did not create

the physical limitation on purpose.. it would have to be Gods

business.

And i have also read we decide prior to our birth what we want

our soul to go through ..not as a punishment but as a learning

experience. and those who go through difficult

tests here on earth progress more than those who have had easy

lives. ... and i know that is a story..

Anyway we all have problems there would be no game to play on earth

without problems..

love, roslyn

-- In Loving-what-is , " now.hawk " wrote:

>

> Hello,

>

> I would appreciate your help about this issue:

>

> I'm doing the 4 questions on: " my physical limitation is a handicap " .

>

> It question 3: how do you react... there is the sub question:

>

> " who's business are you in? " .

>

> And it is quite hard for me to respond honestly, clearly without just

> trying to be " a good student " .

>

> How can I get more insight about who's business is it?

>

> Thank you.

>

>

> NH.

>