What's the best way to break contact with a BPD parent?

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Ok, it's time to break contact with nada/grandnada. What's the best

way to do it? I'm hearing confrontation doesn't work. Hubby is

suggesting the Casper the Friendly Ghost Route: don't answer anymore

attempts for contact, just stop.

My Dad is also in the picture on this one. Do I confront him about

his BPD wife when I can get him alone? I just recently took a stand

against seeing my BPD sister at his 65th birthday and he came around

and apologized for trying to push me into something my instincts said

not to do. Is this a peep of hope he'll understand?

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