Guest guest Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 u have no idea what took place .. but if u want to leave that's up to u but if u don't want drama why make your leaving dramatic lol if i don't like something on a list i leave i don't have to announce it to anyone ... this is a good list with awesome people on it wether they post or just read they are some very special people and if u don't see that i am sorry.. Rose In a message dated 9/5/2008 5:17:00 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, shanners29@... writes: Well, I have decided to leave myself. I don't need the drama crap. I've got plenty with my health. I have posted about shopping, and only ONE member responded. (thank you btw) I am so disappointed in this list. I joined to get to know other people with chronic illness like me. But I guess instead of support and understanding, it's all drama. I DID read both sides, I went back to the messages on the board and read them. I am going to go, because I don't want to be in a place where I am not wanted. I have joined a better list, and it's a lot kinder environment. This was my favorite group. Now it's not. I was looking forward to read messages and such, and to even post. Now, I dread it. Because I am afraid I would get blasted. I was just defending a friend. 'Cause she was being blasted for no apparent reason. Don't need the stress when I come into the board. Stress causes me spasms attacks. And I am sorry if I don't post often or respond. I am in a lot of pain on same days. And on bad days, all I want to do in stay in bed because I could barely make it to the next room. It's also hard to type when my hands has spasms. When members did respond, it did put a smile on my face. But not anymore, it's disappointment. I hope everyone is doing well. And have less pain. Thanks for letting me be a member. I just can't handle the petty drama and stress. Have a good day             Check me out on: Myspace: _http://myspace.http://mys_ (http://myspace.com/ctr625) Facebook: _http://www.facebookhttp://wwwhttp://www.fachttp://www.faceb_ (http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?id=502509057) ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Check out my kitty Otis on: Caster ~*~*~*~*~*~ " The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in thiers " ~*~*~*~*~*~* " There comes a point in your life, when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and always will. So don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. "       [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] **************Psssst...Have you heard the news? There's a new fashion blog, plus the latest fall trends and hair styles at StyleList.com. (http://www.stylelist.com/trends?ncid=aolsty00050000000014) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Hello , Can you just hang in here a bit and see if thing get better? Give it some more thought, I know I am new but I also feel we are some great people and we can pull together and get back on track. I sent you an e-mail so if you do leave can we keep in touch please? Take care, a > > Well, I have decided to leave myself. I don't need the drama crap. I've got > plenty with my health. > I have posted about shopping, and only ONE member responded. (thank you btw) > I am so disappointed in this list. I joined to get to know other people with > chronic illness like me. But I guess instead of support and understanding, > it's all drama. I DID read both sides, I went back to the messages on the > board and read them. I am going to go, because I don't want to be in a place > where I am not wanted. I have joined a better list, and it's a lot kinder > environment. This was my favorite group. Now it's not. I was looking forward > to read messages and such, and to even post. Now, I dread it. Because I am > afraid I would get blasted. I was just defending a friend. 'Cause she was > being blasted for no apparent reason. Don't need the stress when I come into > the board. Stress causes me spasms attacks. And I am sorry if I don't post > often or respond. I am in a lot of pain on same days. And on bad days, all I > want to do in stay in bed because I could barely make it to the next room. > It's also hard to type when my hands has spasms. When members did respond, > it did put a smile on my face. But not anymore, it's disappointment. I hope > everyone is doing well. And have less pain. Thanks for letting me be a > member. I just can't handle the petty drama and stress. Have a good day > > > >             > > > > Check me out on: > > Myspace: http://myspace.com/ctr625 > Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php? id=502509057 > > ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ > Check out my kitty Otis on: > Caster > ~*~*~*~*~*~ > " The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in thiers " > ~*~*~*~*~*~* > " There comes a point in your life, when you realize who matters, who never > did, who won't anymore, and always will. So don't worry about people from > your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. "     > >   > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 I think you are looking at it the wrong way , since we all know and are in pain most of the time you cant expect others to react when you think they need to ,.. sometimes you do and sometimes you dont ,that doesnt mean people do not read your messeges , but that more likely means they dont know what to say /can say anything for whatever reason,.. We all know day to day , 24/7 pain so I think it is a little shortsighted of you that you pull the conclusion as you did ... And dont bash the group awhole , but you also could have asked why there are no more reactions?? ever thought of it that it could be for a reason?? You dont know what others are going through all the time ,.. and this is a group where you can vent , it is just that you can not say that everyone needs to react ,if they do fine if not then they probably have a reason not too ... still no reason for you to not vent if you need too since when you do you did get it off your chest too,... greets Annemie Leaving Well, I have decided to leave myself. I don't need the drama crap. I've got plenty with my health. I have posted about shopping, and only ONE member responded. (thank you btw) I am so disappointed in this list. I joined to get to know other people with chronic illness like me. But I guess instead of support and understanding, it's all drama. I DID read both sides, I went back to the messages on the board and read them. I am going to go, because I don't want to be in a place where I am not wanted. I have joined a better list, and it's a lot kinder environment. This was my favorite group. Now it's not. I was looking forward to read messages and such, and to even post. Now, I dread it. Because I am afraid I would get blasted. I was just defending a friend. 'Cause she was being blasted for no apparent reason. Don't need the stress when I come into the board. Stress causes me spasms attacks. And I am sorry if I don't post often or respond. I am in a lot of pain on same days. And on bad days, all I want to do in stay in bed because I could barely make it to the next room. It's also hard to type when my hands has spasms. When members did respond, it did put a smile on my face. But not anymore, it's disappointment. I hope everyone is doing well. And have less pain. Thanks for letting me be a member. I just can't handle the petty drama and stress. Have a good day             Check me out on: Myspace: http://myspace.com/ctr625 Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?id=502509057 ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ Check out my kitty Otis on: Caster ~*~*~*~*~*~ " The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in thiers " ~*~*~*~*~*~* " There comes a point in your life, when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and always will. So don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. "       Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2008 Report Share Posted September 6, 2008 I totally agree with Rose, we do have a GREAT group of people on this group. This group has been here for nearly 9 years and has been a home to many of us. A place to get support and to give support. We shouldn't let one person ruin that for everyone. The problem has been taken care of by one of our owners, so there is really no need for anyone to leave. But to each his own. I just hope everyone will remain and just see how things go. This is truly a great group. Best to all, ~Tommie~ www.myspace.com/tommiejj PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt, something will undoubtedly go wrong. Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude. Re: Leaving u have no idea what took place .. but if u want to leave that's up to u but if u don't want drama why make your leaving dramatic lol if i don't like something on a list i leave i don't have to announce it to anyone ... this is a good list with awesome people on it wether they post or just read they are some very special people and if u don't see that i am sorry.. Rose In a message dated 9/5/2008 5:17:00 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, shanners29@... writes: Well, I have decided to leave myself. I don't need the drama crap. I've got plenty with my health. I have posted about shopping, and only ONE member responded. (thank you btw) I am so disappointed in this list. I joined to get to know other people with chronic illness like me. But I guess instead of support and understanding, it's all drama. I DID read both sides, I went back to the messages on the board and read them. I am going to go, because I don't want to be in a place where I am not wanted. I have joined a better list, and it's a lot kinder environment. This was my favorite group. Now it's not. I was looking forward to read messages and such, and to even post. Now, I dread it. Because I am afraid I would get blasted. I was just defending a friend. 'Cause she was being blasted for no apparent reason. Don't need the stress when I come into the board. Stress causes me spasms attacks. And I am sorry if I don't post often or respond. I am in a lot of pain on same days. And on bad days, all I want to do in stay in bed because I could barely make it to the next room. It's also hard to type when my hands has spasms. When members did respond, it did put a smile on my face. But not anymore, it's disappointment. I hope everyone is doing well. And have less pain. Thanks for letting me be a member. I just can't handle the petty drama and stress. Have a good day             Check me out on: Myspace: _http://myspace.http://mys_ (http://myspace.com/ctr625) Facebook: _http://www.facebookhttp://wwwhttp://www.fachttp://www.faceb_ (http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?id=502509057) ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Check out my kitty Otis on: Caster ~*~*~*~*~*~ " The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in thiers " ~*~*~*~*~*~* " There comes a point in your life, when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and always will. So don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. "       Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2008 Report Share Posted September 6, 2008 hi tommie donnie here i mist what was going can you feel me in so i will not be wasteing time wandering what i mist it must have ben bad because rita tipen and others talking about leveing the group it must have ben bad and have i got a great storey for you to here it was real hard for me to deal with it and 4 or 5 days for me to handle it one of the hardest things in my life i have to go run some erands when i get home i will feal everbody in tommy i need to talk to you let me know what will be a good time to talk to you this evening donnieKY Re: Leaving u have no idea what took place .. but if u want to leave that's up to u but if u don't want drama why make your leaving dramatic lol if i don't like something on a list i leave i don't have to announce it to anyone ... this is a good list with awesome people on it wether they post or just read they are some very special people and if u don't see that i am sorry.. Rose In a message dated 9/5/2008 5:17:00 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, shanners29gmail (DOT) com writes: Well, I have decided to leave myself. I don't need the drama crap. I've got plenty with my health. I have posted about shopping, and only ONE member responded. (thank you btw) I am so disappointed in this list. I joined to get to know other people with chronic illness like me. But I guess instead of support and understanding, it's all drama. I DID read both sides, I went back to the messages on the board and read them. I am going to go, because I don't want to be in a place where I am not wanted. I have joined a better list, and it's a lot kinder environment. This was my favorite group. Now it's not. I was looking forward to read messages and such, and to even post. Now, I dread it. Because I am afraid I would get blasted. I was just defending a friend. 'Cause she was being blasted for no apparent reason. Don't need the stress when I come into the board. Stress causes me spasms attacks. And I am sorry if I don't post often or respond. I am in a lot of pain on same days. And on bad days, all I want to do in stay in bed because I could barely make it to the next room. It's also hard to type when my hands has spasms. When members did respond, it did put a smile on my face. But not anymore, it's disappointment. I hope everyone is doing well. And have less pain. Thanks for letting me be a member. I just can't handle the petty drama and stress. Have a good day             Check me out on: Myspace: _http://myspace. http://mys_ (http://myspace. com/ctr625) Facebook: _http://www.facebook http://wwwhttp: //www.fachttp: //www.faceb_ (http://www.facebook .com/home. php?#/profile. php?id=502509057) ~*~*~*~*~*~* ~*~* Check out my kitty Otis on: Caster ~*~*~*~*~*~ " The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in thiers " ~*~*~*~*~*~* " There comes a point in your life, when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and always will. So don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. "       Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2008 Report Share Posted September 6, 2008 Hi Donnie, Just give me a time and I'll try to be on. I'm not doing anything today really. I have AIM for chat and my id there is seaofhope920. I'll sign onto it later, if you have it, put me on your list. I'll send you a private email about the other stuff, as I just want it all dropped as it has been and don't want any of it posted at the group. ~Tommie~ www.myspace.com/tommiejj PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt, something will undoubtedly go wrong. Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude. Re: Leaving u have no idea what took place .. but if u want to leave that's up to u but if u don't want drama why make your leaving dramatic lol if i don't like something on a list i leave i don't have to announce it to anyone ... this is a good list with awesome people on it wether they post or just read they are some very special people and if u don't see that i am sorry.. Rose In a message dated 9/5/2008 5:17:00 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, shanners29gmail (DOT) com writes: Well, I have decided to leave myself. I don't need the drama crap. I've got plenty with my health. I have posted about shopping, and only ONE member responded. (thank you btw) I am so disappointed in this list. I joined to get to know other people with chronic illness like me. But I guess instead of support and understanding, it's all drama. I DID read both sides, I went back to the messages on the board and read them. I am going to go, because I don't want to be in a place where I am not wanted. I have joined a better list, and it's a lot kinder environment. This was my favorite group. Now it's not. I was looking forward to read messages and such, and to even post. Now, I dread it. Because I am afraid I would get blasted. I was just defending a friend. 'Cause she was being blasted for no apparent reason. Don't need the stress when I come into the board. Stress causes me spasms attacks. And I am sorry if I don't post often or respond. I am in a lot of pain on same days. And on bad days, all I want to do in stay in bed because I could barely make it to the next room. It's also hard to type when my hands has spasms. When members did respond, it did put a smile on my face. But not anymore, it's disappointment. I hope everyone is doing well. And have less pain. Thanks for letting me be a member. I just can't handle the petty drama and stress. Have a good day             Check me out on: Myspace: _http://myspace. http://mys_ (http://myspace. com/ctr625) Facebook: _http://www.facebook http://wwwhttp: //www.fachttp: //www.faceb_ (http://www.facebook .com/home. php?#/profile. php?id=502509057) ~*~*~*~*~*~* ~*~* Check out my kitty Otis on: Caster ~*~*~*~*~*~ " The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in thiers " ~*~*~*~*~*~* " There comes a point in your life, when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and always will. So don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. "       Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 7, 2008 Report Share Posted September 7, 2008 Is it safe to come out???? Tommie wrote: Hi Donnie, Just give me a time and I'll try to be on. I'm not doing anything today really. I have AIM for chat and my id there is seaofhope920. I'll sign onto it later, if you have it, put me on your list. I'll send you a private email about the other stuff, as I just want it all dropped as it has been and don't want any of it posted at the group. ~Tommie~ www.myspace.com/tommiejj PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt, something will undoubtedly go wrong. Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude. Re: Leaving u have no idea what took place .. but if u want to leave that's up to u but if u don't want drama why make your leaving dramatic lol if i don't like something on a list i leave i don't have to announce it to anyone ... this is a good list with awesome people on it wether they post or just read they are some very special people and if u don't see that i am sorry.. Rose In a message dated 9/5/2008 5:17:00 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, shanners29gmail (DOT) com writes: Well, I have decided to leave myself. I don't need the drama crap. I've got plenty with my health. I have posted about shopping, and only ONE member responded. (thank you btw) I am so disappointed in this list. I joined to get to know other people with chronic illness like me. But I guess instead of support and understanding, it's all drama. I DID read both sides, I went back to the messages on the board and read them. I am going to go, because I don't want to be in a place where I am not wanted. I have joined a better list, and it's a lot kinder environment. This was my favorite group. Now it's not. I was looking forward to read messages and such, and to even post. Now, I dread it. Because I am afraid I would get blasted. I was just defending a friend. 'Cause she was being blasted for no apparent reason. Don't need the stress when I come into the board. Stress causes me spasms attacks. And I am sorry if I don't post often or respond. I am in a lot of pain on same days. And on bad days, all I want to do in stay in bed because I could barely make it to the next room. It's also hard to type when my hands has spasms. When members did respond, it did put a smile on my face. But not anymore, it's disappointment. I hope everyone is doing well. And have less pain. Thanks for letting me be a member. I just can't handle the petty drama and stress. Have a good day             Check me out on: Myspace: _http://myspace. http://mys_ (http://myspace. com/ctr625) Facebook: _http://www.facebook http://wwwhttp: //www.fachttp: //www.faceb_ (http://www.facebook .com/home. php?#/profile. php?id=502509057) ~*~*~*~*~*~* ~*~* Check out my kitty Otis on: Caster ~*~*~*~*~*~ " The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in thiers " ~*~*~*~*~*~* " There comes a point in your life, when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and always will. So don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. "       Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2008 Report Share Posted September 8, 2008 Vicki, I believe the pig poop has stopped flying, so it's probably safe for you to come out. LOL Chelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2008 Report Share Posted September 8, 2008 LOL Yes, it's safe Vicki. Everything is back to normal I hope you are having a low pain day and will remain with us! Hugs ~Tommie~ www.myspace.com/tommiejj PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt, something will undoubtedly go wrong. Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude. Re: Leaving u have no idea what took place .. but if u want to leave that's up to u but if u don't want drama why make your leaving dramatic lol if i don't like something on a list i leave i don't have to announce it to anyone ... this is a good list with awesome people on it wether they post or just read they are some very special people and if u don't see that i am sorry.. Rose In a message dated 9/5/2008 5:17:00 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, shanners29gmail (DOT) com writes: Well, I have decided to leave myself. I don't need the drama crap. I've got plenty with my health. I have posted about shopping, and only ONE member responded. (thank you btw) I am so disappointed in this list. I joined to get to know other people with chronic illness like me. But I guess instead of support and understanding, it's all drama. I DID read both sides, I went back to the messages on the board and read them. I am going to go, because I don't want to be in a place where I am not wanted. I have joined a better list, and it's a lot kinder environment. This was my favorite group. Now it's not. I was looking forward to read messages and such, and to even post. Now, I dread it. Because I am afraid I would get blasted. I was just defending a friend. 'Cause she was being blasted for no apparent reason. Don't need the stress when I come into the board. Stress causes me spasms attacks. And I am sorry if I don't post often or respond. I am in a lot of pain on same days. And on bad days, all I want to do in stay in bed because I could barely make it to the next room. It's also hard to type when my hands has spasms. When members did respond, it did put a smile on my face. But not anymore, it's disappointment. I hope everyone is doing well. And have less pain. Thanks for letting me be a member. I just can't handle the petty drama and stress. Have a good day             Check me out on: Myspace: _http://myspace. http://mys_ (http://myspace. com/ctr625) Facebook: _http://www.facebook http://wwwhttp: //www.fachttp: //www.faceb_ (http://www.facebook .com/home. php?#/profile. php?id=502509057) ~*~*~*~*~*~* ~*~* Check out my kitty Otis on: Caster ~*~*~*~*~*~ " The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in thiers " ~*~*~*~*~*~* " There comes a point in your life, when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and always will. So don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. "       Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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