Guest guest Posted February 3, 2006 Report Share Posted February 3, 2006 > So how do you get past all this? > __________________________________________- OMG that entire email and I forgot to get to the point, lol Well, it will probably only last a month. You're used to drama I gather so it won't come like a shock. (I live ages away from Yeti, on purpose; anyone got tips if you live close?) So what drama can she create? You need to " secure vulnerable points " if you know what I mean. if she's a BPD/NPD like Yeti, she's going to use them to get you to do what *she* wants. You have done it pretty well at school. Do they have a counsellor or someone who might know about the chaos of BPD? Please be careful to secure your house *if* she goes on the warpath. (Just in case: Nothing really happens, just lots of screaming, the neighbours had already seen one of her turns. They thought she " wasn't all there " .) Do you have pets? There's the book, " Splitting " , aimed at divorces with BPDs, that might be worth pawing through. If you haven't noticed from this board, for people so unstable, they are ever so wonderfully predictable... If she gets too hot to handle, slap her with a restraining order or whatever they are called. Remember: You want to be FREE of her drama. Mine started playing up (showed up in person, but only once) but I told her, " Not in my house, bitch... " ... and I cant tell you how empowering it was when I told her to " Just go home and disappear up your own arse. " Sorry, I had had a bad day... Send instant messages to your online friends http://au.messenger.yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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