Guest guest Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Yup! Hand up over here! For me it's when I put on a pair of jeans and a blouse...I hear... " Who are you trying to impress! " or, I'm doing the dishes and I can hear her saying that " this is what you will do your whole life " Or, I'm driving down the road with my girls or grandchildren and I hear her voice, " Do you have ANY idea how much these people are TRUSTING you???! " The inference being that I'm untrustworthy. Bleck! Dang it! Now I need a candy bar! lol (Bet you know what I'm hearing now!)lol Hutton wrote: Hello people, Has anyone else here been constantly criticised by your dearest? Nothing I had ever did was good enough. The thing i have is: I can't seem to get Yeti's little voice out of my head whenever I do something. I can be doing the ironing, and suddenly " No no no not that way blah blah blah " Anyone else noticed? Send instant messages to your online friends http://au.messenger.yahoo.com Problems? Ask our friendly List Manager for help at @.... SEND HER ANY POSTS THAT CONCERN YOU; DO NOT Respond ON THE GROUP. To order the KO bible " Stop Walking on Eggshells, " call 888-35-SHELL () for your copy. We also refer to “Understanding the Borderline Mother” (Lawson) and “Surviving the Borderline Parent,” (Roth) which you can find at any bookstore. Welcome to the WTO community! From Randi Kreger, Owner BPDCentral, WTO Online Community and author SWOE and the SWOE Workbook. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2006 Report Share Posted March 3, 2006 Yes...Those are toughies, what I do is...I say to myself, " Oh! nada talking! Bizarro land, where all statements are the opposite of reality. " Then I look at someone or something positive, and re-inforce the fact that everything nada has said is a lie. Sofia > > > > Hello people, > > Has anyone else here been constantly criticised by your dearest? > > Nothing I had ever did was good enough. > > Yes and what I say to those messages is: > > You are not my voice, you are untrue and do not belong here. I > mentally stamp it 'Return to Sender' like a misdelivered piece of hate > mail. > > I think one has to truly realize that those sayings are false and have > little or nothing to do with reality. They are weapons that were used > against us from very immature and disturbed beings. It is our choice > as to whether we continue to allow these lies to dictate our feelings > about ourself. > > I believe it is that simple and can be changed fairly quickly as we > embrace who we really are because there will be no room for anything > that isn't us. It can only survive if we give it attention and energy. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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