What's my part in all this?

[Guest guest]

Hello again,

I have been asking myself that question frequently lately. The things I

did in response to Yeti, when I went numb, etc.

I must say that what I remember of me as a 3 or 4 year old, I was

remarkably clear and not-screwed-up, to the point where I slipped a note

under her bedroom door telling Yeti that I hated her; it's only after

that I kind of gave in to Yeti because it wasn't worth the drama.

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Sometimes, my part was existing or being there -- anywhere.

One Non-BP Recovering Man

--- Hutton wrote:

> Hello again,

> I have been asking myself that question frequently lately. The things I

> did in response to Yeti, when I went numb, etc.

> I must say that what I remember of me as a 3 or 4 year old, I was

> remarkably clear and not-screwed-up, to the point where I slipped a note

> under her bedroom door telling Yeti that I hated her; it's only after

> that I kind of gave in to Yeti because it wasn't worth the drama.

>

>

>

> Send instant messages to your online friends

> http://au.messenger.yahoo.com

>

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[Guest guest]

,

I hope that by asking this question you aren't thinking that you are

partly responsible for how you were treated. A child does not have

any contributing part to his own abuse. And as far as 'giving in' to

her - that was self preservation. It was what you had to do in order

to survive in that household. You didn't cause it, you couldn't

change it, and you couldn't cure it - not then, and not now.

Take care,

Sylvia

>

> Hello again,

> I have been asking myself that question frequently lately. The

things I

> did in response to Yeti, when I went numb, etc.

> I must say that what I remember of me as a 3 or 4 year old, I was

> remarkably clear and not-screwed-up, to the point where I slipped a

note

> under her bedroom door telling Yeti that I hated her; it's only after

> that I kind of gave in to Yeti because it wasn't worth the drama.

>

>

>

> Send instant messages to your online friends

http://au.messenger.yahoo.com

>