Well...BPD mom served my dad divorice papers.

January 24, 2006

Feeling low right now.

My dad is a good person but my mom (her BPD) is trying to prove that

he is bad. Everything that she has done she is trying to prove that he

has done...stealing adultry etc..

I feel so horrible for my dad we knew this day was comming but it

still hurts very much.

Oh yea and the best part is that she moved out like 10 days ago she

has his car bugged and she let 10 people into the buisness for 5 hours

early on saturday morning they took 51 bankers bokes filled with

invoices and data from years ago they also cloned all of our pc's

(about 30 of them) and we think they buged the building.

the thing is my father has done nothing wrong and we have nothing to

hide...she thinks i am helping him hide money (i'm 22) and my little

brothers (19 and 20) are she thinks stealing parts out of the business

to support their drug habbits...duh its all in her head my brothers

aren't doing that!

I feel so hopeless I just want her to get help...did you know that

taking adderral will make BPD worse? My mom has been overdosing on

it...

Oh and one last thing...She is in Calif right now in a womens spa

relaxing as he is hard at work here and got served.

well pretty soon well have to tell my bros...that means another crying

jag...lol

SS

January 24, 2006

, I'm sorry you are going through this! I don't have experience in this

area, but I remembered reading on bpdcentral.com (and elsewhere) about some of

the typical behaviors that BP's do during a divorce. What you are describing

sounds, unfortunately, kind of typical. However, if you read up on it, and if

your dad manages to get a lawyer who understands this disorder and can present

his side of things in that context, you all might be able to come out of this a

little better. Here is a link I found for you, on a book--I'm sure you can find

other resources too:

Best of luck!

Flea

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