Guest guest Posted January 7, 2006 Report Share Posted January 7, 2006 In a message dated 1/7/2006 4:23:03 PM Alaskan Standard Time, ModOasis writes: I think it > is perhaps the aspect of BP I hated dealing with the most---the > always trying to prove I was honest, and not crazy....going to great > lengths to prove this or that...I won't miss that. > > Cheers to all of you in 2006! Thank you for being here! > > Sofia > I hate this too. Even now that I am nc with most of the family (because I am nc with my nada) it still hurts that I cannot defend my character/actions/opinions/truth of what 'was said', etc etc. But I couldn't before going nc, so nothing changed. Ditto here. I know the family members in the geographic area where nada lives think I am a horrible unfeeling daughter. Just today, I got a letter from nada asking if she can come for a visit. We've been rc for 5 years now. It's a ridiculous idea for a number of reasons. I'm being put in the position of denying my mother a visit, which she will play out for full dramatic effect in the classic waif style to anyone who will listen. But what can one do about it? It's impossible to explain. My stomach is in knots just from that stupid letter, and I'm supposed to endure having her in my home? Who's going to understand that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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