Guest guest Posted August 12, 2007 Report Share Posted August 12, 2007 artist_ mom_wife_sis: I have turned down expensive gifts that would make us further involved. They do try that though. I was in better shape for years when I made my own way and even better when I lived in a different state Since I got the fibro and my income went down, I have found it difficult to save up much to be able to move out. Believe me, I don't mind being poor -- it's the control problem Thank you for sharing, Holly **************** 4a. Re: [wto adult children 1] controlled by money? Posted by: " artist_mom_wife_sis " Fri Aug 3, 2007 8:13 am (PST) I can relate to the money control! I am 32 years It was not until last year that I stopped allowing financial control. Jeez, I could keep going on all day about how my Nada uses money to control. I just want to tell you that I was so terrified that if I cut money out of the relationship with my family, the world would explode. Well, it didn't. In fact, the world is a much nicer place. I was poor before...... . I am still poor now........ But much happier Take care. ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Yahoo! oneSearch: Finally, mobile search that gives answers, not web links. http://mobile.yahoo.com/mobileweb/onesearch?refer=1ONXIC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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