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What a JERK!!!

Sissi who just had to say that again.

Unpleasant encounter

> Yesterday, when I picked up Putter from school, I chatted a bit with his

new teacher, Theresa. She was telling me how good he is in school and, as

we watched Robbie teasing Putter with a rainbow colored slinky, she added,

" And he is so tolerant too, so much more than other kids with autism. I

think it is because he comes from a large family. " She then asked me about

how Putter was as a baby and I was describing to her the signs of autism

that I now know were present but which I was too ignorant to recognize in

those days. As we continued our conversation, to my mind an important

conversation as I like talking about Putter with his teachers, Putter and

Robbie began chasing each other up and down the very small hall, perhaps ten

or fifteen feet in length. They were giggling and having a good time, and I

am always delighted to see play skills in my Putter.

>

> A speech therapist who is on the pre primary evaluation team walked by and

said nastily, " I hope you two are watching these children while you talk.

This is VERY inappropriate. " Theresa and I just stared at each other for a

second or two. She is a very young and enthusiastic teacher, and I am quite

happy with her and very happy that she is so eager to talk to me about

Putter. I looked at the tiny hall and the two boys enjoying themselves and

I said, " Is this really so inappropriate? And they were never out of our

sight. " " Well, " said Theresa, " I guess they are trying to work and we are

making noise... " " In my opinion, " I told her firmly, " That was appropriate

play and I am always happen to see. " Theresa giggled, " Yes, ANYTIME we see

appropriate play we want to encourage it. "

>

> But naturally our conversation ceased and I took my two boys on home. I

hope Theresa will still be willing to talk to me despite the nastiness of

someone who is, I guess, sort of a co-worker to her. She is doing a great

job communicating with the mothers whose kids are in her group; she has

excellent instincts and she should not be pushed around just because she is

young and new.

>

> I recall that particular speech therapist from Putter's initial

evaluation. Putter tried to bite him. Putter is ALWAYS right!

>

> Salli

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Yesterday, when I picked up Putter from school, I chatted a bit with his new

teacher, Theresa. She was telling me how good he is in school and, as we

watched Robbie teasing Putter with a rainbow colored slinky, she added, " And he

is so tolerant too, so much more than other kids with autism. I think it is

because he comes from a large family. " She then asked me about how Putter was

as a baby and I was describing to her the signs of autism that I now know were

present but which I was too ignorant to recognize in those days. As we

continued our conversation, to my mind an important conversation as I like

talking about Putter with his teachers, Putter and Robbie began chasing each

other up and down the very small hall, perhaps ten or fifteen feet in length.

They were giggling and having a good time, and I am always delighted to see play

skills in my Putter.

A speech therapist who is on the pre primary evaluation team walked by and said

nastily, " I hope you two are watching these children while you talk. This is

VERY inappropriate. " Theresa and I just stared at each other for a second or

two. She is a very young and enthusiastic teacher, and I am quite happy with

her and very happy that she is so eager to talk to me about Putter. I looked at

the tiny hall and the two boys enjoying themselves and I said, " Is this really

so inappropriate? And they were never out of our sight. " " Well, " said Theresa,

" I guess they are trying to work and we are making noise... " " In my opinion, " I

told her firmly, " That was appropriate play and I am always happen to see. "

Theresa giggled, " Yes, ANYTIME we see appropriate play we want to encourage it. "

But naturally our conversation ceased and I took my two boys on home. I hope

Theresa will still be willing to talk to me despite the nastiness of someone who

is, I guess, sort of a co-worker to her. She is doing a great job communicating

with the mothers whose kids are in her group; she has excellent instincts and

she should not be pushed around just because she is young and new.

I recall that particular speech therapist from Putter's initial evaluation.

Putter tried to bite him. Putter is ALWAYS right!

Salli

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> Salli...sounds to me the ST either needs a vaction or a new career....

>

> Way to go Putter and Robbie

>

He may need a vacation, but I vote for the new career. He needs a job that

can give more scope to his crabbiness.

I just want to send Putter to have a second try at biting him. But Putter

is too polite these days. He'd probably prefer to avoid contact.

I am happy to say that the ST who works with the autistic kids is NOT this

one; this one just does evaluations.

Salli

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So this is An AUTISM center right???? This guy should probably KNOW

that most kids there have Autism (and since everyone there knows

Putter as we've learned...)

Duh..... Was he just maybe having a bad day - or is he always a

jerk??? And I would watch him. Just to be sure. Just make sure he

doesn't get in the way of progress, or your relationships with

teachers.

Jerkface.

Kerri

Mom to:

Mitchel 6, Autistic

8.5 - NT

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under the flag of tolerance, democracy and freedom. "

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In a message dated 10/31/01 10:00:17 AM Pacific Standard Time,

parenting_autism writes:

> I recall that particular speech therapist from Putter's initial evaluation.

> Putter tried to bite him. Putter is ALWAYS right!

>

>

" That's Mr. Putter to you " I would have thought.

I can see this ST will go a long way in her field, NOT!

You have great instincts, Salli. You should have her pay.

Barb

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> Isn't funny how our wee ones instincts are so on target.

Putter is a sharp little cookie. And he rarely bit people even back in the

glory days of full blown untreated baby autism. So, yes, he simply had good

instincts about the jerk. Much better than mine.

Salli who does not bite

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> I am happy to say that the ST who works with the autistic kids is

>NOT this one; this one just does evaluations.

>

> Salli<<<

Oh I see. He doesn't get his hands dirty cuz he's smarter than

everyone else.

tee hee

Penny

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