Coming to the eventual understanding

[Guest guest]

I am now coming to the stage...of understanding that my life was not

apart any " normal " behavior, and it was caused by BPD. So late in life

I am told that I was not treated with the rights of a human being.

It was only so long ago, that I was told my mother had a personality

disorder. It had been my sister to break the life changing news. Who

is studying to be a conslor, and too coming to the knowledge that our

mother has BPD.

Then telling me that there was this site, a group for those who

have/had BPD parents. Here I am. Though I may say that this is quite

interesting, and not to mention I am still in a daze: to know that it

was never my fault, and this kinda of abuse is not normal. To be told

that I could have gotten better, and that there is such a thing as

a " parent " - moreover " mother " .