Guest guest Posted November 13, 2005 Report Share Posted November 13, 2005 Hi everybody, What a fun topic! I used to laugh at Everybody Loves but when I learned more about BPD, I couldn't stand it! Is it my imagination or does he take his mother's 'side' EVERY freakin time she asks him to? My nada was just like that! Whenever I had any guy over she tried to get him to take her 'side' of reality. Speaking of all too real, Everybody Loves is it. Charlie > > > > > Have any of you ever felt that it made your > > > > > emotional > > > > > life harder to be on this board? I say that > > > > because > > > > > everytime I read my daily digest of emails I feel > > > > > like > > > > > it just brought my mom back into my life. We've > > > > been > > > > > somewhat NC for awhile now. I apparantly did > > > > > something > > > > > to exclude her from my life. This is the last > > > > email > > > > > I > > > > > got from her, > > > > > > > > > > " Sorry we just don't see eye to eye. I really > > > > > thought > > > > > you cared this time but you didn't. You have > > > > always > > > > > been ashamed of me. Someone was always better in > > > > > your > > > > > eyes. I hope that Delia doesn't find someone else > > > > > other than you (the perfect mother) to confide in. > > > > > > > > > You've always been that way with me. Even with > > > > > Delia's birth I've been on the bottom of the pile. > > > > > > > > > If > > > > > you think about this you'll know what I'm talking > > > > > about. I thought once you became a mother you'd > > > > > understand a few things but I guess not. I love > > > > you > > > > > > > > > > with all my heart, Your Mother " > > > > > > > > > > I haven't responded to it. I probably won't, it's > > > > > been > > > > > months. She drives me to insanity. So, when I read > > > > > all > > > > > of your posts, I'm torn. They are so helpful and > > > > > insightful, but so real-to-life about what I > > > > > experience with my Mom. I don't know how to heal > > > > > from > > > > > her. I really don't. I was raised to be iron > > > > strong > > > > > and not be bothered by anything. My mom was ALL > > > > > emotion and my father was none. He was my rock, > > > > but > > > > > taught me a lot of harmful things about how to be > > > > a > > > > > healthy person emotionally. It seems like whenever > > > > I > > > > > try to process my mother's issues and the fallout > > > > to > > > > > me, I spend days trying to get her toxic voice and > > > > > thoughts out of my head. So, while this place is > > > > the > > > > > only thing that helps, it also seems to make it > > > > > worse. > > > > > If I don't think about her, it's easier to live > > > > > day-to-day. What are your thoughts? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________ > > > > > Yahoo! FareChase: Search multiple travel sites in > > > > > one click. > > > > > http://farechase.yahoo.com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Send questions and/or concerns to > > > > > ModOasis-owner > > > > > " Stop Walking on Eggshells, " a primer for non-BPs, > > > > > can be ordered via 1-888-35-SHELL () > > > > and > > > > > for the table of contents, go to: > > > > > http://www.BPDCentral.com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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