[Modoasis] Still being spied on/got new spy

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Spy #1:

Well, I am not safe yet. I have nearly cut off all mutual connections that

nada and I had. Well, some of you may remember there is a 20-year-old girl

my daughter had been friends with, and this girl has brittle bone disease,

so she has to be carried around by her mother or another helper. She is 20

but only about 3 feet tall. She is a giggly girl and so cute b/c of that.

Recently we have found out the girl tells stories. She has told stories

about me to my nada in regards to me overcharging for the algebra video

course she wanted to borrow so her mom figured she would buy it at regular

price. Well, I never talked to the girl on the phone much less discuss any

price for it. I was going to let her borrow it but chickened out b/c I would

have had to give it to nada who would take it to the girl (nada now gets

paid by the girl's mom to help teach her algebra and take care of her while

the mom is out shopping or whatever). I am POSITIVE nada has bad mouthed me

to this girl's mother. Why? B/c of something the mother said last year, plus

this mother bad mouths her own sons. Thing is - her sons are moochers and

losers for real . I am not. Anyway, I thought it might be okay for daughter

to still be friends with this girl. We can't throw the girl's mom out b/c

she has to carry her daughter everywhere, but look at this email the girl

accidentally copied to my daughter (K) while sending it to nada:

" Dear Mrs.______ " (referring to nada here)

I got K______'s X-mas list but I didnt understand it maybe you will.

I think she said she wanted horse stuff, clothes, and Lord of the ring

stuff.

**(indicating what nada had written to the girl)

Dear ______,

I'm not supposed to email K______, but she emailed me yesterday. She said

she was going to email you her Christmas list and I could get it from her.

Can you ask K______ if she is going to ______ with her Mom to L______'s for

Christmas for real??? I don't want to ask L_____. Try to email me again.

Also, instead of sending a carbon copy of K______'s emails that are of

interest to me, can you print a copy at your home? Take care and do call

sometime, please. Love, Mrs. _____ "

Hmm. Okay, so I guess daughter being friendly with this girl is not a good

idea after all. I don't know what to say when nada calls saying the girl is

coming over to visit for Christmas as now my daughter and this girl planned

on exchanging Xmas gifts. UGH Then nada is going around acting like she is

all happy and go-lucky and I really want to knock her upside the head or

something.

Here is an email nada sent to my daughter (prior to the girl's email) after

I asked nada NOT to email my daughter as it was NOT okay by me:

" This week I am not going except on Sat. because of getting ready for

Loretta's family coming at 7:30 PM on Monday, Nov. 21. I will always make a

phone message contact to your Mom about when I do leave for a good amount of

time. Tomorrow I will leave at 12:15 P.M. to get my hair done at the college

and go grocery shopping. I probably won't be back until about 4:30 P.M. I

plan to leave a message on your phone about it. I will leave the key under

the brick as usual. How is Tiny's trotting and his weight. Please do use the

jump(s) in the paddock to get the horses muscles back in shape. I miss you

and your Mom very much. I feel like I have no family for real. Take care and

God bless you, Grandma "

So UGH again. She won't listen naturally. I had let my daughter go see the

little horses when nada is not around. I guess the frequency of it may not be

too great. Unfortunately nada was back before 4:30 when daughter was

still there.

So she makes her hot chocolate and crud like that to try to win her over.

Spy #2

Lady from down the street of nada who always buys tons of G.S. cookies from us

for the past few years randomly called me 2 days (has never called me

in the 2.5

years I have lived at this house) ago saying she was looking for some

random dog

who runs up and down the easment and comes to her house on Sundays. Then she

mentioned she knew me and nada had issues. I asked her how she knew and she

said b/c nada came to her house asking if she ever had seen us. Then she tells

this lady " If you see her, tell her that her mother still loves her " (puke)

The lady claimed she thought nada needed to find something to keep

busy with, and she

claimed my daughter could go to this lady's house any time and play games if

she gets bored, plus she has a pool, etc. that even I could go and enjoy

(and a hot tub) and she won't tell nada we were over there. She asked if I was

going to see my sister for Thanksgiving, which she would have never thought of

unless nada had mentioned it to her. She asked if daughter was still

homeschooled. She

said she found my house on Mapquest and tried to drive by to find my house but

did not know which one it was but she will try to find it again and

stop and say

hi.

Now 11/09/05 is when I think nada went to that training to recognize signs of

child abuse; I still think she has her mind on this. I guess she wants to get

all her spies and evidence of emails in place first, eh?

Crikey, it feels weird having to be " paranoid " like this; makes you feel like a

kook!

Theresa