Guest guest Posted February 9, 1999 Report Share Posted February 9, 1999 In Reference to the letter below i wish to make the following comment: My statement in the letter regarding Michel was out of line and uncalled for. I wish to apologize to him for those remarks. is right we are not here to quarrel. I hope you will accept my apology as it is a sincere one. May peace reign in this group and only truth be told. God Bless, The letter is as follow: " well if you are diabetic and i hope you are not, a long fast will bring you down somewhat but after a while when your body says you are hungry, it will raise a little because your pancreas throughs off sugar to feed the hunger of your body. Does that make sense? well any way it will raise but only if you are diabetic if your not it won't raise. I beleive. don't hold me to that. I am not Michel. And by the way I thought your letter was pretty good. and accurate. He is a little snobby sometimes though i would like to beleive that he means well. maybe you just had a virus though. Quite possible. Hopefully that is all it was. I wll keep you in my prayers God bless " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 1999 Report Share Posted February 9, 1999 As much as I love being reminded of my father, who also hit me (would you care to try that too while you pull apart my entire personality?), I believe that this has gone too far. I am going to quit this group, and well, I'd be interested in signing back on if and when someone lets me know that I am welcome to talk without being called a hysterical female by someone who DOES NOT KNOW ME. This is not pouting, it is merely self-preservation; I already feel sick I don't need to be attacked too. For those of you who were helpful, thank you. Michel, thank you for alerting me to the seriousness of the situation. I'm sorry my apology did not sink in there, either the first one or apparently the 2nd one. Jen > > > > > >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 1999 Report Share Posted February 9, 1999 > > > Michel- > > I'm sorry, I'm probably about to speak out of turn, but you are rude. You say " rude " , but many others say " realistic " . > You frightened me into the ER this weekend; maybe I should have gone > anyhow, but you scared me so bad I couldn't sleep and that made all the > symptoms worse. > > You insulted my dr and the care I received, putting it down to > " socialized medicince " . You know what? This is the best medical care > I've had in 5 years, and I had private, HMO insurance until now. It may have been the best you have had in 5 years, but in my book when they send someone home who may be suffering from a life threatening condition (here, Type 1 diabetes) while they wait for lab results to come back, that is SHODDY medicine, and such is well known to happen in institutionalized forms of medical care of the kind you are involved with. > No, I > don't get immediate care for everything, but that doesn't mean that my > dr is incompetent; it's the way the system works. And as it turns out, > he was safe in what he did; at the ER my ketones were still safe. > Perhaps the bloodwork will show otherwise, but I was fine through the > weekend, if I did feel sort of rotten. But did he KNOW that he was safe in doing what he did? How could he? He didn't have a single test result, and wouldn't for three days. Even though things turned out all right (I thank God for that, because I was really worried about you and had reason to be), that is NO justificiation for the course of action your doctor took. With a modicum of bad luck, you could have entered ketoacidosis over the weekend. Where would that have put you now? You could have died if no one had found you unconscious. After all, you DID have ketones in your urine, but not as much as for ketoacidosis, but who could have guessed that? > > You can't expect everyone to believe everything you say. If you hadn't > noticed, this is the internet, and it is free to all liars, > pontificators, and misinformed people. You can quote at us all you > want, but most people are here to find out about diabetes, not be > lectured. I'm a grad student, I have a chemistry background, and > believe me, knowing chemistry doesn't make you all that special. Nor > does it make you right. My position was simply that you would have been well advised to find out about your condition, ASAP. If you will recall, what I recommended you do was to get some test strips for ketones. They cost only a few dollars for 36 of them and it turned out that you needed them anyway. I myself only mentioned going to the emergency room upon your establishing the fact that you had dangerously *high* levels of ketones. But no. Some chemist you are. You lost your nerve to the extent that you no longer had the presence of mind to get the simple, low-tech wherewithall to check for ketones on your own. Instead, you went directly to the ER, but you can't lay that one on me. That was your decision, not based on *my* advice. Any rate, I'm glad that you did something, at least. > > You are attacking and his doctor without cause; according to the > American Diabetes Association (since you like quotes so much) it IS > possible for type Is to not have ketones. True, I am Type 1 and I rarely have ketones. We were talking about having 414 mg/dl blood sugar, no insulin being taken, and at the same time there being no ketones in the urine. This is a very special situation that is significant from a diagnostic standpoint. > I would assume that > probably knows more about his condition than you do; I think that to *assume* that (or his doctors) can better interpret clinical data that pertains to him than I can is *un*warranted. And I'm not bragging, either. > if you follow > 's internet url link you'll find that he is a very well-educated, > intelligent man. Which is why I took the time and effort to share with him the received wisdom in the medical profession on what makes a diabetic Type 1 or Type 2. > > The fact is that if you want people to pay attention to you when you > attempt to " enlighten " them, you might want to treat them with respect > as intelligent people. You too are human, why don't you share about > your own experiences instead of appointing yourself the teacher? You > are not a dr, so don't give medical advice. I am almost a medical > professional, and that is the FIRST rule you learn; even with extensive > medical knowledge required in my field I can't give out diagnoses and > tell people their drs are wrong and use " stupid logic " . Especially when > I've never met them and I'm making assumptions. The NEXT rule that you will have to learn in the medical school of hard knocks is that doctors are not infallible-- they do make mistakes. And many fail to learn from their mistakes and keep on making the same mistakes, all out of something akin to hubris. It was a mistake to have sent you home for days without knowing how serious or unserious your condition was, and had you suffered for it, such would have been nothing less than medical malpractice. It is simply your perception that you see me carrying on as a " teacher " (which are the kind of people you are quite heavily in contact with at the moment) simply because I am sharing with the people on this mailing list what I know. Just because you think you know more than I do, does that mean that I must refrain from helping others? I don't think so. ly, by the tone of your language (as exemplified by your choice of words) I would say that your emotions have gotten the better of you. Just because your ketones turned out to be not excessive in quantity does not discredit in the least what I told you here about your condition. I NEVER told you that you were in fact suffering from ketoacidosis, only that the chances were real enough that it was in your interest to find out what amount (if any) of ketones were present in your urine. You could have found that out for less than $5 and a few minutes of your time. You seem to be saying that you are about to become a medical professional. For a person like yourself showing themselves to have reduced rational faculty both during a problem situation as well as after, it's scary to think of you in such an occupation. You have no guts. And when you get scared or even just a bit emotional, you can't think straight. Truly, a temperament unsuited for medical work. If you think that I am being unfair in telling you this, I suggest you go back and reread what you have sent to *me*. If you still think you were behaving rationally, you still need to cool off. > > ly, I just have to say I'm quite insulted by your treating a bunch > of adults as if they were naughty children. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ See what I mean? Michel > > Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 1999 Report Share Posted February 9, 1999 > From: RSMYTH1000@... > > In a message dated 99-02-08 22:27:03 EST, you write: > > << > The fact is that if you want people to pay attention to you when you > attempt to " enlighten " them, you might want to treat them with respect > as intelligent people. You too are human, why don't you share about > your own experiences instead of appointing yourself the teacher? You > are not a dr, so don't give medical advice. I am almost a medical > professional, and that is the FIRST rule you learn; even with extensive > medical knowledge required in my field I can't give out diagnoses and > tell people their drs are wrong and use " stupid logic " . Especially when > I've never met them and I'm making assumptions. > > ly, I just have to say I'm quite insulted by your treating a bunch > of adults as if they were naughty children. Jen >> > > Jan: > > I'm so sorry that you got scared and had to go to the ER. If is the > cause, then he was wrong. You found out that a person who appears 'smart' on > a subject, might not know what's best for you (even if he appears to be an > expert). Sorry he so upset you. I think he was only trying to make his point > and really didn't mean it to be such that you would get upset. I was NOT the cause. I only suggested that she get hold of some test strips for ketones just to make sure that she wasn't in danger. (Cost: less than $5.) But she freaked out and went directly to the ER. It turned out that she did in fact have ketones, but fortunately they weren't sufficient to indicate ketoacidosis. But the possibility that she did was very real, all the same. What is to be learned from all this? When things go wrong for an hysterical female, even if it's HER fault, blame it on the nearest guy! Great thanks you get for trying to help. Michel > > I know you will do good! Trust your doctor--he really knows you! Better than > anyone on the internet. > > Robin > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 1999 Report Share Posted February 9, 1999 > > > > As much as I love being reminded of my father, who also hit me (would > you care to try that too while you pull apart my entire personality?), I > believe that this has gone too far. > > I am going to quit this group, and well, I'd be interested in signing > back on if and when someone lets me know that I am welcome to talk > without being called a hysterical female by someone who DOES NOT KNOW > ME. Well, exactly what would YOU call a female who freaks out and runs off not behaving in a rational manner? I used the word " hysterical " , because I have heard it used many a time by FEMALES in describing other females like yourself. Is the H-word akin to the N-word, in that only members of the sex or race they apply to are allowed to use them? My best friend, a married female, and I were once discussing working together on a project, when she suggested that it would be better that we wait until her mother-in-law goes home (out of state). That way, she said (half in jest), that she wouldn't be so " hysterical " . For a female, being " hysterical " can be a transitory psychological state, or one that hangs around more or less permanently. It's not exactly unheard of. Michel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 1999 Report Share Posted February 9, 1999 At 06:44 PM 2/9/99 -0800, you wrote: > > >What is to be learned from all this? When things go wrong for an >hysterical female, even if it's HER fault, blame it on the nearest guy! >Great thanks you get for trying to help. OK, goes into my Loony Bin, which is where I filter mail from people whom waste my time. ] " Philosophy is an unusually ingenious attempt to think fallaciously " Bertrand http://bcollier.newcastle.edu.au Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 1999 Report Share Posted February 9, 1999 My draw has LITERALLY dropped open. I CANNOT believe you actually posted this. Maybe the wrong person (sex) is getting hysterical? sheesh... ---Michel wrote: *snip* ] > What is to be learned from all this? When things go wrong for an > hysterical female, even if it's HER fault, blame it on the nearest guy! > Great thanks you get for trying to help. > > > Michel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 1999 Report Share Posted February 9, 1999 Michel: YOUR ATTITUDES TOWARD FEMALES IS OUTDATED AND NO LONGER ACCEPTED IN TODAYS SOCIETY. GROW UP! BEST REGARDS, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 Thanks, Susie, for that response. Let's all try to work together and stop attacking each other -- we need all the help we can get! Vicki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 I can see that Michel is someone who needs to have the last word. 'Nuf said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! RSMYTH1000@... wrote: > From: RSMYTH1000@... > > Michel: > > YOUR ATTITUDES TOWARD FEMALES IS OUTDATED AND NO LONGER ACCEPTED IN TODAYS > SOCIETY. GROW UP! > > BEST REGARDS, > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 , Thank You!!!!!!!! I have many heartaches in my life right now, and reading what was being said added so much stress to what has been going on that I almost ended up at the hospital, as I thought I was going to die from hypo! Am I being hysterical because I just lost a nephew and after reading that garbage, became physically ill? Margie Collier wrote: > > > At 06:44 PM 2/9/99 -0800, you wrote: > > > > > >What is to be learned from all this? When things go wrong for an > >hysterical female, even if it's HER fault, blame it on the nearest guy! > >Great thanks you get for trying to help. > > OK, goes into my Loony Bin, which is where > I filter mail from people whom waste my time. > > > ] > " Philosophy is an unusually ingenious attempt to think fallaciously " > Bertrand > > http://bcollier.newcastle.edu.au > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 Michel wrote: << What is to be learned from all this? When things go wrong for an hysterical female, even if it's HER fault, blame it on the nearest guy! Great thanks you get for trying to help. >> You would think that those of us who suffer from our own disabilities would be more sensitive than most to typecasting and name-calling. Michel was not the " nearest guy " - he was the guy who scared another poster with his suggestion that she could die from a hypo. And if someone sets out to terrify you and you become terrified, does that label you " hysterical " ? And would Michel have called a man who responded similarly a " hysterical male " ? Michel is intelligent, but a bit more humility and a bit less melodrama would have been welcome. We have been neglected by the medical community, probably because the disease is self-managed. Also, until recently, our situation was viewed as incurable and hopeless. With new insulins, medicines, and approaches to diet, we are turning that bleak scenario around. Meanwhile, we need to bear in mind that we have the potential to be of greater assistance to our fellow diabetics than doctors and dietitians and magazine articles and books, because of our unique experience and insights. So one diabetic will tell you her doctor prescribes low-fat milk to counteract hypos, while the next diabetic will tell you his dietitian advises him to drink at least 20 oz. of low-fat milk daily for good control. Just keep reading and researching and taking it all in, forming your own conclusions, and working with your caregivers on a plan that works for you and is something you can live with for the rest of your life. Susie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 I'm new to this group, having joined just as the latest brouhaha erupted. One ridiculous encounter to begin my experience as a T2. The bickering is a total waste of everyone's time. The director of the group ought to banish the two juveniles so that the mature diabetics can move on to a thoughtful and useful exchange. What reason is there to let these messages contaminate our e-mail? S. Gottlieb, sgott7128@aol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 > From: RSMYTH1000@... > > Michel: > > YOUR ATTITUDES TOWARD FEMALES IS OUTDATED AND NO LONGER ACCEPTED IN TODAYS > SOCIETY. GROW UP! > > BEST REGARDS, The problem here is that an observation such as I made will always be acceptable so long as there are females who allow themselves to lapse into emotionalism and lose control of their tongues. It is THEY who need to grow up. For if they could do that, then what you say above would be true. But as things stand now, your claim that " such attitude is no longer acceptable in today's society " is totally groundless and cannot be demonstrated. As far as your anticipated rebuttal goes, that not ALL females are like that, no one ever said they were. If you will look closely at my original posting, the word ALL is not present. I was speaking in terms of what they call a " limited universe of discourse " , in exactly the same manner that radical feminists do when they comment on the male sex. It's tit for tat. So, when someone comes along and unjustifiably lashes out at me, basing their complaint on outright LIES (I have all the documents to prove this) I have the right to point out their shortcomings, and this should not be construed in any manner to be a personal attack or for that matter a personal counterattack. It's merely self-defense. And need I remind anyone who started this animated discussion, if not who keeps it going? Not I in either case. I am the person being (unjustifiably) called to task, and being so gives me the right to respond. If people don't like what they see, they have no right to blame me. They should take their complaint to people like the one here (as well as others) who keep posting on this subject. Notice that I am and have been on the defensive, and will continue to do so as long as I am attacked. Michel > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 > From: ottercritter@... > > Michel wrote: > > << What is to be learned from all this? When things go wrong for an > hysterical female, even if it's HER fault, blame it on the nearest guy! > Great thanks you get for trying to help. >> > > You would think that those of us who suffer from our own disabilities would > be more sensitive than most to typecasting and name-calling. Michel was not > the " nearest guy " - he was the guy who scared another poster with his > suggestion that she could die from a hypo. And if someone sets out to ^^^^^^ A hypo? I suggested that Jen get some Ketostix and test to SEE if she was in danger of developing *ketoacidosis*. Why? Because ketoacidosis is a very serious, life threatening condition that can develop very rapidly in a Type 1 diabetic who is not taking insulin. This is a good example of what people are basing their opinions of me on. Sheer error of fact, at the very least. Quite possibly, outright lies. ( Norgaard, as long as these people are waging a war of disinformation against me, I will keep responding.) As it turned out, my advice was correct. Jen did have ketones in her urine, but she freaked out and went to the ER instead of to the pharmacy. I outlined to her what to do with each possible level of ketones measured in her urine, and only at 80 mg/dl and above (which shows that ketoacidosis is then a very real danger) did I state that a trip to the ER was in order. > terrify you and you become terrified, does that label you " hysterical " ? And > would Michel have called a man who responded similarly a " hysterical male " ? In seems to be the fashion nowadays, especially even among females, to describe this trait, which is highly characteristic in females, as being hysterical. It is used in jest as well as in all seriousness. However, to use such a term on a male wouldn't be in line with current accepted usage, any more than it would be to refer to his shirt as a " blouse " . As to why females are more prone to this trait, it all goes back to HORMONES. Females just don't have as much testosterone as males. When they get more than they should have, their faces start to break out. More than that, and facial hair can sprout. It's testosterone that makes males more capable of controlling their emotions and keeping cool during a crisis. In a word, it's called *courage*. And when females are particularly bereft of testosterone, they can really become wimps. To wish, or even assert, that females and males are equal is to confuse " equality " with " equivalence " . Females do deserve equal rights, equal job opportunity (within the limits of their physical strength), equal pay for equal work, equal participation in the political process, not to mention equal respect. But that is NOT the same as claiming that males and females are *equivalent*. They aren't. They have different patterns of temperament, and these patterns are largely physiologically based. > Michel is intelligent, but a bit more humility I have a counter observation: why don't YOU try not to feel inferior when you run across somebody that knows something you don't. That way, you won't be generating such feelings of resentment which you justify by thinking that I lack humility. I read dozens of postings here for every one I respond to. I only respond when I have reliable information. Often, this is of use to people, but once in a while not. For example, I tried unsuccessfully to show how a certain diabetic had been incorrectly typed. I even went so far as to quote material from a highly respected medical reference work, demonstrating how it applied to him. I finally found that I was dealing with a person whose mind was already made up who should not be bothered with facts. Oh, well. Michel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 I'll add my 2Cents to this one. I'VE HAD ENOUGH If Michel and Jen want to bicker, please do it OFF-LINE. I joined this group, like many others, to share experiences and learn, not to read about two people biting their respective heads off. Please keep to topic and behave respectfully. , as moderator, I suggest you consider banning these two if they don't have an inclination to either behave or drop out themselves. *********** REPLY SEPARATOR *********** > > > > >> From: RSMYTH1000@... >> >> Michel: >> >> YOUR ATTITUDES TOWARD FEMALES IS OUTDATED AND NO LONGER ACCEPTED IN TODAYS >> SOCIETY. GROW UP! >> >> BEST REGARDS, > > >The problem here is that an observation such as I made will always be >acceptable so long as there are females who allow themselves to lapse into >emotionalism and lose control of their tongues. It is THEY who need to >grow up. For if they could do that, then what you say above would be >true. > >But as things stand now, your claim that " such attitude is no longer >acceptable in today's society " is totally groundless and cannot be >demonstrated. > >As far as your anticipated rebuttal goes, that not ALL females >are like that, no one ever said they were. If you will look >closely at my original posting, the word ALL is not present. >I was speaking in terms of what they call a " limited universe of >discourse " , in exactly the same manner that radical feminists >do when they comment on the male sex. It's tit for tat. > > >So, when someone comes along and unjustifiably lashes out at me, >basing their complaint on outright LIES (I have all the documents >to prove this) I have the right to point out their shortcomings, and >this should not be construed in any manner to be a personal attack >or for that matter a personal counterattack. > >It's merely self-defense. > >And need I remind anyone who started this animated discussion, if >not who keeps it going? Not I in either case. I am the person >being (unjustifiably) called to task, and being so gives me the >right to respond. If people don't like what they see, they >have no right to blame me. They should take their complaint to >people like the one here (as well as others) who keep posting >on this subject. Notice that I am and have been on the >defensive, and will continue to do so as long as I am attacked. > > >Michel > >> >> >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 I don't know about scare tactics but in the last two weeks Both my kids have lost a close friend(that is two 22 year olds) both type I diabetics. I realize Type I and Type II are different but both were from kidney failure and this is a complication of both types. Enough to make me take a closer look at my view of the disease. Ann S Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 1999 Report Share Posted February 10, 1999 Michel writes: << This is a good example of what people are basing their opinions of me on. Sheer error of fact, at the very least. Quite possibly, outright lies. ( Norgaard, as long as these people are waging a war of disinformation against me, I will keep responding.) ... Jen ... freaked out and went to the ER instead of to the pharmacy. I outlined to her what to do with each possible level of ketones measured in her urine, and only at 80 mg/dl and above (which shows that ketoacidosis is then a very real danger) did I state that a trip to the ER was in order. Michel, this is what you actually said: << ... the tests should be expedited ... in considering your polyuria all night long, I wouldn't be surprised if your reading on this was much higher than 120 mg/dl ... if you have a significant amount of ketones in the urine (and haven't been fasting the day before), they may decide to treat you as a Type 1 and start immediately with insulin ... Jen, I am now getting concerned. May I suggest that you go to a pharmacy and get some Ketostix .... If your urine tests " moderate " (40 mg/dl) for ketones, call your doctor. If it tests " large " (80 mg/dl or above), ... I'd go to the emergency room at the hospital of your choice immediately. If that turns out to be the case, you would be definitely in or heading for ketoacidosis. If so, you might not make it to Monday without losing consciousness... When a person says they are not feeling good, and they have all the classic symptoms of diabetes, plus a strong family history of Type 1 diabetes, I don't think that I am over-reacting. I hope you are not living alone. You need someone to be watching you at all times from now on until your next appointment with your doctor. Also, that person should be smelling your breath ... Should that be happening, go to the emergency room ... The reason I am really worried was that my father decided to go to Scripps Clinic here in San Diego due to urinary blockage ... suffering from acute kidney failure .... It turned out that the last 72 hours was enough to all but ruin both of his kidneys ... Scripps fired [the doctor] a few weeks later after going over how he handled my father's case. I can't help but see a parallel here, especially considering the type of health care you are getting ... Socialized medicine under any guise leaves much to be desired. Jen, take care. There IS cause for concern here. >> Susie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 1999 Report Share Posted February 12, 1999 Hi all. I'm really impressed!!! Quite often somebody asks how much is mg/dl in mmol/l or vice versa. I found a conversion table in the quoted literature. Copied it and sent it to the group, so that anybodye, who might be interested could read it/copy it for their own purposes - to help, as some use mg/dl, other mmol/l. A communication problem for decades. What a result from posting a conversion-table! I don't understand all that fuzz, that came out of it - or many a reaction. I hope, that we all, no names, will learn to communicate better with eachother. By that I think we all must keep in mind though, that we are dealing with a " sneaky thing " , this DM, any type. We have to face facts and cope with our lives as diabetics. It is, I'm certain, hard to us all, from the beginning, and from time to time. We will all experience ups and downs. I don't think though that anybody has any real " support " from this mail-list or any newsgroup - or other " self-help " -activities, if we can't deal with facts. Nobody is helped with tabus and denials in a group like this. I think in fact this is the most important issue of an activity like this group. Fortunately I've got mails - as we have seen responses to the group too, that they mobilized their energy to " get over the mountain " , got rid of their reservations - and accepted their personal situation - and became the " managers " of their own life as diabetics. This is what this group is about! I fully agree though, that we must all do our best not to hurt eachother, personalizing differences of views and opinions, even on so-called facts. We all live in very different places, and I think it was wisely mentioned to bear in mind, the risks of misinterpretations due to language and culture. This is a force fo our group though that we should benefit from. This method is merely a poor substitution for personal contact, face to face. By that we miss many signals to correctly interpret what was ment. " What's received is crucial, not what was sent " . DIXI Oluf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 1999 Report Share Posted February 12, 1999 Language and definition differences -- where's the line between " discussion " and " argue " ? I think direct attacks (i.e. " hysterical female " ) are defnitely the latter. But we're not going to do that, are we? :-) Vicki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 1999 Report Share Posted February 12, 1999 Oluf nson wrote: << ... I hope, that we all, no names, will learn to communicate better with eachother. By that I think we all must keep in mind though, that we are dealing with a " sneaky thing " , this DM, any type. We have to face facts and cope with our lives as diabetics ... >> Nice post, Oluf! My brother-in-law died in May at age 54 from diabetes complications. Another relative just wrote that her brother-in-law died at 36 from this disease. Some people, including doctors, don't recognize the seriousness of this illness, but its complications represent one of the leading causes of death. In addition to other ailments, heart disease and insulin-resistant type 2 (affecting 85 percent of type 2's, and labeled Syndrome X by the researchers at Stanford University) are so closely entwined that some people call Syndrome X " a form of heart disease. " Poor eating and lack of exercise can do us in - but so can stress. It is essential for us be the masters and mistresses of our own bodies and not let this sneaky bugger get the upper hand. I just met with my doctor yesterday, and she echoes these words. Take charge of your health. Learn, learn, learn. Let's make a pact to live long, healthy lives and have the last laugh with this *$%@^ & * disease! Susie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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