When non borderline children become parents

[Guest guest]

I have two children. My oldest is 8 years old. For eight years now,

I have struggled with my parenting skills. I am wondering if anyone

else has had similar difficulties.

My biggest concern is expressing my anger. I am trying sooo hard not

to be like my mother and question myself everytime I lose my cool. I

do NOT rage, although in the beginning I did. My son has ADHD (always

wanting more and never being totally satisfied) and his behaviors are

a HUGE trigger for me.

Any advice or similar circumstances out there?

KW