Re: Telling her she looks nice

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I absolutely agree, the most important part of a relationship is the compatibility. If I had to choose between someone who told me I looked nice vs someone who I click with on all those other levels, no contest. And I have that in my relationship and am very thankful for it.

But...I still like to know that he finds me attractive. I don't mean I need to hear that every time we see each other, but on occasion, yes, it is nice to hear. And I do remember at the beginning of the relationship (we've been together 2 years now) noticing that he never said anything about it. , you approach it probably exactly the same as my bf, very logically, and that is fine! I like reading what you have to say, it gives me insight into my own situation. I guess I was trying, in a somewhat light-hearted way, to throw out a bit of 1st date advice. I've never known a woman, or man, to be honest, to be upset by being told, in a casual, not an aggressive sexual way, that they look nice. And I do compliment my bf and he does like it!

My first real foray into a discussion on here. It's good to stir things up a little!

Laurie