Yay! About to go NC again

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Ok, so y'all would be proud of me, or you will once I pull it off. Here's

the deal. Last year right after MOther's Day daughter and I went NC with my

nada. For me I felt better after a while. But for my daughter she was

mopy and depressed b/c she could not see the miniature horses any more. But

she did not call me bad names or anything. She knew why I did it and that

it unfortunately involved her not seeing her horses any more. Then the

hurricane messed all that up. We got involved with nada and the horses b/c

we were in line to be hit by the hurricane pretty surely. If it really did

hit like they thought, my house would have been underwater, and it was a

pretty scary time there for a while. Well, seeing as it was a natural

disaster and anyone would be concerned about the horses (note: we were

concerned about the horses; not nada), we unvoluntarily kind of got involved

with moving the horses to higher ground. Even then, daughter and I tried to

leave town on our own; not with nada. Then things kind of went downhill

after that.

Then the ultimate last straw: While my nada was out of town recently,

apparently she had a " spy " as I call them go to my boyfriend's apartment to

spy, I guess. Well, boyfriend lives at a high security apartment where

there is a guest list and all that. You have to be on the list and know his

name and what apartment he is in and show your ID, etc to get in. Well,

BF called me up during a break at work and said something strange happened.

He said the guard at his apartment called him on his cell phone saying he

had a visitor. The guard told my BF the name but had trouble pronouncing

the first name. My BF said it was a Hispanic name (my BF also happens to be

Hispanic). AT first he and I figured it some sort of mistake; only problem

is whoever the visitor was knew my BF's name and what apartment he lived

in. Then I said, " Well I hope the name was not O_____ " My BF said,

" That was the name! " I said, " Oh my goodness! " My BF said " What? " I

said I had to think about the first name. Took me until the next morning

and then I figured it out. I called BF and said, " Was the first name

J______? " My boyfriend was complete surprised and said, " Yes, that was

it!!!!! " I really was about to die. I told him that was the name of my

aunt's ex-husband and b/c of that, I now figured it was one of nada's

tricks. Either she had my aunt go over there (which is real hard to

believe; aunt would not want to waste time on that I don't think) or mom had

someone else go over there and told them to use that name to get in? I

don't know. I know my nada had figured out where BF lived, probably

followed him from work. I don't know if she knew there was a guard there or

not. She probably did know.

Well, guess what? Nada is acting so innocent, even yelling at me about what

was this and why did I tell my daughter about this, etc, and now is telling

everyone I went over there and posed as this person and gave that name.

Well, same thing that happened when someone called the city on nada's

horses. She thought for sure it was me who did it. So we are not

surprised.

Problem is she left a message on my BF's cell saying I refused to talk about

it. But BF knows how weird she is. Problem again is nada is going to

approach BF and ask him for the phone number to the guard so she can figure

or straighten this all out. Well, BF is not going to put up with too much

of that. We will be around nada this weekend. If he goes tilt on her b/c

he loses his temper, then of course nada can chalk him up as being a bad guy

just like me.

So, I am ready for the NC thing again. I will just have to do my best to

find some horses somehow for daughter to get involved with. It just may

take a long time or may not work out. Me working over FT and not being able

to drive her to timbuktu during the week really limits the ability to find

her some horses to work with.

So, ugh once again, but looks like a good time for NC !!!

Theresa