Re: Fw: My Psychologist's Advice on how to deal with the loss of a loved one at Christmas:

December 25, 2005

It is good advice he gives, Lea. Years ago my brother-in-law died in an

auto accident on Dec. 22nd. It was very hard for years not to equate

Christmas with his loss. And, it seems, the first year is the hardest

after a loss, but the pain is still there, it just does not manifest itself

as much after some time has passed. We learn to cope, to make new paths

and we learn to remember with love after some time passes.

Lynda

At 01:00 PM 12/25/2005, you wrote:

>Dearest Friends:

>

>I know that we have our Lynda, who has always given us the best of her

>advice; however, this is another psychologist's opinion on bereavement at

>this time of year.

>This wonderful man has helped us through many losses. He helped me with

>the loss of my precious brother, Roy, one month ago. Dr. has helped

>both and me with health problems and dealing with the stress of

>litigation.

>

>We love him dearly...I hope that this will help someone in the group.

>

>Sending love to all........Lea

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