To Sunny....One More Thought....

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Hi Sunny,

This is an afterthought to the email I sent a few

minutes ago. So, please read that email before this

one.

Anyway, I had one more thought about your situation.

And, I can't give you advice or tell you what to do.

You are the expert in your life and circumstances.

But, I can tell you what I would do if I were in your

situation. So, you can take or discard my thoughts.

If I were told by an aunt that she was going to move

nearby along with my nada so that I could care for

them both in their old age.....

I would tell her, in a very calm voice:

" That does not work for me. You will have to make

other arrangements. "

You don't owe this person any explanation or excuse.

If I were in your situation, voicing this would be the

boundary that I would need to set. It would also free

my soul.

Just my two-cents worth. As I said, you're the expert

in your circumstances.

Hugs,

Lula

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