Guest guest Posted December 14, 2005 Report Share Posted December 14, 2005 My husband has not been nice at all ever since I told him back in August that I need my implants out and they are causing me health issues. He has not spoke to me in over a week nor looked at me. He has not hugged me, kissed me or even so much as brushed up against me in three weeks!! This has been going on and off since August as well but it is really killing me, I don't know what to do, I feel more lonely now then when he was in Iraq for a year. He seems angry with me but he won't talk to me so I have no idea what is going on. I don't want Christmas at all, he has not even taken my kids shopping so they can buy me a gift for Christmas. I took them to buy gifts for dad and every year we take them so they can buy mom and dad gifts. We are having our Christmas this Saturday because we will be out of town for Christmas. He did this before and didn't get me anything for our anniversary or Valentines day one year. But these are my kids and they want to buy me a small gift for Christmas, I really don't care if he gets me anything. It isn't just Christmas, he just seems like he is more worried about the money he has to spend on this surgery and what he doesn't get to have because of it. We had almost all the money we needed for the surgery and I just found out he took and transferred 1000 dollars of it. I am not feeling good about our marriage right now.Does anyone think he is trying to get me to break up the marriage because he doesn't want to look like the bad guy or am I just really letting my mind get the better of me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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