[Modoasis] friend sticks up for me/nada response

[Guest guest]

Well, guys. My friend got tired of nada ringing her phone off the wall

(ticked her husband off) and of nada leaving notes INSIDE friend's car and

under a rug INSIDE her house which freaked my friend out. So my friend sent

this email to nada telling her my daughter and I just want some space and

nada has to but in with all our friends and how friend thought nada knew

after friend did not respond that she wanted to be left alone by nada. She

called nada relentless and said her husband thinks nada is insane and how

friend was afraid nada might come break her windows, too, etc. and how they

woould call the police if she kept it all up

Well, here are some of the wonderful excuses nada gives in parts of her

email (So telling, as usual): Of course, this " laughing " at nada did not

happen, particularly not at the time she is talking about - perhaps a few

years before. Note how nada thinks she cares more about my daughter than I

do. Nada knows I only have about 2 friends, so why call the whole world ?

Just a dumb excuse. Also, those homeschoolers I funcitoned with saw me maybe

once a year, so I am sure they knew me real well, eh?

" I didn't know I was diagnosed with severe depression at the time when

Theresa hung up on me and I wanted to talk Breaking the window was

inappropriate, but she " laughed " at me and here I was severely depressed. I

never laughed at her when she was severely depressed. I have not hurt

K________. This exists in Theresa's mind and she has talked so much about me

negatively that K_______ has to believe it because she only has her mother

in the whole world; she has no Dad and no Grandparents - blood relatives. "

" K_______ is a wonderful, bright and sensitive young lady. I feel Theresa

doesn't believe this herself. I'm sorry I offended you by leaving notes. I

feel abandoned. I am not severely depressed now so I would not be doing any

thing to your property or to anyone. Theresa has put this in your head now.

I feel that is why I contact people, because Theresa is not being upfront

about me to others. Her friends do not know the whole story, just one side.

The homeschoolers she has functioned with, saw a problem with her long

before I broke down and shared some problems with them. There are more of

them then there are of people like you. They have seen 11 yrs. of both sides

of the story. You will never hear from me again. The Unmother and

Ungrandmother - the Evil One who only cares about herself. "

Nada is still in the process of trying to get dad arrested. She is going

to a physician to document her bruises (most of them are faded by now) that

she claims he gave her but it happened around the time she was at a horse

show so she probably got kicked and thought it a great opportunity to blame

it on him, don't know. Dad told me the police already came to their house to

talk to him and gave a warning, so she is at it, I guess, until he is in

jail. I wonder how she will get all taht money she needs if that happens. Of

course, I guess she would still be getting his social security check. Just

more of her pity melodrama so she can suck people in since she is all

abandoned by her mean daughters and " abusive " husband. Why does she feel

abandoned if she has all those people who she talks with who knows how mean

I am? haha

Theresa

[Guest guest]

Wow, Theresa,

Thanks for sharing the letter.

So....I never realized that vandalising people's homes

(breaking windows) was something people do when they

are " severely depressed. " I thought that criminally

insane people did things like that (not really funny,

though, just really scary and very sad).

I feel sorry for your friend, (but better her than

you, if that makes sense).

Best thoughts to you and your daughter,

Lula

--- taptyper wrote:

> Well, guys. My friend got tired of nada ringing her

> phone off the wall

> (ticked her husband off) and of nada leaving notes

> INSIDE friend's car and

> under a rug INSIDE her house which freaked my friend

> out. So my friend sent

> this email to nada telling her my daughter and I

> just want some space and

> nada has to but in with all our friends and how

> friend thought nada knew

> after friend did not respond that she wanted to be

> left alone by nada. She

> called nada relentless and said her husband thinks

> nada is insane and how

> friend was afraid nada might come break her windows,

> too, etc. and how they

> woould call the police if she kept it all up

> Well, here are some of the wonderful excuses nada

> gives in parts of her

> email (So telling, as usual): Of course, this

> " laughing " at nada did not

> happen, particularly not at the time she is talking

> about - perhaps a few

> years before. Note how nada thinks she cares more

> about my daughter than I

> do. Nada knows I only have about 2 friends, so why

> call the whole world ?

> Just a dumb excuse. Also, those homeschoolers I

> funcitoned with saw me maybe

> once a year, so I am sure they knew me real well,

> eh?

> " I didn't know I was diagnosed with severe

> depression at the time when

> Theresa hung up on me and I wanted to talk Breaking

> the window was

> inappropriate, but she " laughed " at me and here I

> was severely depressed. I

> never laughed at her when she was severely

> depressed. I have not hurt

> K________. This exists in Theresa's mind and she has

> talked so much about me

> negatively that K_______ has to believe it because

> she only has her mother

> in the whole world; she has no Dad and no

> Grandparents - blood relatives. "

> " K_______ is a wonderful, bright and sensitive

> young lady. I feel Theresa

> doesn't believe this herself. I'm sorry I offended

> you by leaving notes. I

> feel abandoned. I am not severely depressed now so I

> would not be doing any

> thing to your property or to anyone. Theresa has put

> this in your head now.

> I feel that is why I contact people, because Theresa

> is not being upfront

> about me to others. Her friends do not know the

> whole story, just one side.

> The homeschoolers she has functioned with, saw a

> problem with her long

> before I broke down and shared some problems with

> them. There are more of

> them then there are of people like you. They have

> seen 11 yrs. of both sides

> of the story. You will never hear from me again. The

> Unmother and

> Ungrandmother - the Evil One who only cares about

> herself. "

> Nada is still in the process of trying to get dad

> arrested. She is going

> to a physician to document her bruises (most of them

> are faded by now) that

> she claims he gave her but it happened around the

> time she was at a horse

> show so she probably got kicked and thought it a

> great opportunity to blame

> it on him, don't know. Dad told me the police

> already came to their house to

> talk to him and gave a warning, so she is at it, I

> guess, until he is in

> jail. I wonder how she will get all taht money she

> needs if that happens. Of

> course, I guess she would still be getting his

> social security check. Just

> more of her pity melodrama so she can suck people in

> since she is all

> abandoned by her mean daughters and " abusive "

> husband. Why does she feel

> abandoned if she has all those people who she talks

> with who knows how mean

> I am? haha

> Theresa

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

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