[modoasis] do think there is healthy anger

[Guest guest]

Having had talked about forgiveness, I do think there is a healthy level of

anger even when you are in a stage of forgiving. For instance, every time

nada tries to hoover me and daughter back in, the way I keep from falling

for it is to remember all our relationships that nada ruined b/c of her

smear campaign on me in particular. Other things were ruined, too, such as

daughter being involved with the horses and taking them to shows. Not that I

think about it all the time and get bitter about it - I just have to

remember it at times she tries to hoover me back in. Otherwise, I would

possibly be hoovered, and that would be going way back to square one as long

as nada is exactly the same as she was when I was in square one. She has not

changed one bit, and it just was not healthy for me and daughter.

Theresa