Guest guest Posted December 14, 2004 Report Share Posted December 14, 2004 I have had regrets many a times Kat. I hate these pains in my stomach which I didn't have before. I hate how my face looks all craggy now. I appreciate the weight I've lost but really its not the way I thought it would be. I haven't had things as bad as you have and how I wish you didn't have to have these problems but girl you look so awesome I am just jealous you are a hottie But yes I do somewhat understand what you are going through, regret wise... Hugs, Pinkie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 14, 2004 Report Share Posted December 14, 2004 Kat: Oh hon........I'm just 5 months out and am blessed that I have not had one problem since surgery, so no I dont regret it. But I have been told by many that there is a down time..where you question your motives. Since I lack experience I dont have any words of wisdom. But please know your in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that things get better. Have you sought counseling? I'm am just to learn to deal with my new body image. Take Care Sweetie!!! Chelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 14, 2004 Report Share Posted December 14, 2004 Pinky: What do you mean by your face looks craggy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2004 Report Share Posted December 15, 2004 Kat Honestly? A few glimmers. But I know where I was and where I am now. Perhaps you should consider talking to someone about your feelings? And if you're getting depressed, I would encourage that even more, simply because it can become overwhelming. And you don't want that to happen!!!!!! > > Have any of you post ops, had a period of time after surgery that > you regretted having surgery? I think Im coming close to that. Im so > happy with so many blessings that this surgery has brought into my > life...freedom from so many pains and such effort just to get > through a day...but on the flip side, Im so sick of having problems > that last night I cried for 3 hours and actually for the first time > since my surgery, regretted ever having it. I hope this feeling > doesn't last. I hope this isn't my future. Im beginning to get > depressed. > > Kat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2004 Report Share Posted December 15, 2004 I have no advise to give.... I just wanted to say HI and give you a (((((((((((((((((((((((((BIG HUG))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I hope you feel better soon!! > > Have any of you post ops, had a period of time after surgery that > you regretted having surgery? I think Im coming close to that. Im so > happy with so many blessings that this surgery has brought into my > life...freedom from so many pains and such effort just to get > through a day...but on the flip side, Im so sick of having problems > that last night I cried for 3 hours and actually for the first time > since my surgery, regretted ever having it. I hope this feeling > doesn't last. I hope this isn't my future. Im beginning to get > depressed. > > Kat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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