Guest guest Posted December 16, 2005 Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 I have been married before, the divorce was and still is hard on my son. His " dad " one day just up and stopped calling sending cards or gifts and seeing him all together. The only dad he knows is my husband now and I have a daughter with him. I can't stand the thought of putting my kids through a divorce. I am not sure we are at that point,I just think the surgery needs to be done and get this stress over with. We have known since August that I need explant but have not had the right resouces or money to have it done.Seems like the longer it is hanging over us the worse things are getting. > > Lynda, > > I know there are times when the kids are better off . > . . However, a recent book published by a woman who > studied the effects of divorce on kids says that > almost 80% of divorces are unnecessary . . . that > things can be worked out to the betterment of the > family - if they make the effort. > > Nevertheless, it takes two people to make a marriage > work! IMHO, anyone seeing trouble ahead, should start > making plans to be independent - just in case. > > No one should stay in a situation where she or the > children are physically or mentally abused! However > most situations fall short of that kind of abuse. > > Hugs, > > Rogene > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2005 Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 Funny my husband was there with me when dr kolb told him my implants were the problem, but he still doesn't see I am sick, so what can I do?? > > > > > > , > > > > > > The other day on CNN they were saying that the stress > > > test given right after returning from Iraq doesn't > > > tell the whole story. They need to be retested at > > > least three months later. > > > > > > Keeping demonstrating your love for him . . . even if > > > he doesn't deserve it. I suspect he's hurting more > > > than any of us can understand. > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2005 Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 Oh man I am sorry you went through that with your ex and I am very scared of that happening if it comes down to it. It would litterally split my family. My son is not his and so I would lose a daughter and he would lose his sister and they are very close. I don't think that is what will happen but the threat is there. Also my husband is not a big believer in divorce. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I know it's tough when you feel so bad . . . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > But a couple suggestions. . . See if you can find a > > > > > > > > > few nice things to do for your hubby. . . i.e. make > > > > > > > > > some cookies for him and BRING a plate of cookies to > > > > > > > > > him. . . Touch him gently and tell him " Thank You " > > > > > > > > > from time to time. . . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Also . . . look for ways to express humor. It sounds > > > > > > > > > like Sis is an expert! Let her tell you about her > > > > > > > > > antics! . . . LOL > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I suspect your husband is hurting - why? unless you > > > > > > > > > can get him to open up, you may never know. But being > > > > > > > > > extra gentle to him, even if he's being a pain may > > > > > > > > > help coax his loving side out. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you have any reason to think he may be suffering > > > > > > > > > from post-tramautic syndrome after being in Iraq, he > > > > > > > > > needs to get help. I hear that about 1/3 of the > > > > > > > > > returnees experience it to some degree. . . often > > > > > > > > > showing up months after the experience. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given > by > > >licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or > licensed > > >health care professional before commencing any medical treatment. > > > > > > " Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians > mislead you. > > >Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how > to live > > >a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus ing, > > >two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace) > > > > > >See our photos website! Enter " implants " for access at this link: > > > ><http://.shutterfly.com/action/>http://.sh u > tterfly.com/action/ > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2005 Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 - what you can do is believe in yourself. I felt frustrated because I wanted my husband's support with this, and he just wasn't there, didn't want to believe the implants were the problem, and in the end all I could do was follow my own instincts. Believe me, even after hearing that Dr. Feng felt it was my implants, he was still skeptical and still wasn't a pleasure to be around. He wanted solid proof, like some type of blood test that could confirm it, but there just isn't anything like that available, and all we can do is compare symptoms and put together pieces of the puzzle. Don't worry about what your husband sees or doesn't see, worry about what YOU see. After the implants were removed, a huge weight was dropped from both our shoulders and things started to improve. Sis > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > The other day on CNN they were saying that the stress > > > > test given right after returning from Iraq doesn't > > > > tell the whole story. They need to be retested at > > > > least three months later. > > > > > > > > Keeping demonstrating your love for him . . . even if > > > > he doesn't deserve it. I suspect he's hurting more > > > > than any of us can understand. > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 I spoke with my husband, I am still not sure what the hell is going on, however, he listened and seemed calm and caring for the first time in weeks. He agreed that the sooner the better to get the implants removed, he agreed with me asking my dad to help. So that is a huge positive. I finally broke down this morning and asked about the intimacy problems but he didn't tell me why he just held me and swore he still loved me. I feel a bit better but would still like to know why he has been and still is avoiding the intimate part of our relationship. I didn't want to push him though. I told him that we made it through Iraq and that I am so glad to have him home so maybe he will start to come around a bit, what do you think? HUGS, > > > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > > > The other day on CNN they were saying that the stress > > > > > test given right after returning from Iraq doesn't > > > > > tell the whole story. They need to be retested at > > > > > least three months later. > > > > > > > > > > Keeping demonstrating your love for him . . . even if > > > > > he doesn't deserve it. I suspect he's hurting more > > > > > than any of us can understand. > > > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Thanks Lynda, This decision to explant si one of the hardest ones I have ever been faced with in my life. I have terrible selfesteem now never used to, and I just don't want to look like a little kid again. I got boobs to be sexy and now I have to rethink sexy, just how will I be sexy with scars on my small breasts??? Hugs, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The other day on CNN they were saying that the stress > > > > > > > test given right after returning from Iraq doesn't > > > > > > > tell the whole story. They need to be retested at > > > > > > > least three months later. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Keeping demonstrating your love for him . . . even if > > > > > > > he doesn't deserve it. I suspect he's hurting more > > > > > > > than any of us can understand. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by > >licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed > >health care professional before commencing any medical treatment. > > > > " Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you. > >Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live > >a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus ing, > >two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace) > > > >See our photos website! Enter " implants " for access at this link: > ><http://.shutterfly.com/action/>http://.sh utterfly.com/action/ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 , I tried to post this a minute ago and I don't know if it went through or not. I check a few different e-mails (I've got a few, I monitor my mother's art business, etc) and sometimes I think I put one of my other e-mail/sign-in combo's in and mess things up. Anyway, hopefully this isn't a repeat. What I wanted to say was this - I've got small boobs with scars on them and I'm sexy as heck!! I'm just trying to add a little levity to a difficult subject. I felt sexier with my natural shape than I did with my implanted shape. It's not about the boobs, sexiness comes from within - your confidence level, your personality, the way you carry yourself. I've got three scars in the bikini area (faded, so hardly noticable), I had two hernia's (one on either side) and in the middle I had surgery for endometriosis. I joke that I've got a big smile above my bikini area, and now I've got a smile under each boob!! However, even though I'm an A cup, the scars are hardly noticable, even at 6 weeks post-op, and in time they'll fade, too. Dr. Feng did a great job and they're very smooth, under the crease, I was worried about the scars but they are minimal. Sis I'm also very glad that you and your husband talked. It's a step in the right direction. Even though it's painful to address sensitive subjects, it still helps open the doors of communication. Maybe your husband felt like you expected him to solve the problem, and he might feel relieved that you're taking steps to resolve it. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The other day on CNN they were saying that the stress > > > > > > > > test given right after returning from Iraq doesn't > > > > > > > > tell the whole story. They need to be retested at > > > > > > > > least three months later. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Keeping demonstrating your love for him . . . even if > > > > > > > > he doesn't deserve it. I suspect he's hurting more > > > > > > > > than any of us can understand. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice > given by > > >licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or > licensed > > >health care professional before commencing any medical treatment. > > > > > > " Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians > mislead you. > > >Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about > how to live > > >a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus > ing, > > >two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace) > > > > > >See our photos website! Enter " implants " for access at this link: > > > ><http://.shutterfly.com/action/>http://.sh > utterfly.com/action/ > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Sis, do you have your before and after pictures up? You sound so positive and I would love to see your results. I wore a 34A cup prior to implants however I learned when I was in europe that I was wearing the wrong size bra and am infact a 32 band size. Does this mean I will wear a 32B cup if no tissue is lost?? Dr Kolb thinks I shouldn't lose breast tissue. What do you think?? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The other day on CNN they were saying that the stress > > > > > > > > > test given right after returning from Iraq doesn't > > > > > > > > > tell the whole story. They need to be retested at > > > > > > > > > least three months later. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Keeping demonstrating your love for him . . . even if > > > > > > > > > he doesn't deserve it. I suspect he's hurting more > > > > > > > > > than any of us can understand. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice > > given by > > > >licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or > > licensed > > > >health care professional before commencing any medical > treatment. > > > > > > > > " Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians > > mislead you. > > > >Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about > > how to live > > > >a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus > > ing, > > > >two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace) > > > > > > > >See our photos website! Enter " implants " for access at this > link: > > > > > > ><http://.shutterfly.com/action/>http://.sh > > utterfly.com/action/ > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 I haven't taken any pictures since the explant, but I'll make sure to do that and post them. I'm no fashion model with my top off, but I wasn't before the implant surgery, either! I never had much breast tissue, but I don't think I lost any after the explant. I think bra size depends on the manufacturer sometimes, but I do believe that a 32B is somewhat equivalent to 34A, because I know when I had the implants I could wear a 34C or a 36B. With my natural shape I just wear what feels good and looks good, and sometimes that's a 32, sometimes it's a 34. I'm trying my best to be as positive as I can. Believe me, I have my sad days, but I push them away and try not to dwell on it too much. I was so depressed before the explants that I just don't want to go there again. I had a stretch where I was feeling very energetic and now it's followed by a spell where I'm not feeling very well. Could be when I felt energetic I did too much and my body wants me to slow it down a bit. Could be stress from final exams, could be hormones are impacting things at the moment. All I know is that this is the only life I've got - and I hope I don't have to be sick for a real long time, hopefully I'll be back to my old self eventually, but if I'm not I still have to make the best of each day. Plus there are still people who have it worse than me - we just lost a friend to a heart attack a few months back, and now another friend of ours has cancer. Sis > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The other day on CNN they were saying that the > stress > > > > > > > > > > test given right after returning from Iraq doesn't > > > > > > > > > > tell the whole story. They need to be retested at > > > > > > > > > > least three months later. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Keeping demonstrating your love for him . . . even > if > > > > > > > > > > he doesn't deserve it. I suspect he's hurting more > > > > > > > > > > than any of us can understand. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice > > > given by > > > > >licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or > > > licensed > > > > >health care professional before commencing any medical > > treatment. > > > > > > > > > > " Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians > > > mislead you. > > > > >Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions > about > > > how to live > > > > >a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus > > > ing, > > > > >two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace) > > > > > > > > > >See our photos website! Enter " implants " for access at this > > link: > > > > > > > > > > ><http://.shutterfly.com/action/>http://.sh > > > utterfly.com/action/ > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 Exams create a lot of stress. I would not be surprised if you are fatigued or feeling lousy afterwards. Give yourself a rest, and understand that this is temporary. This too will pass. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The other day on CNN they were saying that the > > stress > > > > > > > > > > > test given right after returning from Iraq > doesn't > > > > > > > > > > > tell the whole story. They need to be retested at > > > > > > > > > > > least three months later. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Keeping demonstrating your love for him . . . > even > > if > > > > > > > > > > > he doesn't deserve it. I suspect he's hurting > more > > > > > > > > > > > than any of us can understand. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of > advice > > > > given by > > > > > >licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician > or > > > > licensed > > > > > >health care professional before commencing any medical > > > treatment. > > > > > > > > > > > > " Do not let either the medical authorities or the > politicians > > > > mislead you. > > > > > >Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions > > about > > > > how to live > > > > > >a happy life and how to work for a better world. " - Linus > > > > ing, > > > > > >two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace) > > > > > > > > > > > >See our photos website! Enter " implants " for access at this > > > link: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ><http://.shutterfly.com/action/>http://.sh > > > > utterfly.com/action/ > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2005 Report Share Posted December 19, 2005 , I've been reading your posts and really feel for the difficulty you've been having. It sounds so heart-wrenching. Is there any way to get your husband to agree to couples therapy? Obviously something is going on that he isn't able to talk about right now. It sounds complex--post-war trauma; your implants and their effects physically, financially, emotionally; the current difficulties with intimacy and the fear of losing your marriage; your worries about your son feeling loved...Whew! Poor thing, you're swamped. Even if you can't get your husband to go with you to counseling, it might help you to try and find some emotional support for yourself, whether it be with a therapist, meditation practice, women's group. Try and focus on nurturing yourself as best you can while you wait to have the surgery. Make that your main focus if you can. Of course trying to be loving toward your husband is important,but not to the exclusion of yours and your children's needs. Maybe it would be better to put off major relationship problem solving until afterwards. Getting the surgery out of the way will change things for the better, really. It won't solve all your problems but it will be a HUGE burden lifted. Hang in there! Melinda > > , > > Sex starts in the head . . . A lot is communicated > through the eyes . . . Boobs really are secondary (or > fourth . . . fifth . . etc.). > > Would you think your husband was sexy if you know he > had fake buns? And assuming he did, how would you feel > if you found out they were making him sick? > > You're going to be fine . . . This includes being > sexy! . . . > > It's wonderful your hubby is coming around . . . You > may have to do more than your share of work on the > marriage for a while - but if you'll work at being > loving and gentle with him, things will start getting > better and better! > > Hugs and prayers, > > Rogene > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2005 Report Share Posted December 19, 2005 - I second what Melinda is saying, even if your husband won't attend counseling with you, get some for yourself. I've been going and it's done a world of good. Even the slightest change in one person in the household has an impact on the whole household. I learned how to deal with behaviors in my husband and myself, and when I changed my reaction to things, my husband's reaction changed as well. For example, just the fact that I told him I wasn't going to tolerate the silent treatment anymore made him stop giving it to me (not to say he won't fall into his pattern again in the future, but I know what to do when it happens again). My counselor also taught me some relaxation techniques that only take about 5 minutes to do, but it helps so much. Hi Melinda - the party sounded great! I've missed you, glad to see you're doing ok. Sis > > , > I've been reading your posts and really feel for the difficulty > you've been having. It sounds so heart-wrenching. Is there any way > to get your husband to agree to couples therapy? Obviously something > is going on that he isn't able to talk about right now. It sounds > complex--post-war trauma; your implants and their effects > physically, financially, emotionally; the current difficulties with > intimacy and the fear of losing your marriage; your worries about > your son feeling loved...Whew! Poor thing, you're swamped. > > Even if you can't get your husband to go with you to counseling, it > might help you to try and find some emotional support for yourself, > whether it be with a therapist, meditation practice, women's group. > Try and focus on nurturing yourself as best you can while you wait > to have the surgery. Make that your main focus if you can. Of course > trying to be loving toward your husband is important,but not to the > exclusion of yours and your children's needs. Maybe it would be > better to put off major relationship problem solving until > afterwards. Getting the surgery out of the way will change things > for the better, really. It won't solve all your problems but it will > be a HUGE burden lifted. Hang in there! > Melinda > > > --- In , Rogene S <saxony01@y...> wrote: > > > > , > > > > Sex starts in the head . . . A lot is communicated > > through the eyes . . . Boobs really are secondary (or > > fourth . . . fifth . . etc.). > > > > Would you think your husband was sexy if you know he > > had fake buns? And assuming he did, how would you feel > > if you found out they were making him sick? > > > > You're going to be fine . . . This includes being > > sexy! . . . > > > > It's wonderful your hubby is coming around . . . You > > may have to do more than your share of work on the > > marriage for a while - but if you'll work at being > > loving and gentle with him, things will start getting > > better and better! > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > Rogene > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2005 Report Share Posted December 19, 2005 Hi Sis, Thanks for the kind words. How are YOU doing? Are you progressing? Sometimes I think I am, then I have a setback. The party I threw knocked me out, made all the symptoms come roaring back, but then again, there's no way I could have thrown a party while I still had the implants. I guess I am getting better! I use cilantro a lot (it helps that I love Mexican food!).I didn't know that about the spirulina. I've also read that in addition to tumeric, ginger is a good anti-inflammatory. Ciao- Melinda > > > > > > , > > > > > > Sex starts in the head . . . A lot is communicated > > > through the eyes . . . Boobs really are secondary (or > > > fourth . . . fifth . . etc.). > > > > > > Would you think your husband was sexy if you know he > > > had fake buns? And assuming he did, how would you feel > > > if you found out they were making him sick? > > > > > > You're going to be fine . . . This includes being > > > sexy! . . . > > > > > > It's wonderful your hubby is coming around . . . You > > > may have to do more than your share of work on the > > > marriage for a while - but if you'll work at being > > > loving and gentle with him, things will start getting > > > better and better! > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2005 Report Share Posted December 19, 2005 Hi Melinda, Since we both had our explants about 6 weeks ago, it's definitely helpful to compare notes. I'm finding the same thing, I was progressing for a few weeks, but then had a setback. Last week I was reporting on how much energy I had, and this week my joints are swelling up again, my head is hurting, and I'm dizzy. Plus with all that's going on lately with school and the holidays, I'm not drinking as much water as I should, not eating as well as I should, and just overall a bit stressed. Not a good combination for healing. Sis > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > Sex starts in the head . . . A lot is communicated > > > > through the eyes . . . Boobs really are secondary (or > > > > fourth . . . fifth . . etc.). > > > > > > > > Would you think your husband was sexy if you know he > > > > had fake buns? And assuming he did, how would you feel > > > > if you found out they were making him sick? > > > > > > > > You're going to be fine . . . This includes being > > > > sexy! . . . > > > > > > > > It's wonderful your hubby is coming around . . . You > > > > may have to do more than your share of work on the > > > > marriage for a while - but if you'll work at being > > > > loving and gentle with him, things will start getting > > > > better and better! > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2005 Report Share Posted December 19, 2005 Sis- That's so interesting. I have the same symptoms, joints, headache and dizziness. It's somehow comforting to know that you have the same, helps me to think that it isn't just me. I find it's easy to become doubtful and start thinking that maybe I was wrong, maybe it wasn't the implants, maybe I'm just permanently #*%@ed up! Hopefully we'll both keep comparing notes, and at some future time we'll find there's nothing left to report. Melinda > > > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > > > Sex starts in the head . . . A lot is communicated > > > > > through the eyes . . . Boobs really are secondary (or > > > > > fourth . . . fifth . . etc.). > > > > > > > > > > Would you think your husband was sexy if you know he > > > > > had fake buns? And assuming he did, how would you feel > > > > > if you found out they were making him sick? > > > > > > > > > > You're going to be fine . . . This includes being > > > > > sexy! . . . > > > > > > > > > > It's wonderful your hubby is coming around . . . You > > > > > may have to do more than your share of work on the > > > > > marriage for a while - but if you'll work at being > > > > > loving and gentle with him, things will start getting > > > > > better and better! > > > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2005 Report Share Posted December 19, 2005 Melinda, wow, that is pretty uncanny, isn't it? I worry about being messed up for life, too, but I don't doubt that it was the implants that messed me up. It really is comforting to know I'm not alone in this, even though I hate that anyone else has to suffer. I'm just glad the buggers are out of my body. Sis > > > > > > > > > > > > , > > > > > > > > > > > > Sex starts in the head . . . A lot is communicated > > > > > > through the eyes . . . Boobs really are secondary (or > > > > > > fourth . . . fifth . . etc.). > > > > > > > > > > > > Would you think your husband was sexy if you know he > > > > > > had fake buns? And assuming he did, how would you feel > > > > > > if you found out they were making him sick? > > > > > > > > > > > > You're going to be fine . . . This includes being > > > > > > sexy! . . . > > > > > > > > > > > > It's wonderful your hubby is coming around . . . You > > > > > > may have to do more than your share of work on the > > > > > > marriage for a while - but if you'll work at being > > > > > > loving and gentle with him, things will start getting > > > > > > better and better! > > > > > > > > > > > > Hugs and prayers, > > > > > > > > > > > > Rogene > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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